My advice to American parents living in the USA

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Fifteen years ago, we had one Columbine incident. And in the aftermath, the nation didn't know what to do or even how to perceive the event. Thus, they developed this 'zero tolerance' policy as oppose to trying to figure out what causes teens to go nuts. Today, these events are occurring all the time. And in the aftermath, the Femi-Nazi/Thought control police keep uttering the same things, denying the obvious. And that obvious is that if these guys were simply getting laid, then there would be no shootings. Instead, we'd go back to something known as a heated discussion. Ppl would argue with each other and go back to living their lives.

Here's what's happening ... kids aren't stupid. Half the population grows up in single parent homes. The other half primarily lives in dysfunctional households. These kids can see that there's no hope for a happy future. In school, they're either ostracized or bullied. The girls reject 'em for college aged guys, jocks, or criminal douchebags. Thus, the message is clear ... life has nothing to offer a kid. The most he can look forward to is perhaps getting accepted into a college (w/o scholarships but huge loans) and if he's lucky, find a white collar job at some point in his life. Now, is that a life worth fighting for?

My question is why can't the average American family figure this out? Mel and I have had this discussion for quite some time and neither or us have kids. Instead, parents deflect the blame back at their sons and periodically, some of them go nuts. I believe that they should level with them and accept the fact that we don't live in 'Ozzie & Harriet' times and that for the most part, they will not have a HS sweetheart who'll turn into their future soulmate. Instead, they should skip HS, do the homeschooling/part-time college, bang a RealDoll, and look forward to a brothel on their 18th birthday in Thailand.

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Instead, they should skip HS, do the homeschooling/part-time college, bang a RealDoll, and look forward to a brothel on their 18th birthday in Thailand.

What if my son, like me, was not the slightest bit turned on by a girlfriend made out of plastic? Hell, even plastic breasts disgust me let alone an entire body made out of motionless cold rubber and plastic... the life-like ones are very expensive, but enter uncanny valley territory. Seems like sleeping like an embalmed corpse to me. You keep bumping this thread, you think this the ultimate solution, but all I think this will accomplish is our sons grow up being serial killers and necrophiles.

First of all, you're still talking about PI vs the USA. In PI, no doll is required. In the USA, he'll be dealing with toxic personalities all over the place. Trust me on this, there are practically no women like Mel in America anymore. I'd basically won the lottery, finding someone as loyal, congenial, and trustworthy as her. And the fact that we have just about everything in common is unheard of, which is why so many couples out there are jealous of us.

Since I'd promised Mel that I'd never meet any HAers, outside of this forum's PM system, I can spill some of the beans. (She's given me the green light to go ahead). The way Mel and I have solved some of our incompatibilities is that we use one ourselves. And yes, if you use an electric blanket, it's warm to the touch. And yes, the sensations, etc, have allowed us to have some intimacy w/o her biological tendencies of getting repelled. Thus, we've cut down on our esc*rting bill and the doll's pretty much, paid for itself. Now, I look back at my own life and wonder, if I were alone, wouldn't this be a good way to ease the daily tension of schooling and work, then in actually dating hostile AWs? For me, the answer is a resounding 'yes'.

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Looks like one open minded American couple is taking our advice.

They're going to start with the GED preparation, starting in the 6th grade, next fall. The goal is to remove their son by the time when he's suppose to be in the 9th grade. They know all about the decline and fall of HS, starting in the nineties, even before Columbine. Apparently, though he plays little league sports, he's not destined for any US Olympic or Big Ten football squad. At best, he may get some varsity letters but that's not enough of a reason to attend a high school. I think the stories of Lanza and Rodgers had put the fear of God into them.

As for the RealDoll issue, well, the wife was a bit more hesitant than the father but if her son needs it, when his hormones comes online, she may cave in. They're still in disagreement about the esc*rt gal for the eighteenth birthday party but we'll see. She knew a few teenage age gals, who'd gotten knocked up and ruined the rest of their lives so although the concept of prost*tution sickens her, practical concerns may override her repulsion because things in America just aren't what they were, only fifteen years ago.