MarcosZeitola wrote:He could get sluts, but sluts still require a certain attitude, appearance, behaviour and status to get. They require confidence, as a sixteen year old girl is often not confident at all, her big mouth a facade to hide the insecure girl underneath. She looks for approval, sometimes a father figure. An older guy of moderate attraction might be able to score with such a girl but it's a bit of tricky territory and there'd be a lot of imbalance in such a relationship. I don't think such an affair would be long lasting at all which is what Tsar wants and most of these girls are somehow already 'damaged' one way or another.
Most good girls at sixteen aren't focused on these things at all. A stable relationship is usually the last thing on their mind as they are most likely very focused on school and their friends and boys are simply not something they are interested in yet. The type of girl Tsar wants, I am pretty sure wouldn't even be up for dating let alone marriage until they are at least in their early twenties. Decent girls tend to be late bloomers because the morals instilled in them from home make them focus on school, family and friends first and dating last.
As far as casual sex with teenaged sluts goes, your scenario sounds more then a little far-fetched and I imagine it would be hard to pull off. A sixteen year old girl would be easily obtained in Thailand or the Philippines but not in the West, unless he has no problem being sloppy seconds to their teenage peers.
The reason why men like Tsar and Cornfed are stuck with the sweet sixteen idea and often build elaborate socio-political-anthropological bullcrap theories to legimitise that kind of preference is simple: their emotional/sexual development is stunned at about that age. They neither had a girl at 16 nor recently, and they are deluded that they could resume it from where it should have started back then.
Neither of them are bad people, I am sure, but they come across as sad cases, as their frustrations cannot be vented in any other way than on an online forum. Tsar is a few years older than you, Marcos, and I hope he will muster the courage to just plunge in and move abroad, not to find his "dream girl" but to actually learn what the world out there is about, and learn that compromise isn't an option as soon as you walk into reality. Cornfed is much older and, from the way he sounds, he let his frustration rot way too deep into the core, and inform every and each one of his ideas on life, society, and women. He's a pure concentrate of bitterness and, once again, one that will never find any other outlet than a couple of online forums.
Elliott Rodgers is dead, but what makes me the saddest is that, for each Elliott Rodgers, there are thousands of cases like him, frozen, hibernated in their twisted world view, who will never hurt anybody else than themselves.
