Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

[Kradmelder]

I would rather stick my dick into a meat grinder than into something brown.

[JohnDoeBigBaller]

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[Eric]

Honestly, I don't know if its me...I find it hard to get laid & have sex in China, due to the barrier between me and the Chinese women. I honestly find most of them to be relationship types. And, my mind has been other places anyway.

I'm not unhandsome. Just balding now... but that's it. I don't go out much either. Tan tan girls don't talk to you...I feel they ignore foreigners. I don't know how guys here are getting girls.

[Cornfed]

Honestly, I don't know if its me...I find it hard to get laid & have sex in China, due to the barrier between me and the Chinese women. I honestly find most of them to be relationship types. And, my mind has been other places anyway.

I'm not unhandsome. Just balding now... but that's it. I don't go out much either. Tan tan girls don't talk to you...I feel they ignore foreigners. I don't know how guys here are getting girls.

Aren't there places you can meet divorced females?

[Eric]

People told me I'd be rolling in p***y. They even still say it here. What gives? ... Its probably me I'm too shy or something. I guess guys just go up and start talking with girls... Never know if they speak English but guess.

This is kind of affecting me.

[Shemp]

People told me I'd be rolling in p***y. They even still say it here. What gives? ... Its probably me I'm too shy or something. I guess guys just go up and start talking with girls... Never know if they speak English but guess.

This is kind of affecting me.

Of course it's affecting you, that's why I recommended the study of sexual kung fu. I mean you're in China after all, aren't you at all interested in the culture? Taoism is the best thing that ever came out of China and the sexual kung fu is the best part of Taoism. (Though as I noted, Taoism ultimately probably derives from Tantra, all wisdom ultimately goes back to the pre-Aryan Indians.) If you can get the sexual kung fu working without the dildo up the ass, then great, you can forget that part. If you can't get it working, then the dildo might be necessary. I got it working without the dildo myself. The dildo is someone else's idea, I forget the guy's name.

You basically have 3 options: girlfriend/wife (and not some frigid bitch who doesn't like sex), P4P, masturbation. Option 3 is by far the most reliable, cheapest, safest, but it won't be satisfactory unless you practice sexual kung fu at an advanced level. P4P is okay if you do it sugar-daddy style, a long-term mistress sort of situation. But that takes money. Girlfriends/wives are high-maintenance.

Also, sexual kung fu is eventually necessary even if you are having sex with a real woman (either P4P or girlfriend/wife). Young men can orgasm and ejaculate without damage to their body, but once you get to your mid-30's you have to slow down, and by the time you're in your 50's you better stop peak orgasm entirely if you want to be healthy. The only way to manage things properly is to use sexual kung fu to convert peak orgasm to valley orgasm, and thereby retain the energy while still getting sexual pleasure.

Repressing your sex drive and living too much in your head, especially hashing out your relationship with your father all the time, is going to drive you crazy.

[Eric]

I refuse to pay4P. I won't do that anymore. I've been to a few massages since I've been here, gotten a few okay/nice handjobs, I even had a girl suck me off as I played with her bare tits and ass. I f*cked a girl once in a massage place, but it wasn't worth it. I payed money and it only lasted 15 minutes. She wouldn't "let" me come a second time - which is a jip because they know a man's hard up.

I refuse to pay for sex. It's below me, it's not worth it...and a waste of time. Some of the Handjobs I got, it's like - I'm paying for this; you should've seen the girls, they could've been more interested taking out the trash. They could've at least "acted" interested. I got so mad one time a girl did this...if I spoke Chinese I would've tongue lashed her big time and walked out of that place angry. When she finished...the idiot bimbo squeezed me so hard when I came that I couldn't ejaculate properly, and it was painful.....it really made me mad, she ruined the orgasm, and ruined the entire thing.
It was then that I decided I would never P4P again.

Tan Tan is a joke, Chinese girls are xenophobic to the core and, so is Chinese culture. They won't talk to you unless you are Chinese, they regard lowei men with disdain and a sort of aloof curiosity and interest; but won't go near or choose them,they'll choose Chinese. They'll also like be interested in men that are "foreigners" and different if you can be a thrill for them. Most women, are bitchy though ....like all women, and it doesn't work every time - this seems to be an angle though.


The only thing left is just goin out hitting the pavement and picking up chicks using game, wiles and manipulating the shit out of them to get what you want; it works every time. But, it's work...and it takes patience and dedication and effort - a waste of time really. You have to be in the right mood for it, anyway. A lot of times I get distracted.

[JohnDoeBigBaller]

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[JohnDoeBigBaller]

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[JohnDoeBigBaller]

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[Eric]

You're damn right its my ego talking - a healthy ego. That's something you should have, it is below me and I'm not ashamed to say it. It is below me, to pay for sex. I refuse to waste money on this trash... it is my choice. You can do whatever you want. So far, on this forum I've been recommended to stick a dildo up my ass to solve all my problems, watch out for aliens as well as P4P and masturbate all my life to be happy. I'm starting to wonder if this forum is really like other posters said it was, and left. It seems like everyone's in.a rush to avoid, escape and rationalize...while trash talking people with real solutions and calling the real topic 'rehashing daddy issues".

Maybe we need to work some things out and, stop running. Man up, deal with it. You guys have issues, some of you on this forum.

[Eric]

People told me I'd be rolling in p***y. They even still say it here. What gives? ... Its probably me I'm too shy or something. I guess guys just go up and start talking with girls... Never know if they speak English but guess.

This is kind of affecting me.

Well yeah if you don't even talk to women you are never going to get anywhere with women. Use Tinder and OKCupid to find girls but also try street game, just go up to a random woman and start talking and get her number, then call or text her later and set up a meeting at a bar, get her slightly drunk and bring her back to your place and pound her tight asian p***y with your big white dick!

This is by far the best option. Tan Tan and internet is a waste of time. The hard thing is talking to them out on the street, do u do this?

Where are you?

[JohnDoeBigBaller]

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[Shemp]

You're damn right its my ego talking - a healthy ego. That's something you should have, it is below me and I'm not ashamed to say it. It is below me, to pay for sex. I refuse to waste money on this trash... it is my choice. .

No, it's not a healthy ego. It's an overinflated ego and it will cause you to explode at some point. A healthy ego accepts reality. Reality is that most men, including you, have little value in the sexual market place. If you had high value, women would be coming on to you and offering to pay you. But they aren't. And when you pay them, they act like it's a chore to jerk you off. Your sexual market value is clearly very low, that is reality. When a man with low sexual market values wants sex with women, he has to pay, one way or another: either with money, or with time and effort.

You can do whatever you want. So far, on this forum I've been recommended to stick a dildo up my ass to solve all my problems, watch out for aliens as well as P4P and masturbate all my life to be happy. I'm starting to wonder if this forum is really like other posters said it was, and left. It seems like everyone's in.a rush to avoid, escape and rationalize...while trash talking people with real solutions and calling the real topic 'rehashing daddy issues". Maybe we need to work some things out and, stop running. Man up, deal with it. You guys have issues, some of you on this forum.

Nobody has more issues than you and nobody projects more than you. You are the most humorless person on this board and you accuse other people of being humorless. You have no solutions to any problems, neither your own or anyone else's, but you accuse other people of not having solutions. You are running from something, ran all the way to China in fact, and still running now that you are there. I mean what exactly are you accomplishing there? You trash talk everyone on this board and you accuse others of trash talking. You are not facing reality, not acting like a man (more like the biggest crybaby this forum has ever seen), not dealing with anything, and yet you accuse others of not acting like men and not dealing with reality. You have more issues than anyone on this forum, a true walking time bomb of a nutcase.

The dildo up the ass is only for some people who are especially tense in the anal region. I didn't need a dildo to loosen me up, but you most definitely do need one. The biggest dildo you can find. And you'll probably need multiple applications of that extra-large dildo up your ass.

[Kradmelder]

You're damn right its my ego talking - a healthy ego. That's something you should have, it is below me and I'm not ashamed to say it. It is below me, to pay for sex. I refuse to waste money on this trash... it is my choice. You can do whatever you want. So far, on this forum I've been recommended to stick a dildo up my ass to solve all my problems, watch out for aliens as well as P4P and masturbate all my life to be happy. I'm starting to wonder if this forum is really like other posters said it was, and left. It seems like everyone's in.a rush to avoid, escape and rationalize...while trash talking people with real solutions and calling the real topic 'rehashing daddy issues".

Maybe we need to work some things out and, stop running. Man up, deal with it. You guys have issues, some of you on this forum.

Everyone pays for sex one way or another. Some pay upfront aka whores, others pay after in breakups, some pay to keep wives happy, some pay to wine and dine and entertain. what makes you think you won't pay and look down on those that do? Does your way work? are you getting any? do you have any solution or do you just pooh pooh the ways of other men?

Many men on here tell you what works for them. JohnDoe does brown whores. Winston does china bar girls, others do Filipinas. None of that stuff is to my taste, so I have a white mistress. Why should I look down on the other men's solution or say they trash talk? They are getting what they want so it works. You are getting nothing, just whining about depression and insulting everyone else, even your father. If you have that black cloud around you in daily life no wonder women flee.

This forum had plenty of good men from various places in life and vastly different experiences. They say what works for them and what they think. Ja some of it may not be for you, and some you do not agree with. like I don't agree with crossing racial lines. it doesn't mean those other men talk shit or are arse holes. It just means thanks for sharing brother, but sorry that won't work for me due to my own hangups.

The concept for many on here is go overseas and you will get sex easier. For almost all men here it has worked. I may be wrong but most men on here are getting sex one way or the other, except for you. now you blame these other men? maybe it is you that is the problem. not your father or men trash talking or chinese women.

And you are the only one with daddy issues blaming your father for you being a miserable sod. maybe you should man up and take responsibility for your own self created misery. Every one has issues. but no one has such debilitating issues as you. you can't even pay for sex without flagellating yourself, the girl, and turning the whole thing into another excuse to be miserable.

Does anything in life make you Happy?