Are western men who marry Filipinas usually losers?

[marklambo]

Banano, It's a poor country, and there are many young people. Simple supply and demand explains your observation, just as the same equation with different variables explains the predicament of many men who seek female companionship in rich countries with few young people.

No there's more to it than that. Consider some countries which on per-capita basis are poorer such as
- India
- Vietnam
- Cambodia
- Uzbekistan
- Laos
- Ghana
- Kenya
- Uganda
- Nepal
- Haiti
- Ethiopia
- Madagascar
- Others

Why don't any of those countries seem as extreme as Banano describes Phils? India is particularly bad and most of the others are still significantly more difficult for the very old and/or ugly foreigners who wanna get the very young girls in LTR.

but dont forget...many of these women who have no standards lool like skeletor

lol, she's gross haha

[foodchain11]

..who could not get a western woman to love them?

I have started to think seriously about getting a filipina, because let's face it, all that a westernised woman is going to bring to your marriage is problems; nagging, drama, bickering, arguments about money, etc. Whereas a filipina could bring you the following (I hope):

-cooking
-cleaning
-ironing
-having sex
-sucking your dick (although im not really into that)
-shutting the f**k up
-children

In other words, basically a maid who you can f**k. Can anybody here whose married to a filipina testify that they do the above? Or am I dreaming?

I don't think it's just for losers. My brother is a very successful lawyer, 50 y.o., who lost almost everything in a divorce some years ago. Since then he has attracted lots of amazing women but has felt that they put too much pressure on him for marriage and while fun can often be manipulative in some heavy-handed ways. Last year he got married to a 29 y.o. filipina yoga instructor that he had met in Hong Kong (she looks like she's 20). Quite dark-skinned; I believe she is from Cebu island. She's not the brightest bulb to say the least, but is as sweet and nice as they come, and has easily the best body i've ever seen on a grown woman. She's very tiny, maybe 85 lbs., but has the proportions of a supermodel. And he's quite tall. But they are a cute couple and while I realize it's too early to really tell, she doesn't seem to give him any problems at all. My sense is that she is utterly submissive and basically exists to please him.

The only thing that may be hard is that she's not very smart (I know, what a surprise!!).

It's kind of cute, because he is a rather conservative, well dressed lawyer and she dresses like a little tart, but all in good fun. She had his name tattooed onto her lower back, and she has belly and tongue rings, and very very long perfect black hair. Wears the most insanely tiny bikinis you've ever seen, at our backyard parties. Medium-length ultra-glossy perfect red nails. She is about the cleanest, most well-groomed person I know -- you just immediately sense how fresh and immaculately clean she is.

So you have this ultrasexy/slightly trashy tiny dark-skinned girl with a big smile and this well-dressed conservative-looking lawyer. That sounds crazy, but somehow it works.

I know my brother does not want to have any more kids (he has two grown ones) and is probably more focused on having a hot wife than another mom.

Anyway, hard not to smile when you meet them. He has worked his butt off for years, only to lose everything in a divorce, and is now asked to pay by himself for Ivy League colleges for his kids ... yikes. I think he just needed a break from the Western prep-school type of girl -- can be pretty unpleasant as they age. Plus, after a lifetime of serving clients, I feel like it is appropriate that he has a very very hot, tiny girl who clearly adores him. Not too trashy -- just kind of poised at the intersection of sexy, a little trashy, lovely and adorable. Heels just slightly too high; shorts just slightly too short; the tiniest swimsuits ever seen on the planet; gigantic sexy mouth with perfect white teeth, long pierced tongue (which she loves to show him!), and lips that are always perfectly glossed -- but utterly loyal and loving and quick with a knowing smile, too.

Lawyers usually care very very very much what you think about them and how they are perceived in the community. I hope this girl doesn't raise too many eyebrows for him, but I can't see my brother marrying some old silver-haired doyenne either. I think most of his male friends are like, "that's cool," and most of his female friends are slightly bothered by this overly sexed-up girl in their presence but they can deal.

Obviously there are some situations where she might not fit in, and I suppose he just has to plan for that. Obviously he's not going to take her to dinner meetings with his law partners, and that's okay. There are probably some upscale events where she might not fit in. But I think his kids are just fine with her. Plus, I bet that what greets him at the door every evening is worth the compromises!

[polya]

..who could not get a western woman to love them?

I have started to think seriously about getting a filipina, because let's face it, all that a westernised woman is going to bring to your marriage is problems; nagging, drama, bickering, arguments about money, etc. Whereas a filipina could bring you the following (I hope):

-cooking
-cleaning
-ironing
-having sex
-sucking your dick (although im not really into that)
-shutting the f**k up
-children

In other words, basically a maid who you can f**k. Can anybody here whose married to a filipina testify that they do the above? Or am I dreaming?

False premises:

Western women are incapable of love or true pair bonding. Western women intentionally unlearned how to cook, rear children and how to be a good wife in general. Nor do they want to have children. If so it will be one or two at most (and I think a great number of women dont want children at all).

A man can not be a loser in these instances because even a winner can't get women to do these things. WW simply do not have these characteristics within them.

I cant think of one redeeming characteristic for WW. Not even sex, because they only prefer it with low-lifes, and many of them will just lay there. Also, all the sex they've had with random thugs they met at clubs makes them ineligible for marriage.

Damn right - and WW are usually unproductive workers who leave the hard jobs for the men to do e.g. Policewomen rarely do more than traffic duties, but expect the same pay! LOL

[polya]

..who could not get a western woman to love them?

I have started to think seriously about getting a filipina, because let's face it, all that a westernised woman is going to bring to your marriage is problems; nagging, drama, bickering, arguments about money, etc. Whereas a filipina could bring you the following (I hope):

-cooking
-cleaning
-ironing
-having sex
-sucking your dick (although im not really into that)
-shutting the f**k up
-children

In other words, basically a maid who you can f**k. Can anybody here whose married to a filipina testify that they do the above? Or am I dreaming?

You sound like you're looking for a slave not wife.

You will start noticing that probably 50% of the "men" here are like this. In fact if there was a robot surrogate that they could f**k, that does house chores, they would prefer that, unless it cost too much.

Don't knock robot women until you've tried them! Anyway, they can create software or drive taxis at night to make you extra cash to pay for their up-grades e.g. life-like rear passage

[ChampionKaji]

They might be losers in their home countries, but if they are happy with what they get, they are winners. Filipinas are hideous to me, so I wouldn't call that winning, but if they can live happily, then they are winners, regardless of how many women turned them down in America or wherever they're from.

[ladislav]

It's like asking- are those people who go and work in Saudi losers or winners? I've heard many say that by going to Saudi and Oman, Kuwait I was copping out. They were not saying it when I had 100K in my bank and sending them pictures of me traveling all around the world on my paid 60 day vacations. When I showed them pictures of me on a yacht or on an African safari, they weren't saying that anymore.

Or, were those immigrants who established America losers? From the point of view of Brits, they were. They did not want to fit in with the Queen's system while many did and were OK.

To conclude: only men who marry ugly Filipinas are losers. Lol!

[foodchain11]

Or, were those immigrants who established America losers? From the point of view of Brits, they were. They did not want to fit in with the Queen's system while many did and were OK.

To conclude: only men who marry ugly Filipinas are losers. Lol!

I think this sums it up. Surely there are many ugly ones, but it seems that if you prefer very petite, slim girls and you like that skin tone (funny that Fils seem to prefer lighter skin, whereas some westerners are intrigued by medium to dark skin), AND you have the confidence to be the full-time leader in your relationship, you may end up with a good match. I know my brother has always been fixated on the high-cheekbones look, which most Filipinas don't have, but his wife does very much.

Doesn't seem like it would be for everyone -- for example, I don't think it would work for me, for a number of reasons -- but for my brother it has proven to be a win-win situation for sure. And I would suggest that that is the basis of all successful deals, whether business or personal. Both parties get what they want. And you can no more criticize a person for wanting what they want than criticize the moon for coming up at night.

[djfourmoney]

Banano, It's a poor country, and there are many young people. Simple supply and demand explains your observation, just as the same equation with different variables explains the predicament of many men who seek female companionship in rich countries with few young people.

No there's more to it than that. Consider some countries which on per-capita basis are poorer such as
- India
- Vietnam
- Cambodia
- Uzbekistan
- Laos
- Ghana
- Kenya
- Uganda
- Nepal
- Haiti
- Ethiopia
- Madagascar
- Others

Why don't any of those countries seem as extreme as Banano describes Phils? India is particularly bad and most of the others are still significantly more difficult for the very old and/or ugly foreigners who wanna get the very young girls in LTR.

Well -

India - If you like dark skin women.....
Vietnam - I would say overall its in worst shape than PI
Cambodia - See Vietnam
Uzbekistan - Are we talking about the majority Asian population or the minority Russian population????
Laos - See Vietnam or Cambodia
Ghana - Its Africa, need I say more? Well maybe one more thing, if you DON'T like dark skin women you're in the wrong part of Africa...

The rest are about the same as the other mentioned.

If the goal is to hook up with dark skin women, there are better choices locally.

Okay back to your regularly scheduled post, about being a Loooser - Of course you're not but if you let others define you.....

[djfourmoney]

Or, were those immigrants who established America losers? From the point of view of Brits, they were. They did not want to fit in with the Queen's system while many did and were OK.

To conclude: only men who marry ugly Filipinas are losers. Lol!

I think this sums it up. Surely there are many ugly ones, but it seems that if you prefer very petite, slim girls and you like that skin tone (funny that Fils seem to prefer lighter skin, whereas some westerners are intrigued by medium to dark skin), AND you have the confidence to be the full-time leader in your relationship, you may end up with a good match. I know my brother has always been fixated on the high-cheekbones look, which most Filipinas don't have, but his wife does very much.

Doesn't seem like it would be for everyone -- for example, I don't think it would work for me, for a number of reasons -- but for my brother it has proven to be a win-win situation for sure. And I would suggest that that is the basis of all successful deals, whether business or personal. Both parties get what they want. And you can no more criticize a person for wanting what they want than criticize the moon for coming up at night.

High Cheek Bones? = Japanese/Chinese DNA

The rest of your post is perfect!

[Jester]

you can no more criticize a person for wanting what they want than criticize the moon for coming up at night.

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