djfourmoney wrote:No problem Mav...
I don't date BW and never have. But I understand (and don't understand?) the Black man's frustrations with BW. On one hand, men raised by Single Mothers haven't a clue. Since I wasn't raised in that environment I see the entire forest
Pretty sure I don't have to outline the issues with BW any of that can be discovered with a simple Google query. But they are the most butt-hurt bunch on the planet. In the Black Diaspora both men and women suffer from similar issues if they are in a society controlled by people with White skin.
While some of the safest communities in Latin/Central America have Black People as the majority, some of the most dangerous communities in the United States and Great Britain have majority Blacks in it. This explains the ravages and savage nature of White Supremacy, Jim Crow and Slavery in the United States. In GB its slightly different but not really, Blacks are mostly considered 2nd class citizens and treated as such by the Government, Law Enforcement and the Justice System.
The difference is in GB, Black men really do have an the option to date/marry/procreate with White women, nobody screams and nobody bats an eye because Black women are also able to date/marry/procreate with White men. There is also more social cohesion, that you notice in ManWomanMyth YouTube page and website, he interviews both White men and Black men for his series on the evils of Feminism.
In America we have Feminism from the White perspective mostly from Tom Leykis who's political affiliations I am not sure of; but the loudest barking is coming from Conservatives like Charles Murray, Tony Perkins, The 700 Club and GOP relic Phyllis Schlafly -
http://wonkette.com/536087/phyllis-schl ... re-babbies and her niece who launched Phyllis back into the mainstream discussion about Feminism.
What men don't seem to realize that there is an internal war going on in Feminism. That's why its unproductive ranting because as hard they look for videos and blog post that corroborate what they feel is happening, I can report that there is an fact a schism between hardcore, seemingly anti-Male Feminist and those who really do want equal rights such as
http://www.momsrising.org/
I've said this privately I guess I should say it here....
The Men's Rights Movement will not work, it will have to morph into the Human Rights Movement and its figurehead leader will need to be somebody that is open to discussion about the real issues of a Post-Modern Society; possibly a man of color. Because as long as the face of the Movement is some angry White male factory worker with little education beyond high school, overweight and wears some type of sports paraphernalia (jersey, ball cap, etc) the movement will not be taken seriously.
Also as long as White movement members keep saying its a Post-Racial movement in complete denial that America isn't post racial so how could a movement started by White men be?
Minorities also wonder where there place is in the movement. Black men sort of understand, but their women are the attack dogs for the status quo and they will have to disassociate from the majority of Black Men AND Black Women. They are resistant to this because they believe its apart of the divide and conquer technique of the elites (including Black elites). I say as men we have little choice. As long as we are in the diaspora, our children will be seen as Black children (One drop Rule) so it doesn't matter who we procreate with. So the "Black" Community can be rebuilt with productive, educated, well-read Black men, Black women and whoever they choose for a mate with, White, Asian, Latino or otherwise.
Asian Men, I understand what's happen to most of them -
For example, the sense of betrayal felt by Asian men certainly makes sense. After all, they tend to surpass the national average in those long-term virtues -- industry, self-restraint, law-abidingness -- that society used to train young women to look for in a husband. Yet, now that discrimination has finally declined enough for Asian men to expect to reap the rewards for fulfilling traditional American standards of manliness, our culture has largely lost interest in indoctrinating young women to prize those qualities.
Read More -
http://www.isteve.com/IsLoveColorblind.htm
That article also explains White men liking Asian women is seen as a fetish and when I posted that story from Alternet, of course White men will get offended.
As I said, I've known for a LONG, LONG time the REAL reason why White men love Asian women so much. White women are becoming taller and this isn't a good development for vertically challenged men. Just in a casual search for White women on an IR site I use, I found three women 6'0, one 6'4 and slew 5'8 or taller. The truth is, women don't care if they are taller than you by a little bit, but you can't be fat, out of shape or anything like that, because even if you are shorter she still expect you to protect her honor. Law Jackson is shorter than his wife Alona, married almost three years and got two kids, newest one born few months ago. Law is in excellent shape; as I keep saying you need to minimize your weaknesses.
This is often ignored because Middle Class White men in decades gone by, usually the last time your fathers were single. White women accepted them as-is. Well in a less racist society overall (a trend that started with the Civil Rights Movement and popularity of Disco), it seems to me White men have not adjusted as much as they need too. Sure lots of men have adjusted but let's face it if you're under 30 and adjusted I am not talking about you.
There are quite a few butt-hurt White men around age 40 who think its perfectly okay to be Jack Black and get laid, sorry that's just not reality anymore.
This is why many of them don't change themselves they change location... They marry poor Latinas and poor Asian women; with the lure of producing offspring with light hair, light eyes, White skin and features. Those in-shape but maybe socially awkward go to Ukraine/Russia, etc.
They are pig headed too, I tell them they can earn $3,000-$4,000 a year donating plasma. Most of them have jobs, that $3-4K could easily pay for any adventure overseas and easily pay for the majority of a bride tour to either SEA or Latin America.
Screamers and Moaners are who we got on this website, that's why the name should be changed too Miserable At Home.