LOL....
Primebait is just telling the truth, I've seen it with my own eyes and done it with my own dick....
My friends and I have had our share of college women. So men complaining about not getting laid in college are doing it wrong...
When it comes to LTR, with White women; to get the best White women you arse better have your finances in order, more so than with ANY OTHER WOMAN. This goes for White men, Black men, Asian men and Latin men. Are there exceptions to the rule? Sure there are and with 7 billion people that's alot of exceptions, no excuses.
The problem is men simply don't date enough women. My chances with attractive White women were ruined by my lack of finances or forgetting my wallet at home (in San Diego, home is San Fernando Valley). Today since White women without children have narrow age gaps, to get high quality White women in Western Culture, my finances need to be in order, period. Again exceptions exist, but you won't know without meeting enough women, stop whining and get to work.
When speaking about developing countries; all of Latin America, much of Southeast Asia and All of Africa, you are engaging in economic arbitrage -
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arbitrage
According to Economist Paul Oyer -
women like money period. He was able to theorize that if you make $50K or more, you can look worse than a guy who makes less than $50K and the woman is likely to pick the guy with that earns more.
The data collected backs this up, don't argue.
So I put the Threshold of Dating in America at $50K in earnings. If you make more great, if you make less, you're in trouble.
If it cost $50K to date a good looking woman in America, you have two or maybe three choices.
1) Figuring out a way to make more money. This is why White Collar Crime has increased IMHO.
2) Go back to school, the cost would be $30-40K for graduate program.
3) Look overseas
The there's a fourth option and that's coming here or any other website and complain, easy to do but its like jacking off, it feels good but ultimately unproductive.
As I said there are exceptions men can exploit in America, but its a long, frustrating and time consuming task that I have been doing. Its been about ten years and the results are zero; I am no closer to getting married and having children than I was back in 1996-1997.
This forum should be largely nothing but helping others achieve their goals. But that's not what happens, agendas appear.
I will also mention settling is an option, but you have to understand why others have settled. Most won't explain it without pushing but I find that sort of compromise unacceptable. They find it unacceptable too deep inside, but that's for another thread.
So if you don't want an American GF/Wife, then go elsewhere. I don't know how many times I suggested alternatives means to earn money, but mostly falls on deaf ears or actually these people even intended on going anywhere they are just provocateurs.
Life is about accomplishing goals. If you are Black and what you want is a hot White wife. Your best chance based on data is to be in the United Kingdom, Canada or the United States. You need money, so you better figured out how to earn at least $50K legally. Remember the narrow age gaps however. Under 20, its roughly 2-5 years age difference is tolerated. After age 30, its 5-10 years; After age 40 its 10-15 years.
That means if your in your 40's, say like me; Unscientific tactics like half your age, plus seven largely don't match with reality in America. But at 33-38 years old which is realistic threshold that shouldn't be crossed if you're serious about having children, also happens to be the most productive, highest earning years for women.
For me and others like me at around $25K a year or less, its unlikely you'll find those exceptional females, even average looking women won't give you a chance.
All this racial nonsense is just that. Instead of examining why they are having problems, they blame racism to put an end to any sort of debate and taking away the focus on what it is they do around women.
If men settle they get what they deserve. So if you see a man, any man with a subpar woman, its more about HIM and less about HER. Some people's loneliness becomes a real issue. I understand why some men do it, but I will not tolerate 6th grade blaming the other when its very easy to see some if not all of it is your fault for picking that woman in the first place. I am not singling anybody out because men are prone to do dumbsh*t around women, its normal, sort of.