Why does it seem the Anglosphere is easy when it comes to education/work, medium when it comes to friendship and difficu

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Hey guys,

This has been my thoughts after studying other cultures and languages like Spanish, French, German, and Japanese. As well as traveling and visiting different countries in Eastern Europe, Latin America. I can only speak of what my experience has been.

Education/Work(8/10) Easy

-Teachers and professors encourage students to do well and give good grades(This doesn't happen in other countries and languages where professors and teachers will give everyone low grades no matter how hard people work).

-Grades were kept private and most people did not compete with others.

-If you wanted to do well you could ask for the professor and they'll give you extra help.

-When it comes to work, people respect deadlines.

-Payments were given on time and it was possible to get high pay if you were willing to work hard.

-Most people kept things professional and private and professional lives were strictly separated. Everyone was willing to work to get the job done. (It seems in other cultures the line is more blurred and the personal can interfere with the professional).

Friendships(7/10) Medium

-Easy to make short terms friends.

-There are always people you can hang out with, most people are way less "cliquey" than other people I've encountered in other parts of the world.

-If you have a hobby you can find people who are down to hang out.

-Long-term friendships, however, are harder. Some people will "ghost" you out of the blue.

-It seems most people are focused on their own goals and it'll be harder to keep a friendship.

Dating/Relationships (5/10) Difficult

I would say that out of all the cultures I've experienced the Anglosphere would be the hardest when it comes to dating relationships. In my opinion, it's a "minefield" since there are so many factors working against you. It seems women are the prize in this culture way more than in others.

Short-term dating, if you are a guy it's actually difficult to hook up with women. The standards are high.

Short term dating, you need to master "Wittiness", which is a form of social dominance.

Short term dating, you need to be physically fit, which is a form of physical dominance.

There are a lot of "toxic beliefs" on the internet that instead of helping you improve your dating will make you weird.

-There's a lot of puritanical women as well. It is not a hedonistic culture where hooking is only seen as fun.

Long-term dating, just as difficult it sees women friends will break you guys apart.

-Long terms dating, lots of jealous people at the club. It reminded me of going to a third-world country and having an expensive cellphone or watch. I could see the scarcity in some people's eyes.

Conclusion: I've seen it in some societies where people didn't view women as the prize. It didn't make you "cool" to have a date. In fact, "dating" didn't exist since men and women were in the same friend group. Many people simply "dated" within their social circles. Meanwhile, it seems some cultures are hedonistic and short-term dating up is not as difficult. In fact, some women who thought that whole thing was "no big deal" a far cry from the Anglosphere where it seems having sex is a big deal.

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-Long terms dating, lots of jealous people at the club. It reminded me of going to a third-world country and having an expensive cellphone or watch. I could see the scarcity in some people's eyes.

I know exactly what you mean. Having an actually beautiful girlfriend in America (although I mostly mean Florida) is like entering a hornet's nest. Women walking around can't stand to see a nerdy guy with a beautiful girlfriend and the guys are all scheming to steal her away from you. They don't even try to be subtle about it, they walk right up and try to steal her right in-front of your f***ing eyes. You look around and you can tell that every man is deprived. He either doesn't have a girlfriend/wife or his girlfriend/wife is fat and has a bad attitude. So girls who are actually cute and feminine looking get swarmed by hordes of horny men trying to f**k her.

This is why I've said before that even if you're in a relationship, you should support the mission of reversing the decline of monogamy and promoting a society where the other men around you can find decent partners. You want the other men around you to feel content with their lives, if they are miserable and you seem like the only happy person in the room, all the miserable people out there will become determined to destroy your happiness by any means necessary.