Why Dating Is Ruined In 2022

[Preacher]

2 Timothy 3:1-5 "In the last days, terrible times will come. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, abusive, disobedient, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderous, without self control, brutal, without love of good, traitorous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying it's power."

We are experiencing those exact behaviors in people today! We are living in the end times! Even the Bible, clear as crystal in 2 Timothy 3:1-5, predicted that, in the last days before the Lord's return, people would become fake, inauthentic, toxic, soulless, disconnected, immature, hateful, and superficial. And it's spreading around the globe like an unstoppable wildfire fanned by 100+ mph Santa Ana winds. I wouldn't be a single bit surprised if Jesus returned during the 21st Century.

[Mew6ix]

2 Timothy 3:1-5 "In the last days, terrible times will come. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, abusive, disobedient, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderous, without self control, brutal, without love of good, traitorous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying it's power."

We are experiencing those exact behaviors in people today! We are living in the end times! Even the Bible, clear as crystal in 2 Timothy 3:1-5, predicted that, in the last days before the Lord's return, people would become fake, inauthentic, toxic, soulless, disconnected, immature, hateful, and superficial. And it's spreading around the globe like an unstoppable wildfire fanned by 100+ mph Santa Ana winds. I wouldn't be a single bit surprised if Jesus returned during the 21st Century.

Toronto feminists are naked with children and faggots are showing their dicks to kids at Pride.

[Pixel--Dude]

I feel like I wasted my 20s trying to meet women throughout CA, I never did go to clubs and I tried the dating online back in the early 2000s..But ever since everything started to deteriorate it's gotten harder for me to meet women at all, the motivation doesn't feel there anymore. Plus getting rejected by average females always sucked. I can understand why the attractive ones do it, and it's because of their garbage egos. But average ordinary girls doing this is even worse because many men in the West are desperate as hell for female attention and company but ordinary women will take complete advantage of this and reject every guy coming on to them.

The only time a girl did give me the time of day was a few overweight ones. Like the one I met in College, and then there was a gothic one that sent me an interest on this Gothic dating site I used a few times back in my 20s but none of them were attractive. I use to try a lot of platforms like meetup.com or tribe.net I had no luck with those either. I don't know, I just hate the games you have to play with women these days...Like that whole "don't call until after 3 weeks" and shit like this just makes pursuing women useless. I miss the jr high days when the girl had no problem calling me every day, I can kind of see why some guys wish they could legally go after under age girls, but I doubt the ones today are anything like the ones from back when I was a teenager.

It just seemed like girls were always showing interest in me in my Jr High school years, but I was such a shy person that I always ignored them. By the time I got into high school, shit really changed and girls became harder to date.
I do remember meeting this one white woman off a site once and she went to my college. For some reason she showed me a picture and was living with two other men who she referred to as "her boys." She had one child, and when I finally did meet her in person I just looked at this plain ass average looking white woman thinking to myself "God, why do I even bother anymore?" She was also a smoker, somewhat had bad teeth but not extremely bad or decaying. But for a 28 year old she looked sort of 40 already. She had no interest in me either, but I can tell judging from the photo she showed with the two cuckolding looking males on her right and left side with her in the middle that she was enjoying the attention she was getting from the both of them. Plus she lived with them which was a big hell no for me aside from the fact she was also a smoker and was aging rather quickly.

Yeah, when I was in school I wasn't a hit with the ladies at all. I was largely ignored at school and suffered some minor bullying in the form of name calling and petty shit like that. Mostly from girls actually. So I was never interested in dating any of these bitches.

I find I tend to find women the most when I'm not even looking for one. I pursue women, they reject me and then I accept being alone and even kind of enjoy it in some respects. Then a girl appears in my life and I'm in a relationship. Been single about a year now and at the moment there is only one woman I would consider dating, but she lives pretty far away.

Smokers don't really do anything for me. Like you said they age much faster and this is worse if they are big into pub culture as well. The truth is mate that a lot of women aren't even worth bothering with. A pub or dating site are okay to find women as a "quick fix" kind of thing, but often times the best ones are ones you can form a friendship with first. You get to know them and the foundation of trust, which is the most important thing in any relationship, is already firmly established.

[WanderingProtagonist]

I feel like I wasted my 20s trying to meet women throughout CA, I never did go to clubs and I tried the dating online back in the early 2000s..But ever since everything started to deteriorate it's gotten harder for me to meet women at all, the motivation doesn't feel there anymore. Plus getting rejected by average females always sucked. I can understand why the attractive ones do it, and it's because of their garbage egos. But average ordinary girls doing this is even worse because many men in the West are desperate as hell for female attention and company but ordinary women will take complete advantage of this and reject every guy coming on to them.

The only time a girl did give me the time of day was a few overweight ones. Like the one I met in College, and then there was a gothic one that sent me an interest on this Gothic dating site I used a few times back in my 20s but none of them were attractive. I use to try a lot of platforms like meetup.com or tribe.net I had no luck with those either. I don't know, I just hate the games you have to play with women these days...Like that whole "don't call until after 3 weeks" and shit like this just makes pursuing women useless. I miss the jr high days when the girl had no problem calling me every day, I can kind of see why some guys wish they could legally go after under age girls, but I doubt the ones today are anything like the ones from back when I was a teenager.

It just seemed like girls were always showing interest in me in my Jr High school years, but I was such a shy person that I always ignored them. By the time I got into high school, shit really changed and girls became harder to date.
I do remember meeting this one white woman off a site once and she went to my college. For some reason she showed me a picture and was living with two other men who she referred to as "her boys." She had one child, and when I finally did meet her in person I just looked at this plain ass average looking white woman thinking to myself "God, why do I even bother anymore?" She was also a smoker, somewhat had bad teeth but not extremely bad or decaying. But for a 28 year old she looked sort of 40 already. She had no interest in me either, but I can tell judging from the photo she showed with the two cuckolding looking males on her right and left side with her in the middle that she was enjoying the attention she was getting from the both of them. Plus she lived with them which was a big hell no for me aside from the fact she was also a smoker and was aging rather quickly.

Yeah, when I was in school I wasn't a hit with the ladies at all. I was largely ignored at school and suffered some minor bullying in the form of name calling and petty shit like that. Mostly from girls actually. So I was never interested in dating any of these bitches.

I find I tend to find women the most when I'm not even looking for one. I pursue women, they reject me and then I accept being alone and even kind of enjoy it in some respects. Then a girl appears in my life and I'm in a relationship. Been single about a year now and at the moment there is only one woman I would consider dating, but she lives pretty far away.

Smokers don't really do anything for me. Like you said they age much faster and this is worse if they are big into pub culture as well. The truth is mate that a lot of women aren't even worth bothering with. A pub or dating site are okay to find women as a "quick fix" kind of thing, but often times the best ones are ones you can form a friendship with first. You get to know them and the foundation of trust, which is the most important thing in any relationship, is already firmly established.

lol I use to get turned off every time a girl said "looking for a friend first." And they were all saying that, it's just their way of saying I'm never going to date you, just be my male/female friend. F that. I remember I tried to be friends with a girl in Highschool I use to make out with a lot, and I recall her saying to me if I like her I will wait for her..I did that and this bitch went right back to her ex-lover...Then when I bumped into her in the hall she goes "You act like you don't want to talk to me anymore." I just looked at her and raised my brow like the Rock "are you f***ing serious?! What do I look like, your f*king number two?" Ever since then I never talked to her again. I did date this Muslim girl in Jr high but after she went to a different highschool, she cut off her long hair and went full blown hood rat with a side of feminism....I remember her talking to someone on the phone and she said "nigga." I knew right then and there I wasn't going to try to make shit work with her again. Us splitting up was unusual because all I remember is after Jr high we lost touch, she never called or visit or anything like she did when were just Pre-teens.

she use to be a sweet person too, wrote nice letters, left kiss marks on each one, but society definitely ruined her after jr High. She was through once that garbage hood life culture caught on with her after hanging around with a lot of black males, plus she even got into smoking marijuana too. Shitty nigs changing a once beautiful person into another worthless female of modern society. After they got done ruining her, feminism came in to finish her off.

[Yohan]

Toronto feminists are naked with children and faggots are showing their dicks to kids at Pride.

And Mercury has Tourettes Syndrome, involuntarily bound to endlessly repeat the same shit over and over and over again like a broken record.

This comment was posted by Mew6ix, not by Mercury.
Toronto is obviously not a nice city for men to meet a friendly female.

Toronto is known for the organization of the first SLUTWALK.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SlutWalk

[Yohan]

..... when I was in school I wasn't a hit with the ladies at all. I was largely ignored at school and suffered some minor bullying in the form of name calling and petty shit like that. Mostly from girls actually. So I was never interested in dating any of these bitches.

This comment above could be written by myself....

[Yohan]

lol I use to get turned off every time a girl said "looking for a friend first." And they were all saying that, it's just their way of saying I'm never going to date you, just be my male/female friend. F that. I remember I tried to be friends with a girl in Highschool I use to make out with a lot, and I recall her saying to me if I like her I will wait for her..I did that and this bitch went right back to her ex-lover...Then when I bumped into her in the hall she goes "You act like you don't want to talk to me anymore." I just looked at her and raised my brow like the Rock "are you f***ing serious?! What do I look like, your f*king number two?"

Just be my good friend.... LOL

Exactly the same happened also to me, but only one time in my life, within the Chinese community near London. I realised soon, that any woman living in UK is nothing but a 'Western woman' regardless her ancrestry.

I heard similar stories also from the States.

Some BS-talk like 'I am only for you, but I want to finish some studies first, please wait for me...' There was also some talk about 'could you help me a bit financially with my expenses for housing and school.. ' etc.

It happened to me only one time, as I was totally unexperienced yet, and it was a waste of time and money.

[Mew6ix]

Toronto feminists are naked with children and faggots are showing their dicks to kids at Pride.

And Mercury has Tourettes Syndrome, involuntarily bound to endlessly repeat the same shit over and over and over again like a broken record.

This comment was posted by Mew6ix, not by Mercury.
Toronto is obviously not a nice city for men to meet a friendly female.

Toronto is known for the organization of the first SLUTWALK.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SlutWalk

Toronto is a wannabe America with more British colonial laws.

The city worsens mental deprivation. It's because when guys approach women here in Toronto, the Toronto Police contact the man in his apartment and gets his reputation in trouble.

Men are afraid of approaching womyn in Toronto because the police are known to violate the constitution just to protect the Canadian woman. Many men have faced the wrath of the Toronto feminist like Gregory Allan Elliot, Jian Ghomeshi, and recently that Hedley rockstar.

You don't want to end up in the feminist Whore of Babylon system at all in Toronto.

[WanderingProtagonist]

lol I use to get turned off every time a girl said "looking for a friend first." And they were all saying that, it's just their way of saying I'm never going to date you, just be my male/female friend. F that. I remember I tried to be friends with a girl in Highschool I use to make out with a lot, and I recall her saying to me if I like her I will wait for her..I did that and this bitch went right back to her ex-lover...Then when I bumped into her in the hall she goes "You act like you don't want to talk to me anymore." I just looked at her and raised my brow like the Rock "are you f***ing serious?! What do I look like, your f*king number two?"

Just be my good friend.... LOL

Exactly the same happened also to me, but only one time in my life, within the Chinese community near London. I realised soon, that any woman living in UK is nothing but a 'Western woman' regardless her ancrestry.

I heard similar stories also from the States.

Some BS-talk like 'I am only for you, but I want to finish some studies first, please wait for me...' There was also some talk about 'could you help me a bit financially with my expenses for housing and school.. ' etc.

It happened to me only one time, as I was totally unexperienced yet, and it was a waste of time and money.

That's because it is like that when they move here, I worked at a security company once and my boss said he didn't want any Asian women from the U.S. because they were too Westernized, but he spent over $30,000 running back and forth to Cambodia just to meet a woman who he finally did marry and bring back to the U.S. He use to rag on Asian American women a lot though saying how they were no different from any of the other ones in the States. A lot of people are warned about bringing women from other countries back to the States because over time they will get changed and spoiled by the shitty culture. Although I believe this may be true only with younger women from Abroad since his wife was in her 30s and I remember him saying it looked like her hair was graying a little... So definitely I don't see a woman like that turning on her husband or becoming Westernized as long as they want someone serious in their lives.

[kangarunner]

https://captaincapitalism.blogspot.com/ ... e-men.html

[Taco]

[WanderingProtagonist]

Why do people post these videos and never have anything to say about them?

[Pixel--Dude]

I feel like I wasted my 20s trying to meet women throughout CA, I never did go to clubs and I tried the dating online back in the early 2000s..But ever since everything started to deteriorate it's gotten harder for me to meet women at all, the motivation doesn't feel there anymore. Plus getting rejected by average females always sucked. I can understand why the attractive ones do it, and it's because of their garbage egos. But average ordinary girls doing this is even worse because many men in the West are desperate as hell for female attention and company but ordinary women will take complete advantage of this and reject every guy coming on to them.

The only time a girl did give me the time of day was a few overweight ones. Like the one I met in College, and then there was a gothic one that sent me an interest on this Gothic dating site I used a few times back in my 20s but none of them were attractive. I use to try a lot of platforms like meetup.com or tribe.net I had no luck with those either. I don't know, I just hate the games you have to play with women these days...Like that whole "don't call until after 3 weeks" and shit like this just makes pursuing women useless. I miss the jr high days when the girl had no problem calling me every day, I can kind of see why some guys wish they could legally go after under age girls, but I doubt the ones today are anything like the ones from back when I was a teenager.

It just seemed like girls were always showing interest in me in my Jr High school years, but I was such a shy person that I always ignored them. By the time I got into high school, shit really changed and girls became harder to date.
I do remember meeting this one white woman off a site once and she went to my college. For some reason she showed me a picture and was living with two other men who she referred to as "her boys." She had one child, and when I finally did meet her in person I just looked at this plain ass average looking white woman thinking to myself "God, why do I even bother anymore?" She was also a smoker, somewhat had bad teeth but not extremely bad or decaying. But for a 28 year old she looked sort of 40 already. She had no interest in me either, but I can tell judging from the photo she showed with the two cuckolding looking males on her right and left side with her in the middle that she was enjoying the attention she was getting from the both of them. Plus she lived with them which was a big hell no for me aside from the fact she was also a smoker and was aging rather quickly.

Yeah, when I was in school I wasn't a hit with the ladies at all. I was largely ignored at school and suffered some minor bullying in the form of name calling and petty shit like that. Mostly from girls actually. So I was never interested in dating any of these bitches.

I find I tend to find women the most when I'm not even looking for one. I pursue women, they reject me and then I accept being alone and even kind of enjoy it in some respects. Then a girl appears in my life and I'm in a relationship. Been single about a year now and at the moment there is only one woman I would consider dating, but she lives pretty far away.

Smokers don't really do anything for me. Like you said they age much faster and this is worse if they are big into pub culture as well. The truth is mate that a lot of women aren't even worth bothering with. A pub or dating site are okay to find women as a "quick fix" kind of thing, but often times the best ones are ones you can form a friendship with first. You get to know them and the foundation of trust, which is the most important thing in any relationship, is already firmly established.

lol I use to get turned off every time a girl said "looking for a friend first." And they were all saying that, it's just their way of saying I'm never going to date you, just be my male/female friend. F that. I remember I tried to be friends with a girl in Highschool I use to make out with a lot, and I recall her saying to me if I like her I will wait for her..I did that and this bitch went right back to her ex-lover...Then when I bumped into her in the hall she goes "You act like you don't want to talk to me anymore." I just looked at her and raised my brow like the Rock "are you f***ing serious?! What do I look like, your f*king number two?" Ever since then I never talked to her again. I did date this Muslim girl in Jr high but after she went to a different highschool, she cut off her long hair and went full blown hood rat with a side of feminism....I remember her talking to someone on the phone and she said "nigga." I knew right then and there I wasn't going to try to make shit work with her again. Us splitting up was unusual because all I remember is after Jr high we lost touch, she never called or visit or anything like she did when were just Pre-teens.

she use to be a sweet person too, wrote nice letters, left kiss marks on each one, but society definitely ruined her after jr High. She was through once that garbage hood life culture caught on with her after hanging around with a lot of black males, plus she even got into smoking marijuana too. Shitty nigs changing a once beautiful person into another worthless female of modern society. After they got done ruining her, feminism came in to finish her off.

That's a shame mate. It sounds like you've had some shit luck with women! Hopefully mate you'll meet a decent woman eventually that makes you happy. There are little gems out there in the mountains of shit that feminism created.

I used to have a girl who wrote me letters, she wrote them addressed to my PlayStation ID though because that's how I met her. She eventually added me on Facebook because she was pretty shy. Honestly, she was gorgeous. I wasn't expecting her to be so pretty. Things always go to shit in platonic friendships when one starts getting feelings for the other I tried flirting with her a few times and she got mad with me and blocked me. Never heard from her since.

I've also been in a position where I turned a girl down because she was trying to use me to make her ex jealous. Which is pretty childish and shitty behaviour!

I was dating a Polish girl who really loved me! Maybe more than I was comfortable with. She wanted someone with her all the time. And I value my time alone. We ended up breaking up all of a sudden over an incident. But @Lucas88 reckons we would've broken up anyway because of her possessiveness. But all in all she was a good woman who knew how to treat her man.

At the moment I'm talking to a black girl who I find really attractive and get on with really well. But tell me what you think of this? She flirts with me quite a bit but at the same time she has a boyfriend

Since breaking up with the Polish girl last year I haven't been on a proper date since or got close with any girls. I did some volunteering work where I met a nice girl, but I never got chance to get close to her. I have no interest at all in dating sites or meeting chicks in bars.

[castlebasetone]

Why dating Is ruined In 2022?

Generally said, if you depend on women from the States, Canada, wide parts of Europe - and cannot relocate to other countries for whatever reason, it is surely better you stay single as a man. Sad, but true.

This was such a great post @Yohan

Appreciate the encouraging overview, as I am 2 weeks away now from making the move.

If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you now and how old were you when you left Europe? Did you ever marry or settle into an LTR in Japan or elsewhere?

[Yohan]

Appreciate the encouraging overview, as I am 2 weeks away now from making the move.
If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you now and how old were you when you left Europe? Did you ever marry or settle into an LTR in Japan or elsewhere?

@castlebasetone
To answer your question, I was 20 when I left Europe for the first time, ending up in Malaysia among Chinese people, but this did not work out as expected. Later on moved to Japan, now married with a Japanese woman since 45 years, and with 2 daughters and 2 granddaughters and also with a Filipina fosterdaughter, wife and I we are 70, daughters 43 and 40, granddaughters 2 and 5, Filipina fosterdaughter living in Cebu is 27.

After my retirement we moved out of Tokyo to a less busy city, living now a bit outside of central Okayama/Kurashiki between Osaka/Kobe and Hiroshima, not so crowded, but still about 1.2 million people are here.

I never came back to Europe after moving to Japan, but I visit frequently a few Asian countries and I have a second home for holidays/retirement in Thailand.

Wishing you the best for your relocation - to where do you intend to move?