If you're single and don't live to work, you're wasting your time in America - 2 Key things the media never tells you

[Winston]

Two important things about America to keep in mind that no one else will tell you:

1. First, if you don't live to work you have no business being in America (no pun intended). America is a purely business culture. Even life itself is a business in America. Even strangers don't talk to you unless it's for business. So if you believe your life purpose is to work and make money then yes America may be for you. But if you live for fun, social connection, good times, good memories, interesting experiences, adventure, romance, meaningful things, etc then America is definitely not for you. Because there are many many countries out there that provide 1000x times more fun and good times and meaningful experiences than America does. No comparison. Go travel the world for a year and you will see what I mean. Hence if you aren't a workaholic who lives to work and you don't have an amazing job or career, then you have no business in America and are wasting your time there. Of course this means you should also avoid workaholic Asian countries too like Hong Kong, Japan, Korea, Taiwan, etc.

Moreover, life in America is a routine for the most part where nothing happens and everyday is essentially the same, which makes time pass faster since you are not having any new or interesting experiences like you would abroad. This is a major issue that no one dares to mention.

2. Second, if you are single then you are out of place in America too, because everything in America is geared toward couples and families only. Especially in the US suburbs. There's nothing to do for singles. No activities for singles to have fun and connect with other singles, because people are antisocial and paranoid and don't even talk to strangers unless it's for business purposes. Because America is a business only, not a place for having fun or letting loose or relaxing. And it is strict and uptight and extreme in this regard. If you're not settled down with a wife or husband and family and career then you are the odd man out and have no function or role in America. You will feel weird too because everyone else around you is married and settled into a routine. Moreover, everyone around you in America seems to be married or settled down or taken. You don't really see any single people. And if you do then they are jaded and cynical and not really looking. This means America is a place to settle down and have responsibilities and routines, not a place to have fun or let loose or truly live or be free. As someone told me, "America is a place that is built for doing business, not living life."

However in many other countries there are many fun things to do for single people to get wild and have fun and meet and date others of the opposite sex. Especially in Latin America, Russia, Europe, Southeast Asia. You're never bored or isolated or lonely in those cultures. Because strangers are not afraid to talk to you. There is instant familiarity between strangers and no paranoid ice wall like in America, hence you don't need to "break the ice" to meet people. People will invite you to go out and do stuff more than in America which is antisocial in comparison. Hence other countries are far more social and fun and friendly than America, especially if you're single. Because Americans are super uptight and paranoid and closed off and afraid of others. In other countries when you go out alone you don't have to stay alone like you do in America. You always meet single people when you go out too. Everyone is not taken like in America. It's like a totally different matrix.

These are two very important things to know about America vs many other countries that no media person will ever tell you for some reason. But they are true for the most part based on my honest first-hand experience. And are important for you to know and keep in mind too.

I hope that Andrew and Tommy will do videos about these 2 things because they are important and people need to know them but no one in the media dares to talk about them because they are taboo and you are not allowed to say that anything is better overseas. It's against the grain to say that even if it's true.

For example, when people say "only in America" on TV or media it's always about something good that is only possible in America, but never about something bad or negative that is only in America. I'm the only one that uses that phrase in the negative sense though so that makes me unique I guess. Lol

[Mercury]

You are absolutely right, Winston. America is a boot camp country! It is even a nationwide version of MCRD San Diego. And it is but a matter of time until military boot camp, MCRD San Diego style, becomes mandatory for all Americans that graduate high school or turn 18.

As for singles, single guys are already getting arrested and thrown in jail all over America just for being out in public. Non-business interactions amongst other people have already been criminalized by Congress in January 2020. And it is but a matter of time before Congress criminalizes going out alone and going out for any reason other than business only nationwide. It is even a matter of time before Congress, along with the FBI, Homeland Security, and the United States Army National Guard declares a mandatory 24 hour curfew for the nation in which no person shall leave their residence except for work, no person is allowed to be outdoors without an armed military escort, no travelling allowed, no exceptions.

It is a matter of time before the United States of America becomes an official sockpuppet of North Korea.

[hb2345]

1. First, if you don't live to work you have no business being in America (no pun intended). America is a purely business culture. Even life itself is a business in America.

Tell this to sweatshop workers and Japanese/South Korean salary men. Also look up such a lovely term as "Karoshi". When you're in SE Asia you see small businesses, street stands, convenience stores, and shopping centers on every corner. Tons of billboards with advertisement. Asians are the most materialistic, shopaholic people on Earth.

Even strangers don't talk to you unless it's for business.

I've watched plenty of street walking videos on YouTube. Majority of people everywhere, including Asian countries, just walk past you with a blank absent expression on their face. I've never seen anyone smile or say hello. Even in a fake way.

So if you believe your life purpose is to work and make money then yes America may be for you.

Everyone's purpose in life is to work and make money, otherwise you will starve to death. Unless you were born rich.

But if you live for fun, social connection, good times, good memories, interesting experiences, adventure, romance, meaningful things, etc then America is definitely not for you.

Says the guy who obtained all these things by spending US dollars that he got from his US citizen parents. Also, no American in history has experienced "fun, social connection, good times, good memories, interesting experiences, adventure, romance, meaningful things". These things are exclusively available to Filipino street vendors and Russian factory workers. Stop projecting, please.

Because there are many many countries out there that provide 1000x times more fun and good times and meaningful experiences than America does.

Only if you have a lot of money and don't have to work hard for it.

No comparison. Go travel the world for a year and you will see what I mean.

Tens of millions of tourists visit US every year. Millions of people immigrate to US each year. I guess these poor souls didn't get your memo.

Hence if you aren't a workaholic who lives to work and you don't have an amazing job or career, then you have no business in America and are wasting your time there. Of course this means you should also avoid workaholic Asian countries too like Hong Kong, Japan, Korea, Taiwan, etc.

Yes, I do. It's much more comfortable being poor in the US than in some third world shit hole like Philippines or Russia.

Moreover, life in America is a routine for the most part where nothing happens and everyday is essentially the same, which makes time pass faster since you are not having any new or interesting experiences like you would abroad. This is a major issue that no one dares to mention.

Life everywhere is a routine if you have to work for your money as opposed to being a sex tourist spending the money made by other people.

2. Second, if you are single then you are out of place in America too, because everything in America is geared toward couples and families only. Especially in the US suburbs. There's nothing to do for singles. No activities for singles to have fun and connect with other singles, because people are antisocial and paranoid and don't even talk to strangers unless it's for business purposes. Because America is a business only, not a place for having fun or letting loose or relaxing. And it is strict and uptight and extreme in this regard.

Cultural differences aside suburbs are boring everywhere. For the most part they're designed to house people and provide them with basic necessities like shopping and healthcare. I lived in a European suburb before and there was not much to do either. You had to go downtown if you wanted to have fun. American suburbs do have bars, restaurants, movie theaters, bowling alleys, parks, and playgrounds where singles can go. It's not so bad.

If you're not settled down with a wife or husband and family and career then you are the odd man out and have no function or role in America. You will feel weird too because everyone else around you is married and settled into a routine. Moreover, everyone around you in America seems to be married or settled down or taken. You don't really see any single people. And if you do then they are jaded and cynical and not really looking. This means America is a place to settle down and have responsibilities and routines, not a place to have fun or let loose or truly live or be free.

You just pretty much described Asians and Eastern/Central Europeans. At least in America no one is constantly asking you why you're single and when you're gonna get married and settle down. Every traditional patriarchal society is family based and oriented.

However in many other countries there are many fun things to do for single people to get wild and have fun and meet and date others of the opposite sex.

Just like in the US, provided you have the money.

Especially in Latin America, Russia, Europe, Southeast Asia. You're never bored or isolated or lonely in those cultures.

There are plenty of isolated loners and recluses living in those countries. Ever heard of Hikikomori, NEETs, Herbivore Men, Slavic/European bedroom dwellers? Whom do you think that popular Lonely Doomer/Wojak meme is based on? An American man? Wrong. It's based on the guy from Europe. Judging by the prevalent use of the commie block backgrounds in those memes it's Poland or Russia. There's a whole culture based on Doomer aesthetic, so don't give me any of that deluded childish "OMG!!! OMG!!! OMG!!! No one is ever lonely and sad overseas!!!" shit.

Because strangers are not afraid to talk to you. There is instant familiarity between strangers and no paranoid ice wall like in America, hence you don't need to "break the ice" to meet people.

Yes, you do. Slavic people are notorious for being cold and unfriendly with strangers. Aggressive too, BTW. Especially when drunk. I used to read this blog by an American expat in St.Petersburg and one of his biggest complains was how frigid, unfriendly, and closed off Russians were. They never smile and engage in small talk with strangers. He said that once you get to know them it gets better, but initially they're very hard to approach and they're quite distrusting of the people they've never met.

People will invite you to go out and do stuff more than in America which is antisocial in comparison.

Plenty of Facebook groups where American singles can meet and do fun things together.

Hence other countries are far more social and fun and friendly than America, especially if you're single.

Only because you're a tourist with US dollars, so they can mooch off of you.

Because Americans are super uptight and paranoid and closed off and afraid of others.

Maybe because they don't want to talk to YOU?

In other countries when you go out alone you don't have to stay alone like you do in America. You always meet single people when you go out too. Everyone is not taken like in America. It's like a totally different matrix.

Yes, there are plenty of ladyboys, prostitutes, and gold diggers for you to meet in SE Asia.

These are two very important things to know about America vs many other countries that no media person will ever tell you for some reason. But they are true for the most part based on my honest first-hand experience. And are important for you to know and keep in mind too.

Human experiences are subjective by nature. Medium is the message.

I hope that Andrew and Tommy will do videos about these 2 things because they are important and people need to know them but no one in the media dares to talk about them because they are taboo and you are not allowed to say that anything is better overseas. It's against the grain to say that even if it's true.

American bashing is nothing new. YouTube is choke full of such drivel.

For example, when people say "only in America" on TV or media it's always about something good that is only possible in America, but never about something bad or negative that is only in America. I'm the only one that uses that phrase in the negative sense though so that makes me unique I guess. Lol

No, it doesn't make you unique at all. There are plenty of objectively bad things exclusive to America only, like mass shootings or access to healthcare, for example. No one is denying or staying quiet about that. But none of this subjective, anti-American propaganda BS you just regurgitated for the millionth time. If you were a good looking, positively thinking, and successful man, your American experience would differ vastly.

[timfellow]

If you can debunk everything he says why are you on this forum? You can't counter someone's opinion with another opinion. You just used the same approach. Life isn't that certain. No subjective experience will have all accurate data.

[hb2345]

If you can debunk everything he says why are you on this forum?

To debunk his deluded bullshit and other propaganda nonsense.

You can't counter someone's opinion with another opinion.

Yes, I can. It's called an argument. My arguments are factual and objective.

Life isn't that certain. No subjective experience will have all accurate data.

Exactly. Which is why I provided my counter-arguments to his wall of biased unbridled idiocy.

[timfellow]

Okay hopefully it helps you

[hb2345]

Okay hopefully it helps you

Hopefully it helps YOU.

[IraqVet2003]

Two important things about America to keep in mind that no one else will tell you:

1. First, if you don't live to work you have no business being in America (no pun intended). America is a purely business culture. Even life itself is a business in America. Even strangers don't talk to you unless it's for business. So if you believe your life purpose is to work and make money then yes America may be for you. But if you live for fun, social connection, good times, good memories, interesting experiences, adventure, romance, meaningful things, etc then America is definitely not for you. Because there are many many countries out there that provide 1000x times more fun and good times and meaningful experiences than America does. No comparison. Go travel the world for a year and you will see what I mean. Hence if you aren't a workaholic who lives to work and you don't have an amazing job or career, then you have no business in America and are wasting your time there. Of course this means you should also avoid workaholic Asian countries too like Hong Kong, Japan, Korea, Taiwan, etc.

Moreover, life in America is a routine for the most part where nothing happens and everyday is essentially the same, which makes time pass faster since you are not having any new or interesting experiences like you would abroad. This is a major issue that no one dares to mention.

2. Second, if you are single then you are out of place in America too, because everything in America is geared toward couples and families only. Especially in the US suburbs. There's nothing to do for singles. No activities for singles to have fun and connect with other singles, because people are antisocial and paranoid and don't even talk to strangers unless it's for business purposes. Because America is a business only, not a place for having fun or letting loose or relaxing. And it is strict and uptight and extreme in this regard. If you're not settled down with a wife or husband and family and career then you are the odd man out and have no function or role in America. You will feel weird too because everyone else around you is married and settled into a routine. Moreover, everyone around you in America seems to be married or settled down or taken. You don't really see any single people. And if you do then they are jaded and cynical and not really looking. This means America is a place to settle down and have responsibilities and routines, not a place to have fun or let loose or truly live or be free. As someone told me, "America is a place that is built for doing business, not living life."

However in many other countries there are many fun things to do for single people to get wild and have fun and meet and date others of the opposite sex. Especially in Latin America, Russia, Europe, Southeast Asia. You're never bored or isolated or lonely in those cultures. Because strangers are not afraid to talk to you. There is instant familiarity between strangers and no paranoid ice wall like in America, hence you don't need to "break the ice" to meet people. People will invite you to go out and do stuff more than in America which is antisocial in comparison. Hence other countries are far more social and fun and friendly than America, especially if you're single. Because Americans are super uptight and paranoid and closed off and afraid of others. In other countries when you go out alone you don't have to stay alone like you do in America. You always meet single people when you go out too. Everyone is not taken like in America. It's like a totally different matrix.

These are two very important things to know about America vs many other countries that no media person will ever tell you for some reason. But they are true for the most part based on my honest first-hand experience. And are important for you to know and keep in mind too.

I hope that Andrew and Tommy will do videos about these 2 things because they are important and people need to know them but no one in the media dares to talk about them because they are taboo and you are not allowed to say that anything is better overseas. It's against the grain to say that even if it's true.

For example, when people say "only in America" on TV or media it's always about something good that is only possible in America, but never about something bad or negative that is only in America. I'm the only one that uses that phrase in the negative sense though so that makes me unique I guess. Lol

Winston, you are spot on about those two critical issues in American society and culture. The U.S. citizen is living in a "matrix" or near endless toil with maybe having holidays like Thanksgiving, Christmas, or New Year's Day off depending on which employer you work for. Also, America is what I call a "social desert" in which nowadays there aren't a lot of places to meet new people in public except online.

[Space Invaders]

1. First, if you don't live to work you have no business being in America (no pun intended). America is a purely business culture. Even life itself is a business in America.

Tell this to sweatshop workers and Japanese/South Korean salary men. Also look up such a lovely term as "Karoshi". When you're in SE Asia you see small businesses, street stands, convenience stores, and shopping centers on every corner. Tons of billboards with advertisement. Asians are the most materialistic, shopaholic people on Earth.

Even strangers don't talk to you unless it's for business.

I've watched plenty of street walking videos on YouTube. Majority of people everywhere, including Asian countries, just walk past you with a blank absent expression on their face. I've never seen anyone smile or say hello. Even in a fake way.

So if you believe your life purpose is to work and make money then yes America may be for you.

Everyone's purpose in life is to work and make money, otherwise you will starve to death. Unless you were born rich.

But if you live for fun, social connection, good times, good memories, interesting experiences, adventure, romance, meaningful things, etc then America is definitely not for you.

Says the guy who obtained all these things by spending US dollars that he got from his US citizen parents. Also, no American in history has experienced "fun, social connection, good times, good memories, interesting experiences, adventure, romance, meaningful things". These things are exclusively available to Filipino street vendors and Russian factory workers. Stop projecting, please.

Because there are many many countries out there that provide 1000x times more fun and good times and meaningful experiences than America does.

Only if you have a lot of money and don't have to work hard for it.

No comparison. Go travel the world for a year and you will see what I mean.

Tens of millions of tourists visit US every year. Millions of people immigrate to US each year. I guess these poor souls didn't get your memo.

Hence if you aren't a workaholic who lives to work and you don't have an amazing job or career, then you have no business in America and are wasting your time there. Of course this means you should also avoid workaholic Asian countries too like Hong Kong, Japan, Korea, Taiwan, etc.

Yes, I do. It's much more comfortable being poor in the US than in some third world shit hole like Philippines or Russia.

Moreover, life in America is a routine for the most part where nothing happens and everyday is essentially the same, which makes time pass faster since you are not having any new or interesting experiences like you would abroad. This is a major issue that no one dares to mention.

Life everywhere is a routine if you have to work for your money as opposed to being a sex tourist spending the money made by other people.

2. Second, if you are single then you are out of place in America too, because everything in America is geared toward couples and families only. Especially in the US suburbs. There's nothing to do for singles. No activities for singles to have fun and connect with other singles, because people are antisocial and paranoid and don't even talk to strangers unless it's for business purposes. Because America is a business only, not a place for having fun or letting loose or relaxing. And it is strict and uptight and extreme in this regard.

Cultural differences aside suburbs are boring everywhere. For the most part they're designed to house people and provide them with basic necessities like shopping and healthcare. I lived in a European suburb before and there was not much to do either. You had to go downtown if you wanted to have fun. American suburbs do have bars, restaurants, movie theaters, bowling alleys, parks, and playgrounds where singles can go. It's not so bad.

If you're not settled down with a wife or husband and family and career then you are the odd man out and have no function or role in America. You will feel weird too because everyone else around you is married and settled into a routine. Moreover, everyone around you in America seems to be married or settled down or taken. You don't really see any single people. And if you do then they are jaded and cynical and not really looking. This means America is a place to settle down and have responsibilities and routines, not a place to have fun or let loose or truly live or be free.

You just pretty much described Asians and Eastern/Central Europeans. At least in America no one is constantly asking you why you're single and when you're gonna get married and settle down. Every traditional patriarchal society is family based and oriented.

However in many other countries there are many fun things to do for single people to get wild and have fun and meet and date others of the opposite sex.

Just like in the US, provided you have the money.

Especially in Latin America, Russia, Europe, Southeast Asia. You're never bored or isolated or lonely in those cultures.

There are plenty of isolated loners and recluses living in those countries. Ever heard of Hikikomori, NEETs, Herbivore Men, Slavic/European bedroom dwellers? Whom do you think that popular Lonely Doomer/Wojak meme is based on? An American man? Wrong. It's based on the guy from Europe. Judging by the prevalent use of the commie block backgrounds in those memes it's Poland or Russia. There's a whole culture based on Doomer aesthetic, so don't give me any of that deluded childish "OMG!!! OMG!!! OMG!!! No one is ever lonely and sad overseas!!!" shit.

Because strangers are not afraid to talk to you. There is instant familiarity between strangers and no paranoid ice wall like in America, hence you don't need to "break the ice" to meet people.

Yes, you do. Slavic people are notorious for being cold and unfriendly with strangers. Aggressive too, BTW. Especially when drunk. I used to read this blog by an American expat in St.Petersburg and one of his biggest complains was how frigid, unfriendly, and closed off Russians were. They never smile and engage in small talk with strangers. He said that once you get to know them it gets better, but initially they're very hard to approach and they're quite distrusting of the people they've never met.

People will invite you to go out and do stuff more than in America which is antisocial in comparison.

Plenty of Facebook groups where American singles can meet and do fun things together.

Hence other countries are far more social and fun and friendly than America, especially if you're single.

Only because you're a tourist with US dollars, so they can mooch off of you.

Because Americans are super uptight and paranoid and closed off and afraid of others.

Maybe because they don't want to talk to YOU?

In other countries when you go out alone you don't have to stay alone like you do in America. You always meet single people when you go out too. Everyone is not taken like in America. It's like a totally different matrix.

Yes, there are plenty of ladyboys, prostitutes, and gold diggers for you to meet in SE Asia.

These are two very important things to know about America vs many other countries that no media person will ever tell you for some reason. But they are true for the most part based on my honest first-hand experience. And are important for you to know and keep in mind too.

Human experiences are subjective by nature. Medium is the message.

I hope that Andrew and Tommy will do videos about these 2 things because they are important and people need to know them but no one in the media dares to talk about them because they are taboo and you are not allowed to say that anything is better overseas. It's against the grain to say that even if it's true.

American bashing is nothing new. YouTube is choke full of such drivel.

For example, when people say "only in America" on TV or media it's always about something good that is only possible in America, but never about something bad or negative that is only in America. I'm the only one that uses that phrase in the negative sense though so that makes me unique I guess. Lol

No, it doesn't make you unique at all. There are plenty of objectively bad things exclusive to America only, like mass shootings or access to healthcare, for example. No one is denying or staying quiet about that. But none of this subjective, anti-American propaganda BS you just regurgitated for the millionth time. If you were a good looking, positively thinking, and successful man, your American experience would differ vastly.

I agree with everything you've written here. But people will always try to cope and explain away their deficiencies. Or maybe Winston is just trolling with posts like these. He must by now know where he stands in the natural order of things.

[Winston]

Because strangers are not afraid to talk to you. There is instant familiarity between strangers and no paranoid ice wall like in America, hence you don't need to "break the ice" to meet people.

Yes, you do. Slavic people are notorious for being cold and unfriendly with strangers. Aggressive too, BTW. Especially when drunk. I used to read this blog by an American expat in St.Petersburg and one of his biggest complains was how frigid, unfriendly, and closed off Russians were. They never smile and engage in small talk with strangers. He said that once you get to know them it gets better, but initially they're very hard to approach and they're quite distrusting of the people they've never met.

Not true at all in my experience. Most of my friends agree with me. You saying the opposite proves nothing. I have proof for everything I say. Check out my video series "Female Encounters of the Foreign Kind". It shows proof that when I went to Russia, it was super easy to meet girls and approach girls and get dates and talk to strangers, etc. All you have are words, but I have proof.

Female Encounters of the Foreign Kind playlist
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=P ... AMy16VuJlu

Also see my photo collage: www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Collage.htm

I put up all that for these cases when proof is needed for what I say. You have nothing but words. No comparison. How come my dating life was a MILLION times better in Russia? Even in Europe I can talk to strangers and not feel like I'm breaking the law or violating a force field. It comes naturally and smoothly. Reality isn't as mean spirited as you make it out to be. You must live in a pathetic sick twisted hateful reality bubble.

Sure some Americans might find Russians unfriendly. But that's because they are fake airheads and not authentic like me, so Russians aren't open with them. Everyone has a different vibe. My vibe doesn't fit in America so everyone puts up a force field around me, same way cats and dogs put up a barrier to each other and don't connect and aren't meant to.

Your statement is like saying that cats aren't friendly because they run away from dogs and don't hang out with them. Well that's true if you're a dog, but if you are a cat or a cat person, then they are friendlier to you. It all depends on who you are and it's all about the RESONANCE and CONNECTION. Couples are together because they are on the same FREQUENCY, it's not about age or looks. You are too f***ing shallow to understand that.

I didn't get married in America and settle down because I'm not meant to. A force field prevented me from doing so. I swear to God. Whether you believe it or not, it's the truth and I never lie, unlike you. Everyone that knows me will tell you that. If you are meant to settle down in America it will happen naturally. You can't make it happen or force it to happen. Using words like "losers and winners" is purely subjective and name calling and means nothing and proves nothing. It's just a mean spirited insult by losers like you.

Only a loser below me would try to bring me down to their level. Happy people do not do that. That speaks more about YOU than me. Obviously you are a miserable wretch. No sane good person would just bash me at every opportunity and say the opposite of everything I say, just to argue. I don't like arguing for the sake of arguing. That's toxic and trollish.

If you were reasonable and disagreed with me, you would simply say: "Winston I respect your experiences and can understand where you're coming from. But I have a different experience that I want to share. Here's why I experienced something different." Etc. That's how a decent civilized person talks. Not the way you do, insulting every line I write and calling me a loser, even though everything I wrote was 100 percent honest, which I will swear on the Bible to. All I'm doing is sharing my honest experiences. There's no basis for insulting that.

If you continue wasting my time and making me repeat all this, you are going to have to be banned. Because you are acting like trash and nothing more. Enough said.

[hb2345]

Not true at all in my experience.

What "YOUR EXPERIENCE", dummy? You went to prearranged meeting and dates with people you've met online. It's not like you were approaching random Russians on the street.

I put up all that for these cases when proof is needed for what I say. You have nothing but words. No comparison. How come my dating life was a MILLION times better in Russia? Even in Europe I can talk to strangers and not feel like I'm breaking the law or violating a force field. It comes naturally and smoothly.

What proof, idiot? A bunch of photos with random Russian people you met online? No one in their right mind would believe you've had any semblance of dating in Russia. If that was the case you'd be with a good looking white woman right now instead of these fugly Filipino chicks that use you as their wallet. Loser.

Reality isn't as mean spirited as you make it out to be.

I don't make out reality mean spirited. You do. You're the one shitting on America non-stop, bitching and moaning about your inability to make small talk in a country that invented small talk. And yes, Russians are reserved, non-smiling people and it's hard to make small talk with them. It's a well known fact acknowledged by most people who met them - https://www.rbth.com/lifestyle/330182-s ... her-russia.

You must live in a pathetic sick twisted hateful reality bubble.

Perfect description of how your mind works.

Sure some Americans might find Russians unfriendly. But that's because they are fake airheads and not authentic like me, so Russians aren't open with them.

There's nothing authentic about your goofy ass. You're a phony and a liar. An opportunistic charlatan much like the rest of these fake nice guys with a passport.

Everyone has a different vibe. My vibe doesn't fit in America so everyone puts up a force field around me, same way cats and dogs put up a barrier to each other and don't connect and aren't meant to.

Because you're an asshole and people sense that. The reason Russians gave you the time of day is because you're a novelty to them. Pretty sure you won't go there now because the novelty has worn out thin.

it's not about age or looks.

No, it's not. In Philippines it's about USD, your only valuable quality.

I didn't get married in America and settle down because I'm not meant to. A force field prevented me from doing so. I swear to God. Whether you believe it or not, it's the truth and I never lie, unlike you. Everyone that knows me will tell you that. If you are meant to settle down in America it will happen naturally. You can't make it happen or force it to happen. Using words like "losers and winners" is purely subjective and name calling and means nothing and proves nothing. It's just a mean spirited insult by losers like you.

More pathetic excuses by a worthless failure.

Only a loser below me would try to bring me down to their level. Happy people do not do that. That speaks more about YOU than me. Obviously you are a miserable wretch. No sane good person would just bash me at every opportunity and say the opposite of everything I say, just to argue. I don't like arguing for the sake of arguing. That's toxic and trollish.

No one is arguing with you, cretin. Nothing you say is worth arguing about. I'm just giving you a reality check you so desperately need. What do you know about happiness? All you do is constantly bitch and moan about your pathetic situation in life. You're as sad and miserable as one can get.

If you were reasonable and disagreed with me, you would simply say: "Winston I respect your experiences and can understand where you're coming from. But I have a different experience that I want to share. Here's why I experienced something different." Etc.

I don't respect you and your experiences, you sniveling p***y beggar. I detest phony scumbags like you and thus I've chosen the tone I deem appropriate to address crying whiny parasitic losers such as yourself.

That's how a decent civilized person talks.

You are neither decent, nor civilized. You're a deluded savage and that's why you fit in perfectly with the rest of them in the third world shit hole known as Philippines. There's a legitimate reason they treat you like a reject in developed countries like the US and Japan.

Not the way you do, insulting every line I write and calling me a loser, even though everything I wrote was 100 percent honest, which I will swear on the Bible to. All I'm doing is sharing my honest experiences. There's no basis for insulting that.

You are a loser and none of what you said is honest. It's all 100% pure, unadulterated bullshit. It's not an insult, it's a fact.

If you continue wasting my time and making me repeat all this, you are going to have to be banned. Because you are acting like trash and nothing more. Enough said.

Your time is worth nothing, clown. Ban me all you want, but that won't make you feel any better because deep down inside you know I'm right. Fu ck You!

[hb2345]

I agree with everything you've written here. But people will always try to cope and explain away their deficiencies. Or maybe Winston is just trolling with posts like these. He must by now know where he stands in the natural order of things.

Thanks. I'm not 100% sure whether Winston is simply deluded or he's being a disingenuous charlatan on purpose. Maybe a little bit of both. I think he told himself the same lie so many times he actually started to believe it.

[timfellow]

Okay hopefully it helps you

Hopefully it helps YOU.

This was odd lol