I'm not saying everyone who's autistic is mocking me or you or whoever. But if you are being socially ostracized from groups of people, or worse, they let you hang out with them but you're clearly at the bottom of their circle and you get made fun of all the time, then yes they're not really accepting you.
I actually meant that people's default reaction to people on the autistic spectrum isn't to mock and ridicule.
@Lucas88 has pointed out he has been treated with love and respect by people who don't have autism. I think in most cases a lot of people are solipsistic NPCs who don't give a f**k about anyone but themselves anyway. Some NPCs are more empathetic than others and that's why some can be nice, but they're still NPCs.
I don't totally disagree with all your points though, I agree that some degree of Lucas ability to socialise more fluently in Mediterranean cultures is simply because these cultures are much warmer in general than Anglo cultures. I find most people in the UK to be unbearable simpletons who ate completely beneath me. Most people in general just tend to be completely facile and lack any sincerity or depth. These NPC normie souls are completely boring!
I don't hang out with many people. I prefer the company of Lucas88 over almost everyone else because of his values and higher spiritual soul. His autism is irrelevant to me. Though I see how he can be socially awkward when interacting with people he doesn't feel as comfortable round. I personally wouldn't worry about it if I was in his shoes because most people aren't even worth interacting with anyway. Most women aren't worth dating anyway. Why would anyone desire to fit in into a culture which is totally toxic and superficial? I say all these assholes can burn in hell! To hell with them all!
I was talking about social skills in regards to dating. So yes, it is preferable to date people with bad social skills so you can read them more easily.
I would have said it would be better to date a girl with good social skills so she may better express herself and communicate her needs more clearly. Having a girl with poor social skills means she'll be easier to control, which I guess works okay for you judging from your values and how you see women in the relationship.
I want the woman I love to flourish. I want her to be self sufficient and strong! I want her to have a healthy social life and have plenty of friends and a good support network. I don't want her to be weak and dependent totally on me, I already have my daughter who is a dependent, I don't need a girlfriend who is a dependent too.
Normal people aren't necessarily psychopaths/sociopaths but they generally are only as moral as they have to be. That's something to keep in mind about people, they maintain a decent level of moral conviction because they are expected to... But if the people around them do not consider it to be immoral, then they don't have any issue with doing it. People who are truly noble will refuse to do immoral things even if the majority of people around them support it. There are definitely neurotypicals who are like that, and in many cases, you can tell. But average morality neurotypicals are admittedly difficult to distinguish from low morality neurotypicals. The reason being that most low morality neurotypicals are good at hiding it.
Come off it. Most people are psychopathic to a degree. I see psychopathic triats in almost all these NPC normies who have no empathy or compassion for others, are totally selfish and solipsistic and lack any kind of deeper nuanced thinking which severely holds them back. Most people have no morality at all. Regardless of how good a functioning member of society they are.
Very few people exhibit traits that aren't psychopathic.
@Lucas88 is a rare exception, not because he's autistic, because he's a genuinely decent person with higher noble values and the ability to see the nuances in everything. This is very important when trying to distinguish truth from bullshit and not falling into dogmatic dichotomous thinking.
In high school and college, I knew a lot of low morality neurotypicals, but thought they were just average.
Autistic people cannot hide their morality. If they are low morality it is extremely noticeable. If anything, the average morality autists have a tendency to look low morality because they say things that sound really bad sometimes due to not understanding how people will react to it.
I don't think autism has anything to do with morality. Are you suggesting that autistic people are more moral because they can't hide their immorality? Or do you think autistic people are more moral simply because you're on the spectrum?
again with you it seems like everything you believe and everything you think is moral and good and everyone who disagrees is a degenerate or isn't part of your tribe.
I spoke in my ethics thread about what makes someone good and moral. Higher spiritual noble values that a lot of people, or almost everyone, doesn't have! I don't form relationships with people based on how well they can hide immorality! I build relationships with people who display noble values. People who could also be good at hiding immorality isn't an issue if they've already proved themselves through nobility of character.
Lucas is a noble guy. He's also autistic and struggles with social situations, something which he perceives holds him back. I understand this because I also understand nobility and autism aren't mutually exclusive.
You are free to make any decision you desire, but you are not free from the consequences of those decisions.