Why are the standards of American women so high compared to other women around the world?

[jamesbond]

I'm sorry but dating apps need to be banned by the state. No human being deserves to have the amount of power that dating apps give women.

I agree completely. If I was president of the United States, the first thing I would do is ban all online dating and I would ban Onlyfans as well. I am serious, this would be the first thing I would do if elected president. Online dating gives women all the power in dating and it's ridiculous.

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[kangarunner]

I read an article once that said something like "You'll hear men say things like I love a good Colombian woman or I love a good Vietnamese woman but you will never hear a man in any part of the world say I love a good American woman"......There is an allure that women in other countries have. Vietnamese women have an allure of long black hair, being reserved, slim, and feminine. Colombian women have an allure of being passionate, family oriented, loyal, and of course good looking.

American women have no such allure.....and you will never hear a man not from America express desire for an American woman.

[flowerthief00]

Because women don't like men as much as men like women.

Is it really so hard to accept? Women in America just have the luxury of not needing to hide it.

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[jamesbond]

I read an article once that said something like "You'll hear men say things like I love a good Colombian woman or I love a good Vietnamese woman but you will never hear a man in any part of the world say I love a good American woman"......There is an allure that women in other countries have. Vietnamese women have an allure of long black hair, being reserved, slim, and feminine. Colombian women have an allure of being passionate, family oriented, loyal, and of course good looking.

American women have no such allure.....and you will never hear a man not from America express desire for an American woman.

That's true, you will never hear an American man say, "I really love American women."

[kangarunner]

[castlebasetone]

The big reason why women in the US have such high dating standards is that they are being hit on all the time in person (at bars and clubs, at work, at the gym) and they are being hit on if they have social media.

Also, if a woman in the US is using online dating she is getting between 50 and 100 guys a day sending her messages. It's no wonder why women in the United States are so picky about who they date, they have a lot of options.

I agree that this is a huge part of the answer. Social media & dating apps have given women access to the upper echelons of men in a way they have never had before, it allows them to experience the best looking men at their will on a daily basis and they perceive anything less than the top 5% in LOOKS as not worth their time.

A man's worth (SMV) these days is his LOOKS. You can have everything including height, money, success etc but if you don't have the facial bone structure that makes their snatch wet, they just don't see you as valuable. And the focus on image is only getting worse. Mark my words, it's only a short matter of time before women are speaking in the terminology of the blackpill as fluently as the men in those circles - ie. "I only go for guys with a positive canthal tilt". And furthermore, I think it's also only a matter of time before this mindset spreads into the countries that we discuss here so often.

[WanderingProtagonist]

I'm sorry but dating apps need to be banned by the state. No human being deserves to have the amount of power that dating apps give women.

I agree completely. If I was president of the United States, the first thing I would do is ban all online dating and I would ban Onlyfans as well. I am serious, this would be the first thing I would do if elected president. Online dating gives women all the power in dating and it's ridiculous.

That's a dumb idea. Banning those apps wouldn't do anything, those women will still have access regardless if you did that.

[josephty2]

I would say that 90% of the PUA community is scam and guys fighting others guys. However, there's a 10% which has some truth in it.

However, if we look at that 10% it seems like a full time job to be that "High Value Guy' that American women crave.

Based on analysis the "Top Guys" dating apps profiles. American women want a guy who: Rides Motorcycles, Can play a musical instrument, has a 6 figure job and dresses classy, goes to the gym and is ripped, can work as bartender and prepare shots. We could go as further and say, he can speak multiple languages, has a high sense of humor and wit. On top of that are good in bed.

I can count in two hands the number of guys I've met who actually live up to this standards, its actually very few.

In contrast, I met guys who were regular guys in other countries, the standards where, "Don't be a drunk, have a job, be a decent guy." There's many guys that i know who have girlfriends and are average guys at best.

A naive person comes up with this type of thinking.

Its accurate (I clarify that some men do experience this, and its usually those who don't think enough in a certain way), just none of these helps you.

Be warned, you may not understand this.

I've played an RPG game and there's usually skill levels and multiple skills.

So you have Level 1 in one skill, while you have decent (level 40-99) in another. So what is it you have level 1 in?

Another analogy, a tech tree from Sid Meier's civilization series. Though instead of thinking it as a tech tree think of all the other mods/scenarios. You cannot possibly get to modern era in every single mod tech tree. There is always a scenario you're stuck in the first branch of the ancient era. The hard part is identifying what it is. Once you do, you can understand American women.

If you're having a easy time with foreign women in a different country, its probably because those who are skilled at the skills you are at level 1 in, are in prison in that foreign country or psychiatric hospital. You could use the mod tech tree analogy as well - so there's one mod in one of the sid meier's civilization games, say idk poker mod, or magic the gathering mod, or whatever, and you're in the ancient era in that mod - well guess what 95% - 99% of the people in that foreign third world country are also in the ancient era in that mod tech tree, in contrast in USA, that would be a much smaller percentage.

[Mercury]

The big reason why women in the US have such high dating standards is that they are being hit on all the time in person (at bars and clubs, at work, at the gym) and they are being hit on if they have social media.

Also, if a woman in the US is using online dating she is getting between 50 and 100 guys a day sending her messages. It's no wonder why women in the United States are so picky about who they date, they have a lot of options.

Because the United States is a sausage fest country! 73% men, 27% women, that's almost 3 men to every 1 woman, and if you look at the dating/singles only, it's even 3,000+ single men to every 1 single woman! And when you're in a sausage fest country where single guys can outnumber the single women by as much as even 6,000 to 1 in certain regions, women are going to get hit on, even the moderately to severely overweight ones. In many cases, the only women that are not getting hit on by the guys are the ones that are even 400 pounds and bigger.

[69ixine]

Are they?Aren't rural american women easy to get?

the answer is because american women are uber-urbanized,and thus spoiled,being from rich cities with glam and bullshit social 'people as entertainment' (including in 'hot guys'but too the riches and social status bs there).

[WanderingProtagonist]

I don't know I gave up a long time ago even though it depresses me. I use to be on those dating sites a lot and believe me it was always impossible to get attention from women. f***ing hate life, and do understand why most incels feel the way they do sometimes.