Are virgin girls the only option for a relationship/marriage?

[Tsar]

I thought that I would post this question, since the topic of virginity, traditionalism, and anti-Slut Culture has been becoming popular on the forum recently.

You might believe multiple options are acceptable. Vote for your typical choice. The one that you passionately believe and would be completely willing to accept without any doubts, negative emotions, or unhappiness as a result of accepting the girl for a relationship and marriage.

It would be interesting to see the results.

[Outcast9428]

I voted for "Dating and marrying a non-virgin with a little experience is okay." I think in some cases it can be acceptable to marry a girl with more then ten partners... Like if you have already been married, had kids, but got divorced and are remarrying. At that point you really can't be picky. But I do think ten or more partners is definitely a problem if they're in the typical dating age range (15-30).

[Kalinago]

it depends entirely on (the quality of)the man.

and the culture.

Obv,promiscuous girls are not wife material,but a woman with few partners is if you live in a culture that encourages fidelity and female qualities in women,and of course no economic oppurtunities for women.

problem is most of these places are backwaters you wouldn't want to live in.

[MrMan]

For me the two hypothetical options would have been a virgin or a widow who had only had sex with her husband, but I wanted to marry a virgin, and did.

My wife and I have had that conversation a few times, about "Would you remarry if I died, and if so, with what kind of person?" I used to think a young, pretty virgin. Now, my son is an adult, so I'm thinking someone just old enough that my son wouldn't consider her a potential option for himself when he saw her. But virgin or virtuous widow would be the only two options, but someone motherly who would be cool with adult kids and grandkids hanging around the house.

I didn't ask my wife about male virginity if I died. She didn't think she would remarry. She's said she couldn't remarry a white man-- seeing the quality of some of the men in the US I suppose. She's also said she didn't think she could find another man like me, before.

[MrMan]

For me the two hypothetical options would have been a virgin or a widow who had only had sex with her husband, but I wanted to marry a virgin, and did.

My wife and I have had that conversation a few times, about "Would you remarry if I died, and if so, with what kind of person?" I used to think a young, pretty virgin. Now, my son is an adult, so I'm thinking someone just old enough that my son wouldn't consider her a potential option for himself when he saw her. But virgin or virtuous widow would be the only two options, but someone motherly who would be cool with adult kids and grandkids hanging around the house.

I didn't ask my wife about male virginity if I died. She didn't think she would remarry. She's said she couldn't remarry a white man-- seeing the quality of some of the men in the US I suppose. She's also said she didn't think she could find another man like me, before.

[fschmidt]

This is a fundamentally stupid question. You always take the best that you can get and compromise as much as is needed. This goes back to the divide here that was discussed. Those who don't aim high will have degenerate descendants. Those who don't compromise will not have descendants at all.

[Voyager1]

Is anyone tired of Tsar's endless drivel that she's got to be a virgin on this forum?

[Lucas88]

Is anyone tired of Tsar's endless drivel that she's got to be a virgin on this forum?

Not really. Tsar can write about whatever he wants as long as it's within the forum's rules. Moreover, some of these topics of his have served to generate meaningful discussions among different users. If you don't like the topic, don't read it. Simple!

[Voyager1]

We have heard about this ad nauseam from him. It's time for him be banned for talking about it.

He doesn't understand it's not possible for him.

[Voyager1]

MZ don't encourage him. Don't enable him.

[fschmidt]

And I believe Tsar will "get there" soon enough.

Tsar is a typical modern incel. Has there ever been a case of a modern incel turning into a practical person? None that I know of. In fact I developed an online foreign dating service for incels that worked 100% of the time for the non-modern incels that tried it. But when I posted about this service to an incel forum, all I got was insults. Not one of them tried it. So in my opinion, the sooner that modern incels are removed from the gene pool, the better.

[Cornfed]

And I believe Tsar will "get there" soon enough.

Tsar is a typical modern incel. Has there ever been a case of a modern incel turning into a practical person? None that I know of. In fact I developed an online foreign dating service for incels that worked 100% of the time for the non-modern incels that tried it. But when I posted about this service to an incel forum, all I got was insults. Not one of them tried it. So in my opinion, the sooner that modern incels are removed from the gene pool, the better.

Your site only supplied one element for men that had all the other elements in place. It would have only been of use to a certain subset of men, such as those who were about to move to a job in a foreign country. You seem to underestimate the depth of planning that has gone into eliminating options for men.

[fschmidt]

Your site only supplied one element for men that had all the other elements in place. It would have only been of use to a certain subset of men, such as those who were about to move to a job in a foreign country. You seem to underestimate the depth of planning that has gone into eliminating options for men.

No, the only element needed was for the men to have enough money to take trips abroad. They could meet the women online and then travel to meet them.

[Cornfed]

Your site only supplied one element for men that had all the other elements in place. It would have only been of use to a certain subset of men, such as those who were about to move to a job in a foreign country. You seem to underestimate the depth of planning that has gone into eliminating options for men.

No, the only element needed was for the men to have enough money to take trips abroad. They could meet the women online and then travel to meet them.

I guess if they wanted short term relationships it might good. It would have been a Godsend if I had had access to something like that before I went to Korea. But for the average guy in his parents' basement delivering pizzas three nights a week, not so helpful.

[fschmidt]

That doesn't mean much coming from you. You believe everyone should be removed from the gene pool.

Good point.

What was the dating service like? What kind of features did it have? Why did these guys insult you for trying to help them?

Most online foreign dating services require women to sign up. So these attract scammers. Mine was based on advertising directly to women on Facebook (back before Instragram). Facebook has a sophisticated advertising interface that allows companies to exactly target a specific audience. I used this to allow men to target exactly the type of women that they are interested in, and advertise to them.

The incels insulted me basically for even suggesting that dating women abroad could work. Their basic position is that all women are evil, so nothing can work.