Yohan wrote: ↑January 7th, 2023, 12:16 am
Natural_Born_Cynic wrote: ↑January 6th, 2023, 8:51 pm
To each their own. Yes, there are only about 1.8 million koreans in the U.S. My preference is more "junk in the trunk" instead of prepubescent body.
What's the use of you lifting up and carrying a Korean girl if their personality is a f*cking disaster? You have a thing for them? You are free to date and marry them. I am not stopping you, I don't co*k block anybody.

. I am just warning people here that Korean women are not they appear to be. I am putting up buyer's beware. Let me know afterwards how it goes.
Fully agree, and please correct me if I post here something which is not correct by your opinion.
First of all let me add, a girl living in USA is simply said nothing else but 'the typical American girl next door' - regardless her race and ethnicity.
Do not make the mistake and expect a Korean woman (or other Asian women) who is living in the States and you meet her somewhere in USA to act differently from other American woman. Keep in mind, she is nothing else but only 'an American girl'.
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About Asian beauty, I wonder how many men who say are merely dreamers, looking at K-Pop idols on their computer screen. I doubt if they have been in Korea before and are able to communicate a little bit in Korean language and have some knowledge about the Korean Peninsula and also about Japan.
I can tell you, to marry a Korean woman makes only sense, if you - the foreign man - is willing to stay in Korea and have a reasonable job with good income over there.. But otherwise?
But how to find her? Even that is not so easy.
Walk around in Seoul a bit critically - and yes, you will see some good looking women - but many of them clearly had some surgery already and have money for makeup and fashion designer clothes, shoes and accessories etc. to look 'beautiful' - surgery is often about bad teeth, skin issues...
Maybe you are interested in them, but I don't think they are interested in you.
After checking out Seoul, Busan etc. I recommend you also to move on and check out places outside of the city centers of these larger cities - visit smaller cities, villages, in rural areas.
I can only tell you - (very similar in Japan) - you will see mostly rather elderly people and some young men and the very few Korean girls you will see without any makeup and beauty surgery are anything else but a 'natural beauty'...
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To date Korean women? Where? How?
Well if you have enough time and money and like adventure travel and know a bit Chinese and Korean, you might check out China, Dandong which is connected to North Korea with a bridge to Sinuiju-City 신의주시 - many North Koreans are living legally and illegally in Dandong, or if you prefer a longer trip, try out Yanbian Korean Autonomous Prefecture, Yanji city, where more than 400.000 Koreans are living...(rather remote location however)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dandong
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yanbian_K ... Prefecture
Anyway, just my opinion, instead of looking for Korean women in USA, Japan or South Korea, I would suggest to get on an airplane and check out these many Koreans living in China...
Also Russia has a Korean community, however dispersed to various regions:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Koryo-saram
Yes, I appreciate your well presented thoughts. Let me say couple of things.
Yes there are ethnic Koreans living in China and even in Russia. However, they are few in number and not worth it. Koreans living in China
are culturally assimilated to China and therefore considered Chinese now. You can't even tell a difference between Chinese and them. Koreans call them Joseon-jok- 조선족, meaning ethnic korean living in China. However Most koreans also call them JJang-Gae-"짱깨" -meaning "Chink" in Korean. When those Joseon-jok cross to South Korea, they get lot of discrimination and ostracization. They don't have a chance to make it in Korea.
For the Koreans in Russia, most of them are in Kazakhstan I believe? Stalin exiled them there. They are far fewer in number and although I hear they are very nice people, they are hard to get because of the vast distance to travel and the cost. I would rather travel to Russia to get Russian women, but Russia is under U.S sanction right now.. I don't want to be held political prisoner like that WNBA player Brittany Gardner?
Yes.. the grass is greener on the other side they say.
Foreigners think Koreans look like those K pop idols and Korea is wealthy because of all the skyscrapers they see in Seoul.
I can understand their compulsion to work and live in Korea. One white American guy in my High School always hang out with Koreans and try to learn the Korean language. He ended up living there and having a good time. He was one of the open minded ones.
However, like I reiterated in some of the thread before, Buyer Beware!
I know because I have interacted with hundreds of Koreans at my work, Korean church, Watch the Korean news, and even been to Korea many times to visit my relatives.
The only way for foreigners to get their foot on the door in Korea is being a English teacher. They can apply for Korean university as an honorary professor or apply to work in Korean companies in Seoul, but those are way way harder. However, too many foreigners trying to teach English in Korea depress their wages(over 1 million foreigners in Seoul) and costs of rent and cost of living are steadily climbing every year because everyone wants to live and work in the Capital City, Seoul. Busan isn't a popular destination as Seoul.. and foreigners will have less opportunities there than in Seoul. Seoul is where the seat of power is at and where all the big conglomerates are at. All of the Korean wealth goes to Seoul because of
intense centralization. Busan doesn't hold candle.
As stated before, Korean women are not worth the hassle whether they are Korean American or Korean in Korea. I don't about Joseon-jok women and Koryo women, I never met them before in my life! I don't know how many times I have to reiterate. Korean women simply sucks! Number one problem is their insane psychopathic personality on top of their materialism and intellectual shallowness. It's like dealing with a 12 year old acting as a grown up, not a mature well rounded lady. It's the Korean society's fault and those stupid K poop and K drama's fault for making women into way they are. Yes, foreigners live with Korean wives in Korea, but they come to Korean TV shows and be paraded like f*cking white monkeys in front of the audience. Korean media is doing that because they get a "hard on" from the combination of Korean vanity and intense jingoism. Do you want to be a "white monkey" in Korea? If you want go ahead. I am not stopping you.
Korean small villages and countryside? Are you joking? Ha! They have been depopulated for a long time and most of the farmer or villager there are over 60 years old and there have little or no infrastructure, no young people, and no money there. No one wants to live in those sh*thole.
Nevertheless hundreds of city dwellers tries to settle and become farmers there(romanticized idea), but most end up losing their money, get humiliated, ostracized and end up going back to Seoul. Because villages and country sides are ruled by town chiefs called "이장". It's like little North Korea there. Whatever the town chief say goes and the village people are more selfish, insular and isolated then their city counterparts! It is much more expensive to live in the countryside then the city because people have to pay for water use fees, land fees, anti pollution fees, fees to the town chief, fee for fertilizers, plants, greenhouse, etc, etc. You end up spending hundreds of thousand dollars. Not worth it.
Sexual assaults, domestic violence, assaults, alcoholism, drug use, human trafficking, and suicide goes on villages and countryside because it's much more isolated then the city. City is your best bet and much safer. Also there are lot of active or retired Korean mafia members, criminals and ex-convicts living in the countryside. They share favor and get a cut of the action with the town chiefs! and Korean police in countryside are ineffective because lack of support and resources and some of them have been receiving bribes from towns people.. and lot of corruption and shady sh*t going on there.
No Korean women wants to go to the countryside. They will be frequent victim of sexual assaults and gang rape. Recently a Korean female teacher was gang raped by three guys when she was deployed to a countryside. It made headlines.
Most people in the countryside import Vietnamese poor Chinese and Filipinas as their wives and they beat their foreign wives too.
Most third world foreigners work in a countryside sweatshop or factory but they get treated worst than dogs! No aircon, no proper housing(they have to live inside a old shipping container), no proper salary, lots of racist insults, and no proper food(food served in a dog bowl).
In addition to all I have mentioned. South Korea doesn't give legal rights and protections to foreigners(It's not written in their law), the Lowest birthrate on the entire planet, mediocre wages compared to other OCED nations, highest working hour, high suicide rate, high cost of educating your child(close to $200,000), high cost of living, biggest elderly homeless rate, very limited opportunities for foreigners, one of the most unhappiness country in the world, etc, etc.
But If you still want to visit, work and live in South Korea, go right ahead! I REALLY DON'T GIVE A DAMN and I am not stopping you. But you are going to get a very unpleasant surprise once you live there long enough.