lone_yakuza wrote:Well I'm not advocating just completely withdrawing and just jacking off to p**n or whatever and having zero social interactions with people.
My point is simply that you should be wary of women.... and wary of other men. But we are talking about women here. But if you ask me, humans as a whole are intrinsically pretty evil and only out for themselves. In the past, more people actually gave a shit about their neighbors or community because there was an attempt to include people and it was necessary for the survival of all the members of the community and therefore ties between humans were stronger. With industrialization and advances in technology, we have become further and further apart and there is less need to connect with other people except on the most superficial level.
Like in the other thread, I was also saying, do not become too emotionally attached to anything (especially women) or else you will get majorly f***ed up. Just like how if you go to war and develop a deep brotherhood or friendship with some of your comrades and they die, then you end up really f***ed up. I mean, with all the idealized bullshit about good women we have been fed by this brainwashing society and media, especially shit like Disney or Hollywood, it is a real eye opener once you study PUA and read about interactions with women and see it with your own eyes. You realize that most women, even the supposed good ones, they all play the game of hypergamy. Overseas, it is not as overt as in the US, but that girl in Russia or China or SE Asia or E Europe or wherever that you fancy and also fancies you, is probably also weighing how you stack against other men in terms of status, money, power, etc. etc. instead of caring about you. I guess men do the same thing, but on a lesser scale, we generally only care if she is good looking.
For me, I really only require her to be good looking, to have a nice personality, to be responsible, and to be able to help with house chores or help me cook when I can't cook or whatever.
I am not like a hypergamous woman because I do not look at every new attractive woman I meet and think about whether or not I can get away with cheating on my girl, because I have honor and cheating and that kind of thinking is just f***ed up and disgusting. I never betray those I am loyal to.
But from the sociological and anthropological point of view, pretty much all women are always constantly thinking about how they can score a better guy or are entertaining the idea of cheating on you (especially in the USA), because this hypergamy is hardwired into them. Hypergamy ensures that the women is able to pass on her genes with the male she perceives as being the "best." Aka the top 5% Alpha males.
Also because of the corrupting nature of Hollywood and western media, which has already spread around the world and encourages girls to "go get what they want" instead of striving to be an honorable and sincere person.
However, this hypergamy is of the natural/barbaric/animalistic order. Man invented civilization and morals and philosophy and religion (though I hate most religions) to control our intrinsic, evil, animalistic natures. The problem is that our current society is essentially encouraging a return to un-civilization. It is encouraging a return to the days before honorable knights or samurai or as they say in Mandarin Chinese "ying- shong2 hao3 han4". Basically we are all becoming simply beasts once again.
Thus I am telling all men to be mentally prepared and to realize that going after women is like going to war. In a real war/real fight, there are no rules, unfortunately, just like in love there are no rules, which is why women love to cheat and unleash their hypergamous natures.
"All is fair in love and war."
I dislike this kind of thinking though. What makes life worthwhile is if there are actually rules to level the playing field and make things as fair as possible. But of course, that is not reality.
Also, male whoremongerers such as winston or unattractive males trying to score the best looking girls out there are also dishonorable and kind of disgusting in my opinion (apologies in advance, Dear Leader Winston, but I'm just telling what I really think).
In my opinion, if all peoples simply sought out people of equal attractiveness as they themselves, then things would be much more orderly and society would be much more peaceful and less chaotic. For example, I am objectively a 6.5-7.5/10, so I am not going to go looking for any girl outside that range. A male or female who is only a 3/10, should not try to reach for 7s or 8s or 10s. A female who is a 7 should not be reaching for a 9 or 10 male. The problem is that most women only want the 10. That is how they are hardwired. Hypergamy.
On the other hand, males are more forgiving and willing to have a girl slightly lower than himself.
I'm also saying not to think of women as angels and don't put them on a pedestal as something that we must all pursue with so much energy, but instead we should care less about them and also expect the worst from them, so that if you do meet a gem, then you are pleasantly surprised. On the other hand, if you meet the more common whore/succubus, then, hey, you knew about that all along, so it's not a surprise and you are not emotionally damaged.
Because most people act more on animal instincts in this day and age, especially in the US. In the past, there was extremely strict upbringing, a more conservative society, a larger class of people with morals, etc. etc. to ensure that many women would actively suppress their hypergamous nature. That doesn't mean the past was perfect. In the past, though women were less hypergamous, humanity was also much more racist and crueler in many aspects, overtly rather than the covert cruelty you observe in today's world.
In this day and age, no matter if they are rich or poor, all women are hypergamous and proudly play the hypergamous game. And most people have no morals.
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"Weren't your moms, however busy and career-minded, loving women who did not spare a few caresses and cuddles when you were young? Are you so desensitized to human relations that you forgot your natural, biological need to rediscover that maternal embrace, that physical contact in another human being, be it your girlfriend or the homeless old woman in that street corner?"
My mom was/is a stay at home mom, but I have never been hugged by her and she has only ever attempted to control me or verbally abused me and when I was a kid, physically abused me. My dad was always/is absent, though at the very least he financially supports us, but I suspect he does not live with my mom because she has some mental issues and is a prude and is kind of crazy. He also used to beat me and expects a lot from me, despite all I have accomplished. Maybe they do care about me, but their methods are counterproductive. For example, when I worked my a** off and sacrificed so much, including social life in high school, to get into the top 10 Unviersity in the US, they did not even as much say they were proud of me or anything. They just said, "why didn't you get into Harvard... why only the #8 and #9 school?"
Then again I was socially ostracized throughout middle and high school because of my race anyways, so it's not like I missed out on anything hahahaha.
As for society, well you know that I have always been the target of racial hatred, ostracization, etc. etc. I have had my life threatened for minding my own business simply because people did not like that I was an East Asian male. Also, I have had so many people try to use me it's not even funny. I can never forgive this society nor would I ever give this society love. Only thing I would ever give this society is death and destruction and hatred. Give them some of their own medicine.
So yes, I have never known human love and really don't know what that feeling is supposed to entail. I think it has made me a pretty cynical and somewhat psychopathic person (as in, I would not hesitate to end the lives of people I feel have betrayed me or are actively attempting to bring me down/hurt me.. I have no qualms and no remorse for wanting to kill them. only thing stopping me is the law and the fact that going to prison is counterproductive to my goals). That doesn't mean I don't have empathy for people, because I think I am naturally a nice and empathetic person. But this society and my upbringing have made me cynical and cold and somewhat evil.
So yes, take what I write with a grain of salt because it is a coming from an extremely jaded, bitter, and angry person, though I believe my jadedness, bitterness, and anger are very justified given what I have gone through despite my best efforts to improve my own lot, sacrificing so much and achieving so much, yet all taken away by fate or because of something I cannot change.