69ixine wrote: ↑July 5th, 2023, 1:59 pm
How many people can realistically become rich though?not much.
Natural_Born_Cynic wrote: ↑July 5th, 2023, 2:00 pm
I am just saying. I don't like those gold digging types either. But even women who are compatible with you would want a man with some money.
You may be handsome, have great personality, and have six packs, but women might get turned off by you if you don't show your provider side.
I am not saying flex everything with money, just show that you have "some" money, not all.
My take on that is just that women like to see you can take care of yourself even if you are nowhere near rich, even if they are not "provider hunters" (and in the case of many career women, may not even need your money).
However for younger men (maybe older men who are a little more living on the edge) who haven't really established themself with their $$$ yet, looking like you're on track and sort of on a mission to succeed with some kind of quests in your life (including career-oriented ones) is probably more than enough even if you have fairly little money at the moment.
Usually women sort of have some ranking of how important each thing they find attractive or want in a man is to her, so some will want a more muscular physical stud, some like charmers and don't care as much about raw muscle, others go way more for chasing guys with deeper pockets (though a lot of those also would rather be getting nailed by the more muscular dudes and charmers on the side even while they spend the other guys' money, LOL).
But I definitely think men are cruising for a bruising if they try to lead with showing off their $$$ (not that either of you were doing so).
Some women definitely are looking for men with deeper pockets and a lot of $$$'s and I'm not saying those women don't have that right to look for what they want, but I can't fathom the men who get seriously involved with such women. I am not comfortable with prostitution myself (I'd worry about the girls, as well as being a penny pincher, LOL) but for those men who want to make sex transactional anyway and are always tub-thumping about how their "value" and status as a male derives from their $$$ or assets, why aren't those guys just going to escorts and paying less $$ for the same transaction sex, without risking losing everything if they were dumb enough to actually marry a gold-digger?! Happens all the time too! A lot of times their wives even wait decades and then divorce the husbands and take most of their retirement savings, sigh.
Natural_Born_Cynic wrote: ↑July 5th, 2023, 2:00 pm
Yeah I watched youtube videos about that. Really sick sh*t, but the girls are accepting it anyway and it shows that the Saudis are bunch of hypocrites and not a devout follower of their religion.
Yeah, I'm theoretically glad to be friendly/neutral strategic allies with Muslims when we have the same common mortal enemy (jews), but unfortunately not just in Saudi but a lot of those countries where the religion demonizes women and has fostered hysterical fear of female sexuality, there is a shitload of sexual perversion including sodomy of boys and bestiality. Yuck! The irony is sometimes their religious leaders actually tell them that's OK, and even say its supposedly all right to have sex with an f-ing animal as long they kill it afterward (f***ing perverse and evil), and yet it's supposedly a big cardinal sin for them to have sex with good looking women so they make the chicks walk around with cloth sacks over their heads so no men get aroused by the sight of a healthy woman's body or a pretty face, wtf, LOL.
Uhh, sorry, I went off topic. Happens a lot around here.
