leavingusa wrote:anamericaninbangkok wrote:I would like to think that if I bring my wife to live in the US a few months out of the year when she's 40-45, she'll be settled enough to not turn into a bitch. I don't foresee this happening as I could probably bring her over now and she wouldn't flip.
Bring her to an American club and leave her there for a few hours. She'll be fine
The only thing that would stop her turning into a bitch is the complete lack of options that she has in her home country. Wait until a handsome tall man who owns several buildings hits on her right in front of you, she will smile, giggle and suddenly wish you would disappear.
LeavingUSA - have you left the US already or are you still twiddling your thumbs making plans? I left 20 years ago and have been with women all over the world, how about you?
To address your ignorance:
Lack of options she has in her home country? Do you truly believe your own bullshit or are you just a bitter mother f***er? Do you have any f***ing idea about what you're writing? Do you always assume because someone is from a foreign country they have no options? Do you believe every American who goes abroad ends up with some poor girl who can't take care of herself? Unbelievable. How do you know I don't own buildings? I do own a fair amount of land and that will work in a pinch.
Every woman wishes "you would disappear" simply because some other guy hits on her? I've been with the woman for 14 years - if she wants to split, she's had "other options" and she's still here. She doesn't get an allowance from me, I don't take her shopping, I never paid a dowry, and in my book, you're simply another dude who talks smack, acts like you know what you're talking about but actually knows diddly. How much "real-world" experience do you have?
Also, you must think every man is pussified. You've these ideals in your head and the truth is, most of what you're spewing is garbage.