
I once almost married a very classy Peruvian girl, I don't mean classy as in money, her family was just middle class money wise. But she was classy in dress style and mannerisms. She ended up being totally hard headed and extremely difficult though. Some examples....
1) She got upset when I wanted to change hotel rooms within the same hotel since it wasn't the same room they had showed us earlier. (I'm thinking to myself, mmmm, and whose paying for it?)
2) She wouldn't stop pestering me to drink with her at dinner one night. I had already got a little drunk with her a few nights before so I wouldn't stand the thought of alcohol again). She never stopped asking me and got upset that I wouldn't. She went through all the alcohol in the hotel fridge within 2-3 nights as it was.
3) she insisted on going to a hotel that the cab driver was recommending instead of looking for one of the hotels I had already researched reviews on as a back up. Apparently this situation grew out of the fact that the original hotel I booked in this small town didn't post it's physical address nor phone number on it's website and the cabby said he had never heard of it so we had no choice but to search for an alternate hotel. This was one of the occasions where I said to myself, here is an example of why some 3rd world countries remain 3rd world, ....I mean come on, you're in business and you do not post a address or phone number on your website??? Duh!
4) she threw a temper tantrum when I wasn't "in the mood" for a 4th time in two days saying "you're my boyfriend, you have to be!". She even threw her pillow at me over this issue. I was like WTF?
5) she said she couldn't stand that I was indecisive and it bothered her (Which is sometimes true of me)
6) she was upset when I failed to use more proper etiquette when removing a un chewable tough piece of meat from the corner of my mouth. (I didn't hide it with a napkin like I probably should have, but at the same time, it's not like I did it overtly for all to see, I usually lean over a bit and do it very very quickly ) it couldn't be that bad because in the US I've never been told by friends and family that I Have bad table manners , ever. So, anyways, after I did it a 2nd time some days later, she says to me in a loud angry voice "Steve, I cannot eat like this!". Lol. Although she is right, yea, I could use more proper etiquette, yet I have to ask myself, if it's so bad, why hasn't anyone ever said anything about it to me before? And my friends and family are never afraid to tell me "dude, that's gross". My buddies are pretty out front about stuff like that too. So, it couldn't have been that bad. But I hear that middle to upper class Latinas are big on table manners. I can only imagine how they would react to a Filipino family outwardly belching at the dinner table. Hahahaha! I've never witnessed that but I've heard about it on many occasions.
These examples above are what I mean when I say there is often the other side of he coin when you date or marry a classy type woman like the type in this photo I took today. Would a filipina behave like any of these ways?? Not even a 1% chance. Lol, can you imagine a filipina saying to you "Winston, I cannot eat like this," Bahahaha.