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E Irizarry R&B Singer
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Re: I no longer wish to travel abroad

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Ukrainianlover wrote:
September 14th, 2020, 7:26 am
Everyone tends to think of Canadians as nice and sweet and Saying sorry is what we are all about. Here’s a secret. We are all closet a$$holes up here. One thing I came back with and enjoyed it more then ever was adopting the Ukrainian mindset. When it comes to holding the doors in Ukraine. It’s none existent. Be prepared to have it slammed in your face. I absolutely loved that. It wasn’t shocking to me as I thought.,that’s just the way people are here. Also small talk doesn’t exist over there either. In Canada when we go up to the cashier or grocery store clerk. We ask how is their day going. In Ukraine if you ask that. You get..what’s your business. I love it. It’s real. Up here in Canada it’s fake and I’ve stopped being that way. The other day I was getting gas and the guy across from was filling up his vehicle as well. Ok..here comes the small chat. He said...beautiful day eh..and then asked me how’s she going. I looked at him and rolled my eyes and Ignored him and continued to fill up my car. It was great. Then when I went into the store to pay. A woman was going into the store behind me...Did I hold the door...hahaha..no way. I’m married already to a little rocket. I’m not looking for plus points these days. She gave me a dirty look once inside. I whispered social distancing and nodded my head and went on my merry way. I tried along time ago of being a easy going great guy but it just seemed like a waste. People are just to selfish these days to appreciate anything. So why not use my greatest assets of being an incredible jerk and bless the world of the way these morons act and treat them accordingly.
Let's not toot our own bullhorn so quickly.
Alas *sigh* here's the proof:

1) So I had flown down to CR (Costa Rica) for the first time just 3 years ago because of how Westernized it is so I was turned off of it for a long time. I should have reverted to what my spidey senses were trying to tell me; it sucked except for the non-Tican pro's whom were selling "pizza by the slice" action downtown San Jose (CR). Ironically, on the south side of the American San Jose, ho's are selling "pizza by the slice" by that really popular cheap Mexican eatery out of a hotel. Some hot ho's, but it's America, folks; we all know how badly AW, pro and non-pro, have STDs like trichomoniasis, chlamydia, syphilis, etc. they got from their bad boy having hybristophilia and/or (not just "and" or "or") from their big-enough furbabies of zoophilia.

So much for the digression in the latter half of the prior paragraph there.

So I was in this hostel in San Jose CR, and the locals whom were guests at the hostel as well as the North American and German tourists were pretty chill. :-) except this one sh!thead. Because I'm a rather paunchy yet statuesque kind of fellow, he deemed me to be a bully per defaltam. Since I sat in the TV room working remotely (I was gainfully employed on this U.S.-based employer-contract), he accused me of being a bully no matter how nicely I try to refute his b.s. claim. So he'd turn up the TV super loud, which was docked over my head in the TV room. He didn't even ask if he could use the TV (although entitled because it's open space for guests of the hostel, but etiquette should be something a Canadian,whom is a British commoner per defaltam, would and should know already. I reported him in Spanish downstairs to the staff, then he bellowed out at me that he's cool with the owner of the hostel, whom was a local Tica svelte in-shape middle-aged semi-attractive woman that was WASP/White-washed. He kept rubbing it in that because I'm American and he's not that the Tico police would side with him in that they don't consider Canadians Yankees unlike Americans are. Costa Rica had struck me as a pro-WASP country so I didn't take his head off. He left me seething with anger for weeks because it had taken everything inside of me not to fck him up; I hate being nice, and still being accused of something I had couldn't help.

2) Circa 2004 - 2007, I dated a Brazilian-Canadianized ex from the Indian Bazaar/almost Scarborough section of the Greater Toronto area. We had 3 and a half interesting years. Welp, she got preggers once and I kissed her a.ss just so she can have an abortion. I was a Liberal back then morphing into a Libertarian. News at 11.

The p.ussy was out of this world; she had W.A.P before it was coined as a song/acronym. I almost "put a ring on it" just on the strength of that alone...yes my pull-out game was weak in the knees like Three Times Dope.....that's how much I almost succumbed and dumbed to the p.ssy.

So I didn't get that glory hole of a snatch without any retribution: her feminist mouth (and she was offended that I called her one due to her attitude!!)

She would b!tch up a storm to the point my nerves were almost literally shot. There was nothing I could do correctly outside of the bedroom and I had to fvck her all day just to keep her nice and tranquil. One time I was trying to produce a song on my laptop, she sat 15 feet away nude playing with her p.ussy that was making Rice Krispies (tm) snap crackle popping noises...her p.ussy was that self-lubricated and never dry. I implored her that I was trying to finish a song...so she scoffed and then masturbated herself off.

If you had not put TL;DR in your mind, heart, body, and soul, then thank you for reading!!! =D :+1:
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Re: I no longer wish to travel abroad

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Moretorque wrote:
October 13th, 2020, 1:59 am
Preacher wrote:
October 12th, 2020, 9:28 pm
Tamingstrange wrote:
September 11th, 2020, 1:26 am
I'm sorry, this post isn't very well written

I'm not going to soft soap this. I hate America and most Americans. To me, Americans are complete scum of the earth. They're selfish, rude, obnoxious, phony, shallow, egotistical, morally bankrupt, callous, sociopathic, materialistic and vapid, unfeeling and just plain rotten. They don't value family and friends and lack humanity. When I look at most of them, when I look at their eyes, I can see there is nothing behind them. They are empty, hallow shells of human beings. It makes my skin crawl.

Spending my whole life living amongst such people, seeing them on the media has completely taken it's toll on me. I've lived a life of crippling loneliness and misery. Such an environment has left me jaded, angry, extremely bitter. It has left me a broken and suicidal person.

Initially when I came across this site and it's forums, I saw it as a blessing. It felt great to know that there where other people who've had the same experiences and felt the same way that I did. It made me realize that I wasn't crazy. That I wasn't the problem, America was. It was great to know that the US of Gay and the Anglosphere didn't represent the rest of the world. That most other countries had people who were friendly, humble, honest, genuine, moral, and kind hearted. It came as a great relief to know the possibility of a happier and healthier life abroad. That I could go to places were I wouldn't be hated for my gender and actually connect with people. I actually began saving money to travel and finally get away from this toxic hell hole. I've managed to save several thousands of dollars.

But over time, my feelings began to change. Reading numerous threads on this forum over the past few years gradually sapped my anticipation of going overseas. Countless times expats have posted thier negative opinions on other countries and I've eventually came away from them with this realization: The people abroad are just as horrible as America. That there are no good people in the world. Regardless of what country you go to, it's all the same: HORRIBLE.

So I've ultimately decided that traveling abroad would just be a huge waste of my time and money. What's the point? Same shit, different country. I've come to the conclusion that good people and good societies just don't exist and no matter where I go, I'll never find peace or happiness. I've pretty much lost all hope.
We are living in the end times. This is a TRASH generation! Lawless, violent, soulless, and selfish. We are living in times exactly as prophecised in 2 Timothy;

In the last days, terrible times will come. For people will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, greedy, selfish, abusive, disobedient, ungrateful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderous, without self control, brutal, without love for good, traitorous, reckless, destructive, conceited, lovers of sin instead of lovers of God, showing a fake form of Godliness but denying it's power; like fruit trees that don't bear any more fruit.

That is the exact kind of society and world we are living in today! And Winston is right; in the 1980s, people were much friendlier. From the way the world became like this, I wouldn't be surprised if the return of Jesus Christ were no more than maybe 30 years away.
The world is what you make it and humans have made it shit, cheer up the mass extinction will take care of the biological investation shortly...
Oh, it will just about happen. The world's human population is headed straight for a very tight bottle neck. It will begin with the Rapture. Before you can say "Golf," millions if not a couple billion people even will vanish into thin air. Taken up into Heaven and raptured. Right after that, all pandemonium will break loose all over the world as people look frantically for loved ones who have been raptured. There will likely be riots and mob action. The Great Tribulation will come roaring, crashing, and smashing in with a really violent, very bad attitude. Like a bat out of Hell.

But it gets only worse from there. The rise of the antichrist, whom will be a brutal and ruthless global dictator, the mark of the beast, poverty, widespread hunger and homelessness, and then a nuclear war so big and so out of control that, if Jesus doesn't return early and cut it short, it would otherwise result in the complete, total extinction of the entire human race.

Without God's hand of restraint and with all the good people raptured and taken to Heaven and only toxic people left, man's violence will go so out of control that it will take Jesus returning early and cutting the Great Tribulation short to prevent the extinction of the human race.
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Re: I no longer wish to travel abroad

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Sorry for not responding. I just decided to stay off the internet for awhile.
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Tamingstrange wrote:
October 15th, 2020, 6:43 pm
Sorry for not responding. I just decided to stay off the internet for awhile.
It's alright, sometimes staying off the internet for a while is the healthiest and wisest option for all of us. I do hope you will reconsider on your decision not to (ever?) travel abroad. I hope, too, that you will come to understand that the spirit in which you wrote your original post was a bit overly negative. Make no mistake; the world is rapidly changing. Not neccessarily for the better. But this may work in your favor. Don't lose hope just yet. ;)
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Tamingstrange wrote:
October 15th, 2020, 6:43 pm
Sorry for not responding. I just decided to stay off the internet for awhile.
It's alright, sometimes staying off the internet for a while is the healthiest and wisest option for all of us. I do hope you will reconsider on your decision not to (ever?) travel abroad. I hope, too, that you will come to understand that the spirit in which you wrote your original post was a bit overly negative. Make no mistake; the world is rapidly changing. Not neccessarily for the better. But this may work in your favor. Don't lose hope just yet. ;)
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Re: I no longer wish to travel abroad

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E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
October 13th, 2020, 1:38 pm
yick wrote:
September 11th, 2020, 4:04 pm
E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
September 11th, 2020, 3:12 pm
yick wrote:
September 11th, 2020, 7:12 am
.......Women are women everywhere, they like tall, good looking men with money and a career, if you are a short, bald guy with no money and you're boring, getting the women you want is going to be hard but you don't just sit in f***ing Ohio and think 'I won't bother because some chump on 'Happier Abroad' didn't get a supermodel' be a f***ing man about it and make a plan, save some money and go and visit a place you want to see. There aren't enough tall, good looking men with money and career for every woman in the world that wants one so you have a good chance, still!..........
Foul on the fvcking play. In some countries I saw taller women than men and they looked happy unconditionally. Any other inexperiences you care to share?
I bet I know more about everything than you so, f**k off. 8)
Unfettered jackass much?
Yes you are! 8)
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Re: I no longer wish to travel abroad

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Most people are happy to be born, live and die in their hometown, many people... they wouldn't think for one second that leaving their hometown to change their life or find someone to share it with was a solution.

Obviously, the OP's life is shit enough that he feels that there might be something else out there and there is. Of course there is! But it will take patience, courage, action - you'll change as a man, I have changed as a man out of all sync both physically and mentally from what I once was - for the better, you will go back home and you'll find not much has changed, your friends and family members talking about the same thing - you'll lose nothing by leaving there and seeing what fits you.

Most people can't handle it! They soon run back to where they come from but if you haven't got the woman or the life or whatever you want where you are, how is staying where you are a solution? It isn't. Simple as that, the internal battles in your mind that is stopping you are the ones you have to win before you take the plane but they're the first battles you have to win - many more battles will come when you set out on the journey but you will change for the better - if it scares you then don't worry, there are billions of others around the world too scared to change their life, you are not on your own.
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It depends on as Winston says, your "vibration" with your surroundings. Winston says Taiwan is the worst place ever and in many ways even prefers USA. He picks on me for liking Taiwan. I find myself at as close to almost total peace in Taiwan as I think I ever possibly could.

On the other hand, a lot of members here like Vietnam. A lot of people even have seemingly positive experiences with Vietnam. I had a very overall negative experience there with endless problems, and did mostly prefer to be back in USA to Vietnam. It wasn't really completely rational between each country, it's just one place I was happy, the other I wasn't in the slightest. USA seems firmly in the middle for me for my happiness level and how I relate to others on a seemingly unstated and nonverbal vibrational level and my general overall "luck." I do think in USA even without making a lot of money, I am materially wealthy. I have two cars, 55" TVs in every room of the house, sweet stereos, an awesome gaming computer, etc. In Taiwan by comparison I'd live in a one room apartment the size of my bedroom in USA and take public transportation. I think I would be significantly mentally healthier and happier in Taiwan by a big enough margin that I hope I can emigrate there once my college degree is finished.

When COVID to some degree gets sorted out, just go. See it for yourself. I had good expectations for Taiwan, and it exceeded my expectations. Reading about Vietnam on the internet and even on here, most of what people said was positive and I went in hoping and thinking the best, but I just could not stand the place in person myself in real life. Everyone was rude and nasty for the most part, and I had lots of inexplicably bad experiences like random harassment on the street and getting evicted from my apartment I was paying double local rate for rent for with the building get sold out from under me. Even in Taiwan the people I met that went to VN liked it and were confused I hated it and at my experiences there.

I think in this way going overseas is sort of like test driving a car. You can read about a car, read reviews, watch Youtube videos, and on paper it could be the "best" car but in person, you may not actually enjoy the way it drives or some little feature or quirk annoys you too much, or you might not like the seating position, etc. It could by objective quantifiable standards and user anecdotes be a great car other people like, but if you don't like it, you don't like it. By the same standard, you could find a car other people dislike for a bunch of reasons and end up really liking it, and your luck may push you far with it. One could buy a Toyota Corolla which has a reputation for being ultra reliable, and have it break down and fall apart from bad luck, and one could buy a Mitsubishi or Nissan with a less reliable reputation and have a totally trouble free ownership experience.

So anyway, just get off the internet and go when you can. See for yourself and make your own conclusions. Don't be a follower.
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