Perhaps Muslim women have become passive in their pursuit because they have so many options – causing them to sometimes feel nonchalant about a man, even if he is a great catch. Dating is much more challenging for the men of our generation than it was for our parent’s generation. The invention of the smart phone and the popularity of dating apps has resulted in everyone being presented with a plethora of options, and it can therefore be quite tough to stand out.
Deep down all Muslim men crave a strong alpha female!

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Would you believe this nonsense if it was said about repressed Muslim women? Yet this is exactly the crap the paleo / game PUA cult wants you to believe, i.e. throw your life away and live badly in order to be entertaining to women, while at the same time making yourself extremely vulnerable to oppressive laws. When I flip the sexes and switch to a situation where women actually are repressed you can see this sick joke for what it is. It's obvious when I change the situation that the above is just a way to browbeat an already vanquished foe further into submission by giving them a bad case of doublethink and an impossible standard.
If you live in the west you are by definition "beta". No amount of self-esteem or positive thinking will override the legal, media, academic, and corporate systems which decided decades ago that your life is less valuable than a woman's.