Kradmelder wrote:
This kind of living is not natural. Even if illegitimate, do fathers not feel some attachment to their offspring? No sense of guilt for abandoning their children to a handicapped future?
Do people feel nothing for their neighbours? I know all mine, even the jew. Even the jew has my phone number for emergencies. It has always been around to help your neighbours since biblical times.
Even in old days our ancestors felt attachment to a tribe and blood clan. It was always the white way. You were never brothers with all. Like the nobles didnt mix and socialise with serfs. There was always class. But when the group is threatened they close ranks and have a common unity.
Why would american society willingly cast off all human ties with those closest to you by blood, neighbours, volk, race etc. Without this, all sense of loyalty and sense of place is gone to be replaced with isolation, bitterness, confusion and emptiness.
My neighborhood is a mixed neighborhood, a maybe 50% black, 30% white, and 20% hispanic neighborhood, or thereabouts. My neighbors on one side are a group of college aged white guys my age, and we did get introduced, etc, but after the initial friendly introduction, it sort of fell flat for socializing. On my left is a half black guy, who seems continually stressed out and pissed, but silently so, and we've never had a conversation with each other that was more than a paragraph long. But one time he lent me his jump box to jump my car and I left it at his front door to return it.
Anyway, for the most part, the general attitude of white folks is "do whatever, just stay out of my way and my business." My neighborhood, I've had good and bad come from the black folks. The black folks are more open, and generally more friendly than the white people here. But I had a 10 year old black kid trying to steal from my car. A black teenager stole my bike. He was going to steal my drill but a half black kid I know pretty well convinced him to give it back. He stole a van and got locked up for a week or two for it. But at the same time, a good portion of my black neighbors at least wave and say hello and are civil to me. One lent me a pair of vise grips when he saw I needed them, when my white neighbor across the street with a garage full of tools never lent me anything, and doesn't even wave at us, even though we talked at length before when inquiring about his RV he was selling. If I wanted to, I probably could go to almost any black barbecue in the neighborhood and have some beer and chicken, as they all grill and party on the front lawn or sometimes in the street. Whites on the other hand keep to themselves in their fenced in back porch.
So to me this talk of white brotherhood and white bond is pretty strange sounding stuff, as it's been more or less the opposite of my experience my whole life. Though at the same time, I certainly don't feel all too at home in black American culture, and as a young teen I had experiences of riding my bike through the hood and having black gang members cuss at me asking what I was doing in "their" neighborhood, black kids taunting me with "Play that funky music white boy" etc. Pretty mixed can of worms. But still, no white brotherhood, etc. Just hyper-individualism and isolation of the self in the name of giving everyone space and independence.
Obviously, the extent of this social disconnection varies across regions of USA, as well. My particular state, if you search for ______ sucks, you'll find a ton of complaints actually vaguely similar to how people describe USA as a whole on HA, actually, it being hard to make friends, etc. Then people will say that before when they lived in another state they had more friends, or now that they moved, etc.
With family, it depends on the individual family. But for the most part, it's "I'll stay I promise" and then the parents break up 1-2 years later, kid has no father, father is stuck possibly making child support payments, mother dates a shit ton of guys, child never bonds to anyone as father. Of course as happened in my family, just a divorce can wreck familial relations, and generally does, and there's a 50% divorce rate.
You're on your own.
