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Interesting. I'll have to watch it later, since I have a job interview later today. Never heard Sandman talk more than 20 minutes at a time.

Shogun.

I can't comment on problems with interracial dating in Seattle. I do have a contact in Seattle but he's leaving soon plus he's over 40. He is not a good case study let's put it that way. Sigh, race matter in America because America makes it matter. Based on how the media portrays all the different ...

Anyway, yeah I noticed the same about Washington state too. People always say it's so friendly. But it turns out they are just referring to superficial politeness. To me, friendliness means being social and engaging and having meaningful conversations with others. When I go to hostels in Russia or ...

A real man doesn't worry about BS because testosterone makes him SMART and unbreakable. Okay, stop with this a real man bulls@#%. How does testosterone make you "smart" or "unbreakable"? I've seen some of the must testosterone filled men act dumb as a sack of masonry bricks. In other words, BS is j...

BlackKnight wrote: I said it before: A lot of men are frustrated in dating because they lack MALE testosterone

In this regard, getting laid is easy. Finding an LTR worth pursuing while not dealing with all the bulls@#% is not.

Shogun.

There might be some truth to what your saying about my ex, but that said, I wanted to marry her I could have and we would still be married. Based on that, I am not sure if they proves your point much, other than to say thinner women are responded to better, which is obvious in a country obsessed wi...

I made her loose weight, she wasn't a Fattie anymore, only for a short period (about a year). She still had 50lbs or so too lose when I broke up but the difference was night and day and other men started to notice her more. Hence my point. A thin woman has a greater set of options than a fat one, e...

Considering that my faith is the most important, most self-defining thing about me throughout my young adult life, I've recently started to search (again) for women in church circles. I suppose there's more churches I could visit, perhaps take a class at a Christian university. Yeah, it's pretty sl...

Define successful... Having the finances to attract females. Because while one of my long-term GF's was a BBW (I made her lose weight), she's currently married a White guy so I'm not sure she would be "undesirable" to White men because obviously she wasn't to him. White men typically don't like BBW...

Apparently 70% of American men between the ages of 20-34 aren't married. That's crazy and unheard of! Most of my mom and dad's generation were married by their mid 20s. Things are definitely changing. http://cnsnews.com/news/article/barbara-hollingsworth/bachelor-nation-70-men-aged-20-34-are-not-ma...

Successful Black men have married White women way before it was fashionable on both sides of the Atlantic. Keyword: successful. If you're average, you can forget about getting a decent white chick, if that's what you're into. That's probably black men are with these trashy white women that even the...

Most guys find wives in America. The trick is the timing. When you're in your 20s, you're supposed to be incel. When she is in her 20s, she's supposed to ride the carousel with a variety of Chad Thundercocks. When you're in your 30s, you start becoming more successful professionally and financially...

Some Black men really need this to be true. They need it so much they go running all over the internet posting it everywhere. It is easier on their pysche to believe that it is "Black men" in aggregrate instead of that maybe it may have a little something to do with themselves on an individual leve...

Interesting topic. Now, before I share my opinion on this matter, I just wanted to say that as a black man, I do almost fully agree with the OP. Dating in the U.S. is indeed very hard for a black man. I live in a very liberal city where virtually everyone loves to say that they aren't racist (and I'...