Does anyone else feel robbed of their youth for having grown up in the USA?

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Does anyone else feel robbed of their youth for having grown up in the USA?

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I am 32 years old and raised in the USA. I feel like I should have spent the last 15 years going out with people my age, socializing with people including young women, and having a good time. Instead, I spent the last 15 years anticipating for this to happen, and it never happened, and now I am 32. At my last workplace I made friends with a couple of male coworkers (we were in software) who were relatively young. But there never seemed to be any possibility of meeting girls. I won't try to pin it to a specific cause, but it just seems like women are just so evasive, and hateful towards the average man, that chance interactions with women just never happen. I feel like I have been robbed of my youth, like I was supposed to have built up a rich history of experiences socializing with girls, but instead I am 32 and still waiting for it to begin.


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You've been feminized into making women and romance the center of your existence. Do you think average men 200 years ago had rich histories of experiences with girls? Read Moby Dick. Average man on the doomed Pequod didn't even get to set foot on land for years at a time much less have any experiences with girls. Starbuck had a wife and young daughter, or so I recall from high school when i read the book. Probably that wife was the only woman he ever kissed and who knows how many years at sea before he had enough rank and money to marry. And he would only get to see his family again for a few months every few years, assuming he hadn't gone to the bottom with the rest of the crew (other than Ismael). And Starbuck was second in command. Ordinary sailors had to make do with a few visits to whores after years at sea, and then back to sea after a few weeks of drunken debauchery during which they spent all their money. Life was not much better for all workers either.
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OP, I'm the same age you are, and I do relate to my youth being wasted, even if it was partly my own fault. As for the society around me, if I was born more than two decades prior I would have dodged the stuff at the same age unlike today where society is forcing this status quo on me and everybody else.
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Shemp wrote:
December 6th, 2024, 4:53 pm
You've been feminized into making women and romance the center of your existence. Do you think average men 200 years ago had rich histories of experiences with girls? Read Moby Dick. Average man on the doomed Pequod didn't even get to set foot on land for years at a time much less have any experiences with girls. Starbuck had a wife and young daughter, or so I recall from high school when i read the book. Probably that wife was the only woman he ever kissed and who knows how many years at sea before he had enough rank and money to marry. And he would only get to see his family again for a few months every few years, assuming he hadn't gone to the bottom with the rest of the crew (other than Ismael). And Starbuck was second in command. Ordinary sailors had to make do with a few visits to whores after years at sea, and then back to sea after a few weeks of drunken debauchery during which they spent all their money. Life was not much better for all workers either.
A great post.

Experiences are more important than a continual obsession if some bit of skirt likes them.

And experiences make one more attractive.
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WesternWomenSuck wrote:
December 6th, 2024, 4:19 pm
I am 32 years old and raised in the USA. I feel like I should have spent the last 15 years going out with people my age, socializing with people including young women, and having a good time. Instead, I spent the last 15 years anticipating for this to happen, and it never happened, and now I am 32. At my last workplace I made friends with a couple of male coworkers (we were in software) who were relatively young. But there never seemed to be any possibility of meeting girls. I won't try to pin it to a specific cause, but it just seems like women are just so evasive, and hateful towards the average man, that chance interactions with women just never happen. I feel like I have been robbed of my youth, like I was supposed to have built up a rich history of experiences socializing with girls, but instead I am 32 and still waiting for it to begin.
That's silly, it's like saying you have been robbed of your youth because you never made it as a pro baseball player.

No-one is entitled to female validation.

You can do things to make yourself more attractive or you don't and it passes you by.

What efforts have you made to make yourself more attractive to women. It personally took me years and even then I can only get so many women, I am not bowling them over - the truth is, only so many women are going to like you however much you improve yourself.

Now, if you say 'I have done nothing to make myself more attractive to women' then you have got back what you have invested in yourself - nothing!
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yick wrote:
December 8th, 2024, 12:59 pm

That's silly, it's like saying you have been robbed of your youth because you never made it as a pro baseball player.

No-one is entitled to female validation.

You can do things to make yourself more attractive or you don't and it passes you by.

What efforts have you made to make yourself more attractive to women. It personally took me years and even then I can only get so many women, I am not bowling them over - the truth is, only so many women are going to like you however much you improve yourself.

Now, if you say 'I have done nothing to make myself more attractive to women' then you have got back what you have invested in yourself - nothing!
You came off as some passive-aggressive, arrogant cunt nonetheless so you might want to work on how you approach things, maybe? Or perhaps you're too good for that. You're too good to take other people's observations about you into consideration. But that's it. That's just how you come off to me: as an arrogant asshole.
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komei888 wrote:
December 8th, 2024, 1:11 pm
yick wrote:
December 8th, 2024, 12:59 pm

That's silly, it's like saying you have been robbed of your youth because you never made it as a pro baseball player.

No-one is entitled to female validation.

You can do things to make yourself more attractive or you don't and it passes you by.

What efforts have you made to make yourself more attractive to women. It personally took me years and even then I can only get so many women, I am not bowling them over - the truth is, only so many women are going to like you however much you improve yourself.

Now, if you say 'I have done nothing to make myself more attractive to women' then you have got back what you have invested in yourself - nothing!
You came off as some passive-aggressive, arrogant cunt nonetheless so you might want to work on how you approach things, maybe? Or perhaps you're too good for that. You're too good to take other people's observations about you into consideration. But that's it. That's just how you come off to me: as an arrogant asshole.
Shut up @Rock you weird looking cunt.
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WesternWomenSuck wrote:
December 6th, 2024, 4:19 pm
I am 32 years old and raised in the USA. I feel like I should have spent the last 15 years going out with people my age, socializing with people including young women, and having a good time. Instead, I spent the last 15 years anticipating for this to happen, and it never happened, and now I am 32. At my last workplace I made friends with a couple of male coworkers (we were in software) who were relatively young. But there never seemed to be any possibility of meeting girls. I won't try to pin it to a specific cause, but it just seems like women are just so evasive, and hateful towards the average man, that chance interactions with women just never happen. I feel like I have been robbed of my youth, like I was supposed to have built up a rich history of experiences socializing with girls, but instead I am 32 and still waiting for it to begin.
Software? In other words you're a nerdy looking shut in. An asocial dork with zero people skills, and a giant Funko Pop collection. Not to worry. You wouldn't be showering in free p***y and popping bottles up in da club with your buds had you grown up in Russia or Philippines. Rest easy. You haven't missed on anything. Guaranteed. If anything, you have avoided a lifetime of bullying and poverty, so be grateful for that.

Like the other poster said, you're living in an imaginary fantasy world and your rich social life entitlement ideas come from the idealistic bullshit that Hollywood had implanted in your head. Yes, in our minds we're all suppose to be rich, famous, successful with women, drive exotic cars, and live in a mansion. But harsh realities of life dictate a totally different outcome. Watch less charlatan influences and life coaches like Gary Vee and just be happy with what you got.
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hb2345 wrote:
December 10th, 2024, 7:39 pm
Software? In other words you're a nerdy looking shut in. An asocial dork with zero people skills, and a giant Funko Pop collection. Not to worry. You wouldn't be showering in free p***y and popping bottles up in da club with your buds had you grown up in Russia or Philippines. Rest easy. You haven't missed on anything. Guaranteed. If anything, you have avoided a lifetime of bullying and poverty, so be grateful for that.

Like the other poster said, you're living in an imaginary fantasy world and your rich social life entitlement ideas come from the idealistic bullshit that Hollywood had implanted in your head. Yes, in our minds we're all suppose to be rich, famous, successful with women, drive exotic cars, and live in a mansion. But harsh realities of life dictate a totally different outcome. Watch less charlatan influences and life coaches like Gary Vee and just be happy with what you got.
This so retarded, there is literally no scientific evidence of "social skills" and the more you look at it the more obvious it becomes that it's just looks.

Learn more about the blackpill, seriously. Most people are still completely underinformed.
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komei888 wrote:
December 12th, 2024, 7:36 pm
hb2345 wrote:
December 10th, 2024, 7:39 pm
Software? In other words you're a nerdy looking shut in. An asocial dork with zero people skills, and a giant Funko Pop collection. Not to worry. You wouldn't be showering in free p***y and popping bottles up in da club with your buds had you grown up in Russia or Philippines. Rest easy. You haven't missed on anything. Guaranteed. If anything, you have avoided a lifetime of bullying and poverty, so be grateful for that.

Like the other poster said, you're living in an imaginary fantasy world and your rich social life entitlement ideas come from the idealistic bullshit that Hollywood had implanted in your head. Yes, in our minds we're all suppose to be rich, famous, successful with women, drive exotic cars, and live in a mansion. But harsh realities of life dictate a totally different outcome. Watch less charlatan influences and life coaches like Gary Vee and just be happy with what you got.
This so retarded, there is literally no scientific evidence of "social skills" and the more you look at it the more obvious it becomes that it's just looks.

Learn more about the blackpill, seriously. Most people are still completely underinformed.

Elliot Rodger was good looking and rich, but much like yourself he was also highly autistic and lacking in self-consciousness/self-awareness, which explained his fails. So cope harder, asocial loser.
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hb2345 wrote:
December 13th, 2024, 9:45 pm
So cope harder, asocial loser.
So instead of then elaborating, or idk, maybe write a better comment that isn't obnoxiously arrogant, objectively wrong and stupid, you sperg out, derail the thread, and cry like a bitch. What a f***ing cunt.
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komei888 wrote:
December 13th, 2024, 10:17 pm
hb2345 wrote:
December 13th, 2024, 9:45 pm
So cope harder, asocial loser.
So instead of then elaborating, or idk, maybe write a better comment that isn't obnoxiously arrogant, objectively wrong and stupid, you sperg out, derail the thread, and cry like a bitch. What a f***ing cunt.
The pot calling the kettle black. Cry louder, retarded incel.
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hb2345 wrote:
December 10th, 2024, 7:39 pm
WesternWomenSuck wrote:
December 6th, 2024, 4:19 pm
I am 32 years old and raised in the USA. I feel like I should have spent the last 15 years going out with people my age, socializing with people including young women, and having a good time. Instead, I spent the last 15 years anticipating for this to happen, and it never happened, and now I am 32. At my last workplace I made friends with a couple of male coworkers (we were in software) who were relatively young. But there never seemed to be any possibility of meeting girls. I won't try to pin it to a specific cause, but it just seems like women are just so evasive, and hateful towards the average man, that chance interactions with women just never happen. I feel like I have been robbed of my youth, like I was supposed to have built up a rich history of experiences socializing with girls, but instead I am 32 and still waiting for it to begin.
Software? In other words you're a nerdy looking shut in. An asocial dork with zero people skills, and a giant Funko Pop collection. Not to worry. You wouldn't be showering in free p***y and popping bottles up in da club with your buds had you grown up in Russia or Philippines. Rest easy. You haven't missed on anything. Guaranteed. If anything, you have avoided a lifetime of bullying and poverty, so be grateful for that.

Like the other poster said, you're living in an imaginary fantasy world and your rich social life entitlement ideas come from the idealistic bullshit that Hollywood had implanted in your head. Yes, in our minds we're all suppose to be rich, famous, successful with women, drive exotic cars, and live in a mansion. But harsh realities of life dictate a totally different outcome. Watch less charlatan influences and life coaches like Gary Vee and just be happy with what you got.
This is an excellent post!
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@hb2345 he wasn't good looking you f***ing retard and you're a f***ing idiot if you think that "social skills" which there is no proof of or science of is more important than looks which there are actual studies on. Holy shit you're f***ing dumb. He look effeminate and like a faggot which is why females weren't attracted to him. You dumb f***ing cunt.
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my life is trash wrote:
February 27th, 2025, 1:49 pm
look effeminate and like a faggot
We already know how you look, incel. No need for a description.
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