All_That_Is_Man wrote:Black features (such as dark skin, rough skin, nappy hair, high testosterone, bone structure, fuller muscles) are extremely masculine. These features that I have as a black man make me very proud and also define my masculinity. On the other hand, these very same features generally make black females look like male transvestites. So black women are shit out of luck from the womb when it comes to even looking like or acting like females naturally. I will not date black females.
ATIM, I know where you're coming from, but I have to disagree with you there man. Black features can be feminine and attractive too. Maybe you just haven't seen it, but I have - when black women stick to their natural appearance. I don't deny that a lot of black women, you see in the west, look very masculine but I think a major part of that is them going for the white aesthetic. The weaves, the relaxed hair, and wearing/styling their makeup the same way as white women (which just doesn't look good on black skin imo). For me, that's what makes some of them look like drag queens lol, because it just doesn't look right.
But when they stick to their natural appearance, they can be feminine and attractive. When they braid their hair, have natural afros, or keep it short and nappy, like you and I - while still not coming off as androgynous. Here are a few examples:
I just wanted to include this image of Solange, just to show that the short and nappy look also works. I know she's not 100% black but you do get 100% black women with fairer/lighter complexions and who look as good as this, at least where I'm from.
And the on bone structure and fuller muscles, I don't think that has to do with being black, per se. A lot of black women, in the west, are either fat or just out of shape. How many black women do ever see outside jogging? None,

I don't subscribe to that whole notion that black women are naturally fuller or naturally have big booties, and what not. It's because the majority of aren't active.