You said it brother, the 90's and early 00's were the last good moments despite its problems, before the current degeneration.WanderingProtagonist wrote: ↑September 18th, 2023, 12:17 pmWell I could say it's Russia's turn but I also hear people saying Russia got its hand in China's pockets also...Oh well, I hate being black pilled about stuff, but there is no point in faking like everything is going to get better. I'll be old and half past dead by 2050 since I'm almost 37 I guess there isn't much to miss out on. If all this shit was happening in the 90s or early 2000s it would have sucked even worse...Those were the last greatest moments we had to experience fun...Once 2008 came....It was over.Natural_Born_Cynic wrote: ↑September 18th, 2023, 11:50 amSh*t man, I don't understand either. Since when did most white people became bunch of spineless p*ssies who couldn't defend their own nations?WanderingProtagonist wrote: ↑September 18th, 2023, 11:00 amThats depressing, I wish I could have experienced Europe before it got to that point. I just don't understand the point or rhyme or reason as to why Europe or America wants this, what is there to even gain from purposely wrecking your own damn nation? I have spent a vast majority of my own life living in poverty and I hate it. On top of it all I don't like shitty neighborhoods either. I just don't see where any of this is leading to...Natural_Born_Cynic wrote: ↑September 18th, 2023, 10:20 amThe West has already lost its culture. Just look at all the Ghettos and Slums in the U.S and Europe. The West is done now thanks to yourWanderingProtagonist wrote: ↑September 18th, 2023, 10:03 am
They'll learn when they start losing their culture, there are too many stupid people in this world. They all get off on mental abuse.
liberal brethren. America is a nationwide sh*thole now.
In contrast, the East is suffering massive birth decline because they don't have niggers but their society have embraced Degenerate Western Values. Asians doesn't want to have kids now. The East is following among the same path towards self destruction.
If the West has sided with the Nazis and destroyed the Soviets then the world would be much better place. No multicultural liberal rot, no communism, no cultural Marxism and white people would sustain their nation and population numbers without needing to import niggers into their country.
There is no HA for ethnic males
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Re: There is no HA for ethnic males
I had to read through three and a half pages of utter bullshit and nobody got to the crux of the question - which is - 'There is no HA for ethnic males' which of course there is.
Happier Abroad is more than women - it's about lifestyle, opportunities and yes dating is part of it and if you are a man who has chances of a passport of a parent or both your parents who come from a different country than the one you came from then of course, you have a great road to HA - you get the passport of your parents and off you go - which is what Winston did (or he was born Taiwanese and is naturalised US citizen - I forget...) he has a son and lots of sex with lots of women - I think he wouldn't swap his existence by staying in America and existing there in some crap job - he had a choice and he exercised it.
Secondly, women tend to like the look that they see in themselves, I teach a load of female Chinese 20 year olds, do you think for one second they're going to give up their crushes on Chinese male pop stars, Chinese actors and the handsome boys who play basketball in their university to wait for some f***ing white guy?
f**k off! You're dreaming if you think that! There was a poster on here called @zboy1 who made a post about this topic, that if you are Asian-American, you can be happier abroad in Asia - you can bring all the benefits of a US education and upbringing, bring it to Asia and find a way of living and a wife and the rest of it, he was actually a Korean American who ended up marrying a Chinese woman - even Winston found a Chinese girlfriend half his age when he finally got his arse to the mainland - and quite nice she was too.
I am a light skinned Latino, I am tall, broad shouldered and am not a bad looking guy and I have always done far better and got more positive female attention in Latin America and Spain than anywhere else in the world because they could see themselves in me - their fathers, brothers, male friends, cousins, accquaintances etc - it makes sense that a Latino woman would be more receptive to me than Jane from Darlington with tattoos and ginger hair! Very few white British women saw me as a romantic proposition, I could have done two things - wait for things to change (which is never going to happen) or move somewhere where I am considered a romantic prospect - the main thing is I have that choice and I don't have to put up with odds that are not good to me.
I understand that if you want the blonde and blue eyed cheerleader who is a bit of a knockout, the chances are she will want someone who looks something like her - there was a survey done by Harvard on their female students that the more attractive they were the more they were looking for someone of the same social status as them in every single way, from where they went to school, skin colour and even hair and eye colour to even where their parents went on holidays, do you think as a first gen immigrant from Brazil or Thailand you can get to date one of those women unless you are very very lucky (I use that term loosely - lucky in the sense that your chances are a long shot at best...) so if you are an 'ethnic' male who thinks the world is going to align to your want and needs and you'll stay right there in the US or the UK or Australia hoping for that Margot Robbie lookalike to come waltzing through the door desiring your black/brown/yellow ass then you're a bit of an idiot
It doesn't mean they're racist, it isn't what they desire in a mate, lots of women are LGBT friendly but the straight ones don't want a girlfriend, a white girl might be a non-racist but she might not want to date a black or an Asian man - same with women all the over the world - there are plenty of Chinese and Korean women who would view having sex with a white man as something similar to bestiality and wouldn't even entertain the idea.
When that twat Elliot Rodger murdered all those kids for nothing - it could have been solved if his parents had put him on the plane at 16 to Kuala Lumpur or Beijing where he would have got laid - he would have got over his 'blonde cheerleader' obsession real quick over there as there are so many beauties that would have been happy to date him - he would have still be an unpleasant, autistic sociopath but he would have got laid - money, status and car didn't help in America. If you stay in America when you have opportunities to make the move abroad and change your life for the better, then you are a f***ing fool.
Happier Abroad is more than women - it's about lifestyle, opportunities and yes dating is part of it and if you are a man who has chances of a passport of a parent or both your parents who come from a different country than the one you came from then of course, you have a great road to HA - you get the passport of your parents and off you go - which is what Winston did (or he was born Taiwanese and is naturalised US citizen - I forget...) he has a son and lots of sex with lots of women - I think he wouldn't swap his existence by staying in America and existing there in some crap job - he had a choice and he exercised it.
Secondly, women tend to like the look that they see in themselves, I teach a load of female Chinese 20 year olds, do you think for one second they're going to give up their crushes on Chinese male pop stars, Chinese actors and the handsome boys who play basketball in their university to wait for some f***ing white guy?

I am a light skinned Latino, I am tall, broad shouldered and am not a bad looking guy and I have always done far better and got more positive female attention in Latin America and Spain than anywhere else in the world because they could see themselves in me - their fathers, brothers, male friends, cousins, accquaintances etc - it makes sense that a Latino woman would be more receptive to me than Jane from Darlington with tattoos and ginger hair! Very few white British women saw me as a romantic proposition, I could have done two things - wait for things to change (which is never going to happen) or move somewhere where I am considered a romantic prospect - the main thing is I have that choice and I don't have to put up with odds that are not good to me.
I understand that if you want the blonde and blue eyed cheerleader who is a bit of a knockout, the chances are she will want someone who looks something like her - there was a survey done by Harvard on their female students that the more attractive they were the more they were looking for someone of the same social status as them in every single way, from where they went to school, skin colour and even hair and eye colour to even where their parents went on holidays, do you think as a first gen immigrant from Brazil or Thailand you can get to date one of those women unless you are very very lucky (I use that term loosely - lucky in the sense that your chances are a long shot at best...) so if you are an 'ethnic' male who thinks the world is going to align to your want and needs and you'll stay right there in the US or the UK or Australia hoping for that Margot Robbie lookalike to come waltzing through the door desiring your black/brown/yellow ass then you're a bit of an idiot

It doesn't mean they're racist, it isn't what they desire in a mate, lots of women are LGBT friendly but the straight ones don't want a girlfriend, a white girl might be a non-racist but she might not want to date a black or an Asian man - same with women all the over the world - there are plenty of Chinese and Korean women who would view having sex with a white man as something similar to bestiality and wouldn't even entertain the idea.
When that twat Elliot Rodger murdered all those kids for nothing - it could have been solved if his parents had put him on the plane at 16 to Kuala Lumpur or Beijing where he would have got laid - he would have got over his 'blonde cheerleader' obsession real quick over there as there are so many beauties that would have been happy to date him - he would have still be an unpleasant, autistic sociopath but he would have got laid - money, status and car didn't help in America. If you stay in America when you have opportunities to make the move abroad and change your life for the better, then you are a f***ing fool.
Re: There is no HA for ethnic males
Whenever I read threads like this one, I am getting more sure of my decision to keep my son in the Philippines where he'll not be exposed to these weird, warped ways of thinking Western men of all colors, strips and shapes all seem to get into.yick wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 12:22 amI had to read through three and a half pages of utter bullshit and nobody got to the crux of the question - which is - 'There is no HA for ethnic males' which of course there is.
Happier Abroad is more than women - it's about lifestyle, opportunities and yes dating is part of it and if you are a man who has chances of a passport of a parent or both your parents who come from a different country than the one you came from then of course, you have a great road to HA - you get the passport of your parents and off you go - which is what Winston did (or he was born Taiwanese and is naturalised US citizen - I forget...) he has a son and lots of sex with lots of women - I think he wouldn't swap his existence by staying in America and existing there in some crap job - he had a choice and he exercised it.
Secondly, women tend to like the look that they see in themselves, I teach a load of female Chinese 20 year olds, do you think for one second they're going to give up their crushes on Chinese male pop stars, Chinese actors and the handsome boys who play basketball in their university to wait for some f***ing white guy?f**k off! You're dreaming if you think that! There was a poster on here called @zboy1 who made a post about this topic, that if you are Asian-American, you can be happier abroad in Asia - you can bring all the benefits of a US education and upbringing, bring it to Asia and find a way of living and a wife and the rest of it, he was actually a Korean American who ended up marrying a Chinese woman - even Winston found a Chinese girlfriend half his age when he finally got his arse to the mainland - and quite nice she was too.
I am a light skinned Latino, I am tall, broad shouldered and am not a bad looking guy and I have always done far better and got more positive female attention in Latin America and Spain than anywhere else in the world because they could see themselves in me - their fathers, brothers, male friends, cousins, accquaintances etc - it makes sense that a Latino woman would be more receptive to me than Jane from Darlington with tattoos and ginger hair! Very few white British women saw me as a romantic proposition, I could have done two things - wait for things to change (which is never going to happen) or move somewhere where I am considered a romantic prospect - the main thing is I have that choice and I don't have to put up with odds that are not good to me.
I understand that if you want the blonde and blue eyed cheerleader who is a bit of a knockout, the chances are she will want someone who looks something like her - there was a survey done by Harvard on their female students that the more attractive they were the more they were looking for someone of the same social status as them in every single way, from where they went to school, skin colour and even hair and eye colour to even where their parents went on holidays, do you think as a first gen immigrant from Brazil or Thailand you can get to date one of those women unless you are very very lucky (I use that term loosely - lucky in the sense that your chances are a long shot at best...) so if you are an 'ethnic' male who thinks the world is going to align to your want and needs and you'll stay right there in the US or the UK or Australia hoping for that Margot Robbie lookalike to come waltzing through the door desiring your black/brown/yellow ass then you're a bit of an idiot![]()
It doesn't mean they're racist, it isn't what they desire in a mate, lots of women are LGBT friendly but the straight ones don't want a girlfriend, a white girl might be a non-racist but she might not want to date a black or an Asian man - same with women all the over the world - there are plenty of Chinese and Korean women who would view having sex with a white man as something similar to bestiality and wouldn't even entertain the idea.
When that twat Elliot Rodger murdered all those kids for nothing - it could have been solved if his parents had put him on the plane at 16 to Kuala Lumpur or Beijing where he would have got laid - he would have got over his 'blonde cheerleader' obsession real quick over there as there are so many beauties that would have been happy to date him - he would have still be an unpleasant, autistic sociopath but he would have got laid - money, status and car didn't help in America. If you stay in America when you have opportunities to make the move abroad and change your life for the better, then you are a f***ing fool.
Solid comment, btw. Spot-on.
Re: There is no HA for ethnic males
Cheers!MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 12:44 amWhenever I read threads like this one, I am getting more sure of my decision to keep my son in the Philippines where he'll not be exposed to these weird, warped ways of thinking Western men of all colors, strips and shapes all seem to get into.yick wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 12:22 amI had to read through three and a half pages of utter bullshit and nobody got to the crux of the question - which is - 'There is no HA for ethnic males' which of course there is.
Happier Abroad is more than women - it's about lifestyle, opportunities and yes dating is part of it and if you are a man who has chances of a passport of a parent or both your parents who come from a different country than the one you came from then of course, you have a great road to HA - you get the passport of your parents and off you go - which is what Winston did (or he was born Taiwanese and is naturalised US citizen - I forget...) he has a son and lots of sex with lots of women - I think he wouldn't swap his existence by staying in America and existing there in some crap job - he had a choice and he exercised it.
Secondly, women tend to like the look that they see in themselves, I teach a load of female Chinese 20 year olds, do you think for one second they're going to give up their crushes on Chinese male pop stars, Chinese actors and the handsome boys who play basketball in their university to wait for some f***ing white guy?f**k off! You're dreaming if you think that! There was a poster on here called @zboy1 who made a post about this topic, that if you are Asian-American, you can be happier abroad in Asia - you can bring all the benefits of a US education and upbringing, bring it to Asia and find a way of living and a wife and the rest of it, he was actually a Korean American who ended up marrying a Chinese woman - even Winston found a Chinese girlfriend half his age when he finally got his arse to the mainland - and quite nice she was too.
I am a light skinned Latino, I am tall, broad shouldered and am not a bad looking guy and I have always done far better and got more positive female attention in Latin America and Spain than anywhere else in the world because they could see themselves in me - their fathers, brothers, male friends, cousins, accquaintances etc - it makes sense that a Latino woman would be more receptive to me than Jane from Darlington with tattoos and ginger hair! Very few white British women saw me as a romantic proposition, I could have done two things - wait for things to change (which is never going to happen) or move somewhere where I am considered a romantic prospect - the main thing is I have that choice and I don't have to put up with odds that are not good to me.
I understand that if you want the blonde and blue eyed cheerleader who is a bit of a knockout, the chances are she will want someone who looks something like her - there was a survey done by Harvard on their female students that the more attractive they were the more they were looking for someone of the same social status as them in every single way, from where they went to school, skin colour and even hair and eye colour to even where their parents went on holidays, do you think as a first gen immigrant from Brazil or Thailand you can get to date one of those women unless you are very very lucky (I use that term loosely - lucky in the sense that your chances are a long shot at best...) so if you are an 'ethnic' male who thinks the world is going to align to your want and needs and you'll stay right there in the US or the UK or Australia hoping for that Margot Robbie lookalike to come waltzing through the door desiring your black/brown/yellow ass then you're a bit of an idiot![]()
It doesn't mean they're racist, it isn't what they desire in a mate, lots of women are LGBT friendly but the straight ones don't want a girlfriend, a white girl might be a non-racist but she might not want to date a black or an Asian man - same with women all the over the world - there are plenty of Chinese and Korean women who would view having sex with a white man as something similar to bestiality and wouldn't even entertain the idea.
When that twat Elliot Rodger murdered all those kids for nothing - it could have been solved if his parents had put him on the plane at 16 to Kuala Lumpur or Beijing where he would have got laid - he would have got over his 'blonde cheerleader' obsession real quick over there as there are so many beauties that would have been happy to date him - he would have still be an unpleasant, autistic sociopath but he would have got laid - money, status and car didn't help in America. If you stay in America when you have opportunities to make the move abroad and change your life for the better, then you are a f***ing fool.
Solid comment, btw. Spot-on.

Has he got his Dutch citizenship then keep him right there where he is if he prospering and has a good and loving family environment and then he can use his dual nationality when he is of age if he wants to. Winston has done that for Angelo and that was a solid from him to be fair. Angelo has a leg up on a lot of his peers in more ways than one.
There are lots of damaged men of all ages and of all stripes in the west - if I had a son who was half of an Asian nationality, I wouldn't even entertain bringing him to the UK.
Re: There is no HA for ethnic males
Will definitely be making sure he gets his Dutch citizenship, EU member state passport opens a shitload of doors in the world. But honestly the kid looks completely caucasian, since his mother is a Spanish mestiza Filipina, so he kind of has this "best of both worlds" thing going on where, culturally, I would like him to be Filipino and benefit from the perks he'll get from that. Education in my country is a lot better but at least he'll have solid social skills, a close group of friends and, likely, superior dating prospects. Instead of just another tan European dude, he'll be a Filipino man looking like a tan European dude. Just like Angelo is Winston's clone, my son exactly looks like my own baby photos. Uncanny resemblance, so he's quite lucky lol.yick wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 12:51 amCheers!![]()
Has he got his Dutch citizenship then keep him right there where he is if he prospering and has a good and loving family environment and then he can use his dual nationality when he is of age if he wants to. Winston has done that for Angelo and that was a solid from him to be fair. Angelo has a leg up on a lot of his peers in more ways than one.
There are lots of damaged men of all ages and of all stripes in the west - if I had a son who was half of an Asian nationality, I wouldn't even entertain bringing him to the UK.
Best thing? He will likely grow up never using words like "chad" or "beta/alpha" and won't be aware of what an "incel" is lol.

Re: There is no HA for ethnic males
You will have to put him on the stage in a few years - telenovela star! Boy band member or even both!MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 1:25 amWill definitely be making sure he gets his Dutch citizenship, EU member state passport opens a shitload of doors in the world. But honestly the kid looks completely caucasian, since his mother is a Spanish mestiza Filipina, so he kind of has this "best of both worlds" thing going on where, culturally, I would like him to be Filipino and benefit from the perks he'll get from that. Education in my country is a lot better but at least he'll have solid social skills, a close group of friends and, likely, superior dating prospects. Instead of just another tan European dude, he'll be a Filipino man looking like a tan European dude. Just like Angelo is Winston's clone, my son exactly looks like my own baby photos. Uncanny resemblance, so he's quite lucky lol.yick wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 12:51 amCheers!![]()
Has he got his Dutch citizenship then keep him right there where he is if he prospering and has a good and loving family environment and then he can use his dual nationality when he is of age if he wants to. Winston has done that for Angelo and that was a solid from him to be fair. Angelo has a leg up on a lot of his peers in more ways than one.
There are lots of damaged men of all ages and of all stripes in the west - if I had a son who was half of an Asian nationality, I wouldn't even entertain bringing him to the UK.
Best thing? He will likely grow up never using words like "chad" or "beta/alpha" and won't be aware of what an "incel" is lol.![]()

Re: There is no HA for ethnic males
If he gets a bit of a tan under the Filipino sun, he may be able to pass as a Latino, get himself some adventures down South. I know for instance Enrique Iglesias is the son of a Spanish dad and a Filipina mum with some Spanish ancestry herself, and he looks like a Latin dude. My son has similar admixture so I'm sure he'll have quite a lot of appeal in various places. All any man needs to do to have a leg up on other men, is being born in a culture that isn't as toxic as the West. It helps a bunch.yick wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 1:39 amYou will have to put him on the stage in a few years - telenovela star! Boy band member or even both!MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 1:25 amWill definitely be making sure he gets his Dutch citizenship, EU member state passport opens a shitload of doors in the world. But honestly the kid looks completely caucasian, since his mother is a Spanish mestiza Filipina, so he kind of has this "best of both worlds" thing going on where, culturally, I would like him to be Filipino and benefit from the perks he'll get from that. Education in my country is a lot better but at least he'll have solid social skills, a close group of friends and, likely, superior dating prospects. Instead of just another tan European dude, he'll be a Filipino man looking like a tan European dude. Just like Angelo is Winston's clone, my son exactly looks like my own baby photos. Uncanny resemblance, so he's quite lucky lol.yick wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 12:51 amCheers!![]()
Has he got his Dutch citizenship then keep him right there where he is if he prospering and has a good and loving family environment and then he can use his dual nationality when he is of age if he wants to. Winston has done that for Angelo and that was a solid from him to be fair. Angelo has a leg up on a lot of his peers in more ways than one.
There are lots of damaged men of all ages and of all stripes in the west - if I had a son who was half of an Asian nationality, I wouldn't even entertain bringing him to the UK.
Best thing? He will likely grow up never using words like "chad" or "beta/alpha" and won't be aware of what an "incel" is lol.![]()
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It's funny though how this whole thing of the plight of ethnic males on the dating market, that OP writes about, is not something I ever gave as much thought before as I have now that I have an "ethnic" son, myself.
Re: There is no HA for ethnic males
Your son is going to benefit greatly from the Spanish colonial system of castes which still exists in the Philippines as it does in Latin America - he will be pale skinned, mestizo, tall, handsome thus he will be top of the tree, I mean, you're going to want to have those advantages growing up - he will be picked first for the basketball team and he can get more opportunities if he decides to go that way whereas back in the Netherlands where most blokes are hovering around six foot he will be average/above average - he will have plenty of opportunities with girls and his self esteem will go through the roof - I don't know what the Netherlands can give him as a kid growing up that the Philippines couldn't socially - he can take advantage of what the Netherlands has to offer when he is an adult - if he wants to of course.MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 1:53 amIf he gets a bit of a tan under the Filipino sun, he may be able to pass as a Latino, get himself some adventures down South. I know for instance Enrique Iglesias is the son of a Spanish dad and a Filipina mum with some Spanish ancestry herself, and he looks like a Latin dude. My son has similar admixture so I'm sure he'll have quite a lot of appeal in various places. All any man needs to do to have a leg up on other men, is being born in a culture that isn't as toxic as the West. It helps a bunch.yick wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 1:39 amYou will have to put him on the stage in a few years - telenovela star! Boy band member or even both!MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 1:25 amWill definitely be making sure he gets his Dutch citizenship, EU member state passport opens a shitload of doors in the world. But honestly the kid looks completely caucasian, since his mother is a Spanish mestiza Filipina, so he kind of has this "best of both worlds" thing going on where, culturally, I would like him to be Filipino and benefit from the perks he'll get from that. Education in my country is a lot better but at least he'll have solid social skills, a close group of friends and, likely, superior dating prospects. Instead of just another tan European dude, he'll be a Filipino man looking like a tan European dude. Just like Angelo is Winston's clone, my son exactly looks like my own baby photos. Uncanny resemblance, so he's quite lucky lol.yick wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 12:51 amCheers!![]()
Has he got his Dutch citizenship then keep him right there where he is if he prospering and has a good and loving family environment and then he can use his dual nationality when he is of age if he wants to. Winston has done that for Angelo and that was a solid from him to be fair. Angelo has a leg up on a lot of his peers in more ways than one.
There are lots of damaged men of all ages and of all stripes in the west - if I had a son who was half of an Asian nationality, I wouldn't even entertain bringing him to the UK.
Best thing? He will likely grow up never using words like "chad" or "beta/alpha" and won't be aware of what an "incel" is lol.![]()
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It's funny though how this whole thing of the plight of ethnic males on the dating market, that OP writes about, is not something I ever gave as much thought before as I have now that I have an "ethnic" son, myself.
I think that is the point, if your son stays right where he is - he isn't 'ethnic' I don't suppose, he is not like the average population though he is a part of it also but in an exalted position within that society, if I had grown up in my mum's country as a kid, I probably would have had a far better time of it than growing up working class is shitestown England.

I think it is fair to say and maybe @Winston can give his opinion on this that Angelo has done far better staying where he is than going to school and being brought up in America.
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Re: There is no HA for ethnic males
if he looks mediterennean he will not do well in holland,they're associated with turks and moroccan who the dutch hate.yick wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 2:35 amYour son is going to benefit greatly from the Spanish colonial system of castes which still exists in the Philippines as it does in Latin America - he will be pale skinned, mestizo, tall, handsome thus he will be top of the tree, I mean, you're going to want to have those advantages growing up - he will be picked first for the basketball team and he can get more opportunities if he decides to go that way whereas back in the Netherlands where most blokes are hovering around six foot he will be average/above average - he will have plenty of opportunities with girls and his self esteem will go through the roof - I don't know what the Netherlands can give him as a kid growing up that the Philippines couldn't socially - he can take advantage of what the Netherlands has to offer when he is an adult - if he wants to of course.MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 1:53 amIf he gets a bit of a tan under the Filipino sun, he may be able to pass as a Latino, get himself some adventures down South. I know for instance Enrique Iglesias is the son of a Spanish dad and a Filipina mum with some Spanish ancestry herself, and he looks like a Latin dude. My son has similar admixture so I'm sure he'll have quite a lot of appeal in various places. All any man needs to do to have a leg up on other men, is being born in a culture that isn't as toxic as the West. It helps a bunch.yick wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 1:39 amYou will have to put him on the stage in a few years - telenovela star! Boy band member or even both!MarcosZeitola wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 1:25 amWill definitely be making sure he gets his Dutch citizenship, EU member state passport opens a shitload of doors in the world. But honestly the kid looks completely caucasian, since his mother is a Spanish mestiza Filipina, so he kind of has this "best of both worlds" thing going on where, culturally, I would like him to be Filipino and benefit from the perks he'll get from that. Education in my country is a lot better but at least he'll have solid social skills, a close group of friends and, likely, superior dating prospects. Instead of just another tan European dude, he'll be a Filipino man looking like a tan European dude. Just like Angelo is Winston's clone, my son exactly looks like my own baby photos. Uncanny resemblance, so he's quite lucky lol.yick wrote: ↑October 28th, 2023, 12:51 amCheers!![]()
Has he got his Dutch citizenship then keep him right there where he is if he prospering and has a good and loving family environment and then he can use his dual nationality when he is of age if he wants to. Winston has done that for Angelo and that was a solid from him to be fair. Angelo has a leg up on a lot of his peers in more ways than one.
There are lots of damaged men of all ages and of all stripes in the west - if I had a son who was half of an Asian nationality, I wouldn't even entertain bringing him to the UK.
Best thing? He will likely grow up never using words like "chad" or "beta/alpha" and won't be aware of what an "incel" is lol.![]()
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It's funny though how this whole thing of the plight of ethnic males on the dating market, that OP writes about, is not something I ever gave as much thought before as I have now that I have an "ethnic" son, myself.
I think that is the point, if your son stays right where he is - he isn't 'ethnic' I don't suppose, he is not like the average population though he is a part of it also but in an exalted position within that society, if I had grown up in my mum's country as a kid, I probably would have had a far better time of it than growing up working class is shitestown England.
I think it is fair to say and maybe @Winston can give his opinion on this that Angelo has done far better staying where he is than going to school and being brought up in America.
unless it's a black dude,dutch women are extremely endogamous like other white women.Even poles are outcasts there.
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