Asian Women and White Men

[S_Parc]

You would be surprised at how many ppl have the above issue. The difference between Elliot and these other self-deluded ppl, who live with cats & goldfish, is that the latter crew are happy believing that they're the undiscovered Mozart a/o James Dean.

For example, one was a woman who'd thought that if a guy said anything to her, that he was secretly planning on molesting her. Hence, she never had a boyfriend. BTW, I'd stopped talking to this person because she'd thought that I was a sexual predator and threatened to call the police on me. She was a '5', who thought that she was Cindy Crawford. I told her to get a clue and that was the end of that. I believe she was a 33 year old virgin at the time.

BTW, just so you know, she showed me her drawing of the nine planets and told me that it was a work of inspired genius

So yes, like Rodgers, she overestimated all of her meager talents and because she could never find work, aside from being an admin assistant, the world was punishing her because it was jealous of her enlightenment

[droid]

I didn't get that feeling. It seems to me that his problem that AW were vile thug-humping sluts was a perfectly legitimate complaint.

Nah... I have read his manifesto and I have read the stories of those who interacted with him, and from everything it seems that he likely suffered from severe social anxiety. Yes, he died a virgin, but he never approached any women either. He considered himself devilishly handsome, and would not set his eyes on anything but a blonde model-looking girl. Asian girls, he had no interest in. Latina's he couldn't be bothered with. Mixed girls he ignored completely; all the while being a mixed race guy himself.

An interesting interview a while back, from one of his fathers friends in the movie business, details how the man tried to help him in vain:

http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-28197785

So he's a guy who never so much as talked to a girl or asked them out. He was never denied a date, because he never asked anyone on a date. He was not denied sex either, and you would be a fool to believe that a semi-handsome guy with rich parents who wore designer shades and drove a BMW could not have gotten laid easily had he put some effort into it. But he didn't.

Getting laid was the vocal point of his life, and yet he never actually tried.

It's not one or the other. He was nuts, a murderer, AND american girls are terribly unfriendly on the average, as we've posted a thousand times.
Like signet mentioned, he would've snapped with some other excuse.

Also, the advice he was given was the typical old-fashioned BS that doesn't work anymore in the states. If the compliment action was not perfectly executed he would be labeled a 'creep' (in this case it would be correct though).

Compare all that madness to how a guy here in Manizales today that showed me how to get numbers by cat calling women from his car Lol. That's kind of extreme for my style but goes to show how different things are where ratios favor dudes .

[S_Parc]

Also, the advice he was given was the typical old-fashioned BS that doesn't work anymore in the states. If the compliment action was not perfectly executed he would be labeled a 'creep' (in this case it would be correct though).

Compare that to the guy here in Manizales today that showed me how to get numbers by cat calling women from his car Lol. That's kind of extreme for my style but goes to show how different things are where ratios favor dudes .

The thing is that Marcos did not actually grow up in America, which is hell on earth for heterosexual guys who're not investment bankers, professional athletes, criminals, etc. The best place to get gals in America is through the drug culture, something I'd avoided at all costs.

In western Europe, however, including Britain, women are still friendlier and even British chicks know how to make conversation. Just like in Brazil, when I was in the London office, I had plenty gals chatting it up with me, at the offices, and at parties/gatherings. Getting a GF outside of America is basically a cake walk.

[droid]

The thing is that Marcos did not actually grow up in America, which is hell on earth for heterosexual guys who're not investment bankers, professional athletes, criminals, etc. The best place to get gals in America is through the drug culture, something I'd avoided at all costs.

In western Europe, however, including Britain, women are still friendlier and even British chicks know how to make conversation. Just like in Brazil, when I was in the London office, I had plenty gals chatting it up with me, at the offices, and at parties/gatherings. Getting a GF outside of America is basically a cake walk.

That is true, Marcos comes from the context where you can chat them up more easily, so it's kind of alien to him why some guys would not even bother trying [anymore].

Good point about brit girls, they have a bad rep, but in the very short chitchats i've had with them in my travels, i could tell they were nice from the eye contact alone. It's feels refreshing talking to an anglo girl that makes eye contact and has no snarkyness, But i could be wrong those were very short exchacnges.

[fightforlove]

Somebody doesn't like WM-AF couples.

The statements on the left are true for some white men, but not for the vast majority who date asian women.

The statements on the right about how her child "doesn't look white" and "angry that her child is whiter than her but not white enough" are the same thing just worded differently.

There is a lot of truth to "white fever" in asian women and that both WMs and AFs might a tendency to stereotype one another somewhat. I think we all are guilty of stereotyping others to at least some extent and we have all been victims of stereotyping to an extent as well. There is some truth to many stereotypes. That said, I think creations like this are more misguided anger than they are actual truth. Get out and meet some actual White-Asian couples, get to know them and I think in most cases you will not find these stereotypes.

[S_Parc]

The thing is that Marcos did not actually grow up in America, which is hell on earth for heterosexual guys who're not investment bankers, professional athletes, criminals, etc. The best place to get gals in America is through the drug culture, something I'd avoided at all costs.

In western Europe, however, including Britain, women are still friendlier and even British chicks know how to make conversation. Just like in Brazil, when I was in the London office, I had plenty gals chatting it up with me, at the offices, and at parties/gatherings. Getting a GF outside of America is basically a cake walk.

That is true, Marcos comes from the context where you can chat them up more easily, so it's kind of alien to him why some guys would not even bother trying [anymore].

Good point about brit girls, they have a bad rep, but in the very short chitchats i've had with them in my travels, i could tell they were nice from the eye contact alone. It's feels refreshing talking to an anglo girl that makes eye contact and has no snarkyness, But i could be wrong those were very short exchacnges.

British gals remind me of the working class American gals of the 80s, but with more finesse. The idea is that while there are golddiggers and douchebag-lovers, just like at home, it's not 100% across the spectrum. Thus, dating was actually easy there. My concern was to avoid engaging someone, who was too close/personal with someone in my company's circle. And even today, there are still a few decent working class American women, but their numbers are dwindling, as douchebaggery has lassoed the land, kinda like the 'Invasion of the Body Snatcher'.

[droid]

as douchebaggery has lassoed the land, kinda like the 'Invasion of the Body Snatcher'.

Indeed

[MarkDY]

Elliot Rodger was probably a virgin.

I have a theory ... and that theory is that a man should not be a virgin past the age of 18 (max 19).

Elliot's father was loaded and connected. He should have gotten his son a hooker for his 18th birthday. It quiet common in some countries to give a boy a hooker for his birthday.

[S_Parc]

Elliot Rodger was probably a virgin.

I have a theory ... and that theory is that a man should not be a virgin past the age of 18 (max 19).

Elliot's father was loaded and connected. He should have gotten his son a hooker for his 18th birthday. It quiet common in some countries to give a boy a hooker for his birthday.

This happened to one of my friend's ex-BF, when he'd turned 18 in Brazil. Even though it's rather easy to get laid in Brazil, he was dealing with confidence issues at the time. From what she'd described, this guy would never get laid in America without being in the drug culture. He's lucky that he was Brazilian.

As for Elliot, the problem was that he was a misfit, from ages 13 to adulthood. Granted, he's got some serious issues, but growing up in the US and basically, never being able to form bonds with any ppl, made him a prisoner of his mind. The only way for his dad to have saved him was to use the S_Parc mandate... the dad would need to homeschool his kid, 100% removing him from that high school BS. Get him a RealDoll, to bone between homework assignments, and then, when he's 18, take him to a brothel in Brazil, and then, he'll be doing the Penn State online bachelors, never touching foot in Pennsylvania, until the day he shows up to pick up his diploma.

During the Penn State online program, he'll be somewhere in Latin America, and his dad will set him up with a Sugar Baby, so that Elliot's pampered with BJs and massages, whenever he's not studying, playing an instrument, or practicing some martial arts.

Finally, at the age of 22, which is when he'd gone postal at UC/Santa Barbara, he'd instead, be with his dad at State College PA, doing a photo opt, having drinks, and eating out at their famous Waffle shop. (My friend who'd gone to PSU always raves about their waffles).

[droid]

his dad will set him up with a Sugar Baby, so that Elliot's pampered with BJs and massages, whenever he's not studying, playing an instrument, or practicing some martial arts.

Holy smokes you'd make a great dad S_parc.

[Cornfed]

An interesting interview a while back, from one of his fathers friends in the movie business, details how the man tried to help him in vain:

http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-28197785

"It seemed like he would perceive cruelness or hatefulness when in fact, I suspected, he was just being ignored.

I remember giving him an assignment once so he could try to establish some kind of dynamic with a woman.

I told him, "When you see a woman next time you're on campus and you like her hair or sunglasses, just pay her a compliment."

I told him, "It's a freebie, something in passing, you're not trying to make conversation. Keep walking, don't make any long eye contact, just give the free compliment." The idea being you might make a friend if you make someone feel good.

I said to Elliot, "In the next few weeks - if you see them they'll likely give you a smile - and you can smile back and eventually turn this into chit-chat."

These people just don’t have a clue about the nature of Western sluts. It is not surprising that Elliot ran amok if this is the sort of bullshit told to him by older men.

I got in touch with him a few weeks later and asked if he did it. He said "no". And when asked why not, he said "Why do I have to compliment them? Why don't they compliment me?"

Good question. Why didn't they?

[romparoo]

Good question. Why didn't they?

No, they probably did. Women compliment men, though not as often. When the woman who dropped compliment is considered out of one's league, some guys just have a selective memory loss.

[S_Parc]

Many of them may be materialistic c**ts, but if they were all as bad as you say they are there would hardly be anyone getting married nowadays, and that doesn't appear to be happening. There is a high percentage of divorce, and there are many broken homes, but before a home is broken it has to first be established, and that still happens.

That being said, S_Parc, I am sure you and Mel will make wonderful parents and the chance of you guys raising an Elliot Rodger-esque son are next to zero. I don't always get you... or your perspective, but that is because I am not an American. You know how to navigate that world now, and I'm sure you will thrive in it one way or another.

On some level Marcos, you're blaming American men for their lack of success with AWs. Yes, it's a bit subtle but that's what you're doing.

What you seem to fail to comprehend is that Mel was born a lesbian. If she were born straight, we would have simply gotten married by graduation and I wouldn't be on this forum. You wouldn't have heard of me in that alternate "Outer Limits" reality. Ask yourself this fundamental question ... why would Mel give up on women, to be with me? Sure, I'm rather egotistical and self-centered (and love to pat myself on the back) calling myself the best thing since sliced bread, but the truth of the matter is that she's both free and happy with me. In contrast, women have failed her. She has zero faith or trust in them. From her perspective, I'm 110% the opposite of women.

Nowadays, we do not go out on double dates with ppl in our age bracket. They're pretty much jealous of us and feel really glum when they discover that we'd known each other, for over a decade and half. These dysfunctional (or soon-to-be) couples cannot stand being around happy ppl. All it does is accentuate their lameness. Today, we spend time with couples, a decade or more, older than us. Those folks have already worked out their issues, ages ago.

And then, if we were to have let's say a son, I would be forced to tell him that he may never find a woman, as great as his mother. Yes, that's the sad truth. I recall a female friend of mine, who had the best American parents of all time. Her parents met back in the 60s and lived a near perfect life. I'd run into them once and they seemed happy and natural to me. Well, my friend ended up divorced with an abusive ex-husband. She was always disappointed with the fact that the ideal life that her parents had, was never going to be hers.

So basically, I'd won the lottery but unlike you, I'm not badgering others, for not having gotten those 6 digits correct. I realize that I'm in a one in a million situation, esp for America, and I leave it at that. My only hope is that ppl either find what they need stateside on their own (modified MGTOW) or if they're lucky, able to travel and find a decent partner in Latin America, eastern Europe, or Asia-Pacific.

[droid]

And yet there are guys who are not professional athletes, criminals, bankers or celebrities who still manage to date, sleep around, even get into committed long-term relationships and get married. A relative and good friend of mine went to Los Angeles to study, and almost instantly hit it off with an American girl - they've been dating for almost two years now and seem very happy, talking about marriage. I met her in person and found her to be somewhat... dull, to my personal taste. But she is friendly, very pretty and seems to deeply care for him. Now my cousin is not some sort of super model, he is not wealthy by any means, just a poor student. But getting a girl in America was, by his account, very easy.

Now you just want to "be right" Marcos and keep implying those that can't find it in the states are necessarily losers. So everyone on the other posts -even the website- are wrong? Of course there are great American girls but every day they're more of a rare commodity, that's the whole point. I know you're from Holland, not USA, but why did you marry a philli girl in the first place? I might be wrong but was it just incidental?

[S_Parc]

And yet there are guys who are not professional athletes, criminals, bankers or celebrities who still manage to date, sleep around, even get into committed long-term relationships and get married. A relative and good friend of mine went to Los Angeles to study, and almost instantly hit it off with an American girl - they've been dating for almost two years now and seem very happy, talking about marriage. I met her in person and found her to be somewhat... dull, to my personal taste. But she is friendly, very pretty and seems to deeply care for him. Now my cousin is not some sort of super model, he is not wealthy by any means, just a poor student. But getting a girl in America was, by his account, very easy.

Now you just want to "be right" Marcos and keep implying those that can't find it in the states are necessarily losers. So everyone on the other posts -even the website- are wrong? Of course there are great American girls but every day they're more of a rare commodity, that's the whole point. I know you're from Holland, not USA, but why did you marry a philli girl in the first place? I might be wrong but was it just incidental?

My theory is that Marcos is on a power trip.

For the life of me, I can't understand how a happily married man, would want to get on the net, and badger single men for not dating.

When I'd started on this forum 4 years ago, I'd recently broken up with a Brazilian and was having regular fights with my dad and my sister. Back then, I was very vitriolic in my posts, esp against WomensView, who was a standard douchebag lover but then decided to find a beta. Yes, 4 years ago, I was a rage-a-holic.

Since my life started turning around, and then of course reuniting with my GF, who's now the love of my life, I've pretty much lost interest in getting on a forum where ppl b*tch about life all of the time, because my life is essentially happy.

And that's what's got me wondering about Marcos ... why isn't he calming down and becoming more 'settled'? Instead, he's self-righteous, haughty, in ppl's face, and all that jazz. That doesn't sound like a man in love; that sounds more like some control freak who's now planted his flag in Asia-Pacific and has become his own version of Marlon Brando's Colonel Kurtz from 'Apocalypse Now'.