Cute Girl (Thread became off-topic)

[S_Parc]

Here's the difference in how something could be said:

Uncensored and politically incorrect: I wouldn't ever be with any girl that's a filthy slut
Uncensored and somewhat politically correct: I wouldn't ever be with an experienced girl
Censored and politically correct: I don't like most modern girls
Censored, politically correct, and whitewashed: I just haven't found the right girl for me

I won't lose mine until I have the right girl.

No offence Tsar but you don't even travel, so you shouldn't have any standards for foreign women because you have never gone to THEIR country or bothered to go and see them.

this is already sounding like a re-play of the loneliness thread ...

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[Cornfed]

No offence Tsar but you don't even travel, so you shouldn't have any standards for foreign women because you have never gone to THEIR country or bothered to go and see them.

Female virginity is the universal human standard for marriage. If females in a particular society are not generally virgins when they marry it simply indicates that the females are worthless sluts and their society is doomed to collapse.

[Tsar]

this is already sounding like a re-play of the loneliness thread ...

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It does contain similar points.

I was pointing out a profile of an attractive Belarusian girl which is what the thread should have been about. Others brought in some unrelated points of an unrelated topic making it personal, which then got my reply based on my feelings on the unrelated topic. The replies shouldn't have been made personal.

[eurobrat]

No offence Tsar but you don't even travel, so you shouldn't have any standards for foreign women because you have never gone to THEIR country or bothered to go and see them.

Female virginity is the universal human standard for marriage. If females in a particular society are not generally virgins when they marry it simply indicates that the females are worthless sluts and their society is doomed to collapse.

From one spoiled brat to another. Both of you have barely been outside the country and you never will be long term yet you expect some white eastern beauty to join you in your miserableness and unemployment in the US.

[Cornfed]

No offence Tsar but you don't even travel, so you shouldn't have any standards for foreign women because you have never gone to THEIR country or bothered to go and see them.

Female virginity is the universal human standard for marriage. If females in a particular society are not generally virgins when they marry it simply indicates that the females are worthless sluts and their society is doomed to collapse.

From one spoiled brat to another. Both of you have barely been outside the country and you never will be long term yet you expect some white eastern beauty to join you in your miserableness and unemployment in the US.

What are you talking about? I am simply stating demonstrable historical and anthropological facts and I lived overseas for several years.

[Cornfed]

No offence Tsar but you don't even travel, so you shouldn't have any standards for foreign women because you have never gone to THEIR country or bothered to go and see them.

Female virginity is the universal human standard for marriage. If females in a particular society are not generally virgins when they marry it simply indicates that the females are worthless sluts and their society is doomed to collapse.

From one spoiled brat to another. Both of you have barely been outside the country and you never will be long term yet you expect some white eastern beauty to join you in your miserableness and unemployment in the US.

What are you talking about? I am simply stating demonstrable historical and anthropological facts and I lived overseas for several years.

Several years of living abroad wasn't enough for you to find a single worthy girl? Not even one you considered dating long term, not one you'd propose to, marry? In all those years there wasn't a single girl that might have made you happy and less of a negative Nancy? I wonder how that's even possible...

As I've said before, the problem was that I didn't have a stable long term financial and social situation to offer a wife. Also a little over a year of that was in Australia, where all the females suck anyway.

[Cornfed]

Sometimes you need to just throw yourself into something without worrying to much about financial issues. A good woman who loves you truly will marry you even if you are dirt poor and stick with you through thick and thin until you make it, supporting you every step of the way. If you cannot find such a woman abroad you will not find her anywhere.

You are either an idiot or a troll.

[Cornfed]

If you are living abroad and you say the local women are different from Western women, I'd assume they are good women, no? And a good woman will look at YOU first, for who you are, and not your paycheck. You can befriend her and fall in love with her without having to worry about money because money will be the last thing on her mind if she isn't a materialistic c**t or an immoral gold digger.

The reality is there needs to be a stable, viable situation for a female to marry into, and it is irresponsible to marry otherwise.

[Cornfed]

If you are living abroad and you say the local women are different from Western women, I'd assume they are good women, no? And a good woman will look at YOU first, for who you are, and not your paycheck. You can befriend her and fall in love with her without having to worry about money because money will be the last thing on her mind if she isn't a materialistic c**t or an immoral gold digger.

The reality is there needs to be a stable, viable situation for a female to marry into, and it is irresponsible to marry otherwise.

You didn't answer my question though... have you ever been in a relationship with any woman? If so, how'd that play out?

Yes and none of your business.

[Cornfed]

Yes and none of your business.

Painful subject, eh?

Not especially other than not being able to seal the deal and get married. Lets drop the subject.

[publicduende]

For all you know she had only one boyfriend before and lost her virginity to him.

That would be an even worse slap in the face. Being second is in many regards worse than being any other number because it just shows she couldn't have waited for him. It's only him and the current guy. The first would always be more special and always be in her heart and mind.

As a lot of people (including myself) told you in here, you are a beggar, not a chooser. Your chances to have a virgin are very slim now and decrease exponentially as you grow older. No matter what you do, by your early 30s your utopia of meeting an underage girl will be solely confined to your fantasy world, lest be labelled a perv and possibly meet some sort of legal action.

The girl whose profile you posted is undeniably pretty and virginal (= innocent-looking). Yet, I am 99.9% positive she one of the many who has been paid a few tens of dollars to give away a few of her best photos and/or pose for a semi-pro shooting. You will never know her real name, what her whereabouts are, whether she has a bf or a husband (she probably has), let alone have a chance to meet her for a date. Like 90% of the profiles on AFA, she is bait pure and simple. If you were to try and write to her, you'll be replied by an office full of (probably male) hacks who know very well how to bamboozle lonely and gullible Americanos into shelling out their next "translation fee". And if you were to join one of their legendary "romance tours" you would find a cohort of semi-attractive divorcees and single mothers in their 30s to late 40s, perhaps still a good deal compared to an American divorcee or single mother, with a sprinkle of real young hotties paid to sit down with you and engage in language-impaired smalltalk and give those men the impression their tour dollars are hard at work.

This does not mean that somewhere abroad, traditional girls who are still young enough to be unspoiled by all the -isms we so despise and looking for a serious relationships do not exist. You just have to learn to compromise on the underage and virgin things, which are utopian and borderline pervy, equip yourself with some knowledge of the world, some real life experience as opposed to seeing the world from a basement and PC screen, some social skills and self-confidence, perhaps learn another foreign language (especially useful outside of the Philippines, say Latin America or even China) and ultimately travel, travel, travel.

A lot of good things will happen to you when you choose to travel and explore. Some bad, too, but ultimately in a few years you will have packed enough appreciation of the real world and what women really are, that your underage virgin requirement will be easily forgotten.

[publicduende]

Yes and none of your business.

Painful subject, eh?

More like, non-existent subject

[publicduende]

Yes and none of your business.

Painful subject, eh?

Not especially other than not being able to seal the deal and get married. Lets drop the subject.

Perhaps you realised you couldn't just "seal the deal" when neither the girl nor her family agree.

[eurobrat]

He's worse than a beggar he's like some weird 25 year old virgin fantasy guy with little to no clue how the world works.

For all you know she had only one boyfriend before and lost her virginity to him.

That would be an even worse slap in the face. Being second is in many regards worse than being any other number because it just shows she couldn't have waited for him. It's only him and the current guy. The first would always be more special and always be in her heart and mind.

As a lot of people (including myself) told you in here, you are a beggar, not a chooser. Your chances to have a virgin are very slim now and decrease exponentially as you grow older. No matter what you do, by your early 30s your utopia of meeting an underage girl will be solely confined to your fantasy world, lest be labelled a perv and possibly meet some sort of legal action.

The girl whose profile you posted is undeniably pretty and virginal (= innocent-looking). Yet, I am 99.9% positive she one of the many who has been paid a few tens of dollars to give away a few of her best photos and/or pose for a semi-pro shooting. You will never know her real name, what her whereabouts are, whether she has a bf or a husband (she probably has), let alone have a chance to meet her for a date. Like 90% of the profiles on AFA, she is bait pure and simple. If you were to try and write to her, you'll be replied by an office full of (probably male) hacks who know very well how to bamboozle lonely and gullible Americanos into shelling out their next "translation fee". And if you were to join one of their legendary "romance tours" you would find a cohort of semi-attractive divorcees and single mothers in their 30s to late 40s, perhaps still a good deal compared to an American divorcee and single mother, with a sprinkled of real young hotties paid to sit down with you and engage in language-impaired smalltalk and give those men the impression their tour dollars are hard at work.

This does not mean that somewhere abroad, traditional girls who are still young enough to be unspoiled by all the -isms we so despise and looking for a serious relationships do not exist. You just have to learn to compromise on the underage and virgin things, which are utopian and borderline pervy, equip yourself with some knowledge of the world, some real life experience as opposed to seeing the world from a basement and PC screen, some social skills and self-confidence, perhaps learn another foreign language (especially useful outside of the Philippines, say Latin America or even China) and ultimately travel, travel, travel.

A lot of good things will happen to you when you choose to travel and explore. Some bad, too, but ultimately in a few years you will have packed enough appreciation of the real world and what women really are, that your underage virgin requirement will be easily forgotten.

[eurobrat]

He's worse than a beggar he's like some weird 25 year old virgin fantasy guy with little to no clue how the world works.

Which is why threads like this and the type of responses he receives here are of VITAL importance for Tsar. Yes, it may seem at times like people are ganging up on him, tearing down his dreams, burning him down... but it's not out of dislike for the poor fellow that we do this. I can of course only speak for myself here but the sense I am getting is that we wish him to succeed, but know he won't unless he changes his ridiculously specific and unrealistic and unattainable standards for women and romance. And, of course, he has to actually DO something and UNDERTAKE ACTION.

Maybe the dream for some guys is all they have to live for.