It's gotten outrageous in the swinging scene, in which I participated back in the day. Women ages 30 to 60 who are anywhere from 2 to 6 on a 1-10 scale - women who would be brought to tears if they had to compete in the looks department with similarly-aged women from East Asia or Latin America - aren't satisfied with anything less than a guy with a bodybuilder's physique and/or a pornstar-sized penis. Being bigger than 90% of the male population isn't enough. No, a lot of them won't hook up with you unless you're bigger than 99.9% of guys out there, if the stats mean anything:
http://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-enlar ... -ones.html
Hypergamy in full force: The "mandingos" (black, white, and any color in between) get all the action, while plain-faced "rubenesque" women with loose, sagging equipment feel free to disdainfully dismiss any man who doesn't fit her Peter North-style fantasy.