Why do normies love bullying other people?

[kangarunner]

Bullies truly are the worst. It's about power. It's a dark side of men (and women) when they feel they are the most powerful in a social situation they will abuse their power.

I heard a guy on YouTube say that there's an evolutionary reason behind bullying. In essence they are taking something from the person. Or weakening them so they can take their resources away from them.

Over the years, I have slowly started to despise people in the West. Thank God and the universe and Winston Wu for the happier abroad answer.

[kangarunner]

The stronger wolves will bully the weaker wolf in the pack. Humans evolved to be predators.....so it may have something to do with that.

[Outcast9428]

Autistic people are more like dogs whereas normies are more like chimpanzees.

To autists, loyalty comes naturally, we form relationships based on common values and hobbies. We're completely honest with one another and never have to guess as to whether there's a problem or not because we will solve it immediately. We stay the same in our friendships and look at one another as members of the same tribe with common interests.

Normies on the other hand are constantly battling one another for a higher place in the power/popularity hierarchy. Their friendships and relationships are superficial, they only form them for the purpose of getting something out of it or improving their public image. If you don't care about power and popularity they think there's something wrong with you so they start bullying you because they want to force you to participate in their stupid little power games. They can't stand seeing people find happiness without playing the game because they fail to recognize that their obsession with playing the game is the exact reason why they can't find happiness.

[kangarunner]

Normies don't overthink. They just go out and live their life without questioning too much.

[Winston]

Normies usually ignore me and project a cold wall around me. I can sense that they hate me though, intuitively. People seem able to pick up when you are different, especially women and especially shallow, judgmental women.

Usually adults don't bully each other overtly like the bullies in school did. It's more passive aggressive and subtle and psychological, but you can feel the bullying vibe from someone trying to intimidate you. It's psychological and energetic, not physical pushing like the bullies in school. You can sense it intuitively and it makes you feel small and drained. Many bosses at American jobs are like that. Very toxic. Brings you down, not up.

About normies, I've noticed they are in sync with each other. For example, when they go ballroom dancing, they are able to move in sync with the woman they are dancing with. Like birds flocking together or schools of fish swimming together in unison and turning simultaneously. For some reason, I can't do that no matter how hard I try. When I try to ballroom dance or waltz with a girl, I keep stepping on her toes even if I pay extra close attention. Eventually they tire of it and stop. For some reason I can't get in sync with them. I think it may be because I am not connected to the hive mind or group souls that normies are?

Do any of you experience this too? I'll bet most guys here, if not all, cannot dance in rhythm with a woman either, because we aren't in sync with normal people.

If my theory is correct, then normies don't choose to be normies, and we do not choose to be misfits. We simply are what we are, not by choice, but by birth or personal growth. You can't be something you are not after all. Can you choose to be something you are not? Can you choose to be a jock or prep or nerd, etc if you are not? Of course not. So we are misfits because that's what we are, not because of a choice. Normies are normies because that's what they are too, they didn't make a choice.

The proof of the pudding is this: Can you choose to be a normie even if you wanted to? I certainly couldn't. If I tried, it would look fake and awkward and people would pick up that I'm not a true normie even if I try to act and talk like a normie. Have any of you experienced this too? Therefore, you simply cannot choose to be a normie if you are not really one. I don't know why Americans don't understand that, and think that everything is a choice when it's obviously not. You cannot be something you are not.

This means of course, that normies don't choose to be normies either. They simply are normies. Perhaps they are of a different soul than us, like a group soul that animals have. This explains why normies can dance togehther in sync and drive on the freeway in sync without having to calculate every move like I do. When they are in sync, they go with the trend in society, whether it's good or bad and degenerate. The normal person goes with any TREND, even if it's downward. That's their nature. Have you noticed that?

[Winston]

This is all true, and have you noticed that people will decide whether they like you or not within seconds of meeting you? Before they even know your personality or anything about you I've noticed that people will either like me or not and how they treat me or interact with me from there on will be based on that.

Yes I have. That's because friendships aren't about common interests or personality or even looks. They are about RESONANCE. There is a feeling of whether people like you or not. Maybe it's about soul tribes too. We aren't of the same soul tribe as others, and we are misfits because our soul isn't in sync or rhythm with the normies, not by choice of course. Just like a lion and hyena do not choose to dislike each other, it's an instinct that they are of different tribes. Women especially are judgmental about this kind of thing and pick up on your vibes if you are different and are quicker than men to ostracize someone. Both American and Chinese are notorious for making snap judgments about people.

[Gali]

This is all true, and have you noticed that people will decide whether they like you or not within seconds of meeting you? Before they even know your personality or anything about you I've noticed that people will either like me or not and how they treat me or interact with me from there on will be based on that.

Yes I have. That's because friendships aren't about common interests or personality or even looks. They are about RESONANCE. There is a feeling of whether people like you or not. Maybe it's about soul tribes too. We aren't of the same soul tribe as others, and we are misfits because our soul isn't in sync or rhythm with the normies, not by choice of course. Just like a lion and hyena do not choose to dislike each other, it's an instinct that they are of different tribes. Women especially are judgmental about this kind of thing and pick up on your vibes if you are different and are quicker than men to ostracize someone. Both American and Chinese are notorious for making snap judgments about people.

Everybody who is different from me is a normy. Because of frequence.

[WilliamSmith]

This is all true, and have you noticed that people will decide whether they like you or not within seconds of meeting you? Before they even know your personality or anything about you I've noticed that people will either like me or not and how they treat me or interact with me from there on will be based on that.

Yes I have. That's because friendships aren't about common interests or personality or even looks. They are about RESONANCE. There is a feeling of whether people like you or not.

I know what you guys mean, so not saying you're wrong, but I've also had a number of memorable experiences where for some reason someone took an initial dislike to me that was visibly obvious, but then ended up changing their own mind on continued interaction, and ended up liking me abnormally well instead.

Happened with one of the guys I had to work with at the University, where for some reason he obviously disliked me at first for reasons I can't guess (since we really had no interactions yet for him to base it on), but then I just kept trying the basic charisma/win-friends-and-influence-people routines and being visibly unphased by his apparently dislike, and he ended up completely changing his mind about me. I never knew why I rubbed him the wrong way on sight at first (LOL), but it was a moot point, since in the end we'd spend hours having fun talking about common interests and were really good friends.

Not always, though! I've also had a handful of people who took an apparent dislike to me for no reason on sight stay hostile/unfriendly, so in those cases you just have to brush them off and not let it bother you.

Also, what I was saying there was just about social or work interactions where people seem not to like you for whatever reason, a bit off topic from the bullying subject. If it's actual hostile encounters where someone actually crosses the line and gets abusive, then I agree you can't show any weakness (and acting friendly can be perceived as weakness in that case), so what I was saying wouldn't apply at all.

[gsjackson]

This is all true, and have you noticed that people will decide whether they like you or not within seconds of meeting you? Before they even know your personality or anything about you I've noticed that people will either like me or not and how they treat me or interact with me from there on will be based on that.

Yes I have. That's because friendships aren't about common interests or personality or even looks. They are about RESONANCE. There is a feeling of whether people like you or not.

I know what you guys mean, so not saying you're wrong, but I've also had a number of memorable experiences where for some reason someone took an initial dislike to me that was visibly obvious, but then ended up changing their own mind on continued interaction, and ended up liking me abnormally well instead.

Happened with one of the guys I had to work with at the University, where for some reason he obviously disliked me at first for reasons I can't guess (since we really had no interactions yet for him to base it on), but then I just kept trying the basic charisma/win-friends-and-influence-people routines and being visibly unphased by his apparently dislike, and he ended up completely changing his mind about me. I never knew why I rubbed him the wrong way on sight at first (LOL), but it was a moot point, since in the end we'd spend hours having fun talking about common interests and were really good friends.

Not always, though! I've also had a handful of people who took an apparent dislike to me for no reason on sight stay hostile/unfriendly, so in those cases you just have to brush them off and not let it bother you.

Also, what I was saying there was just about social or work interactions where people seem not to like you for whatever reason, a bit off topic from the bullying subject. If it's actual hostile encounters where someone actually crosses the line and gets abusive, then I agree you can't show any weakness (and acting friendly can be perceived as weakness in that case), so what I was saying wouldn't apply at all.

I noticed a certain pattern among people who took an immediate dislike of me for no apparent reason. (((They))) were usually of a certain ethnicity. Pattern recognition -- it's hard to navigate your way through life without some capacity for it. For example, anybody who at this point still attaches any credibility at all to the western corporate media is simply a lost soul.

[Winston]

This is all true, and have you noticed that people will decide whether they like you or not within seconds of meeting you? Before they even know your personality or anything about you I've noticed that people will either like me or not and how they treat me or interact with me from there on will be based on that.

Yes I have. That's because friendships aren't about common interests or personality or even looks. They are about RESONANCE. There is a feeling of whether people like you or not. Maybe it's about soul tribes too. We aren't of the same soul tribe as others, and we are misfits because our soul isn't in sync or rhythm with the normies, not by choice of course. Just like a lion and hyena do not choose to dislike each other, it's an instinct that they are of different tribes. Women especially are judgmental about this kind of thing and pick up on your vibes if you are different and are quicker than men to ostracize someone. Both American and Chinese are notorious for making snap judgments about people.

Everybody who is different from me is a normy. Because of frequence.

Not true. You are making lame jokes again. No one said that. A normie is not simply different than us. They have a group mind and will conform to anything that is the trend and follow the herd or majority. It's not a choice, just an automatic instinct because they are a group soul. The Borg analogy is LITERAL, not metaphorical. Yes it is literally like that. Plus they ostracize anyone who isn't a normie. We don't ostracize people, but they do.

For some reason though the normies in Russia or the Philippines do not ostracize us for being eccentric or aspies, but remain social and engaging. But the normies in America and Taiwan definitely do. Anyone have an explanation for that?

[Winston]

Normies don't overthink. They just go out and live their life without questioning too much.

That's true. They don't think independently. They are a group mind and group soul that follows the trend wherever it goes, even if it goes down a bad path. For example, tattoos. Even though tattoos are degenerate and desecrate your body and are unnecessary and illogical, still the normies get tattoos because it's the TREND. The trend doesn't come out of nowhere. They all agree to it simultaneously like a hive mind, kind of how flocks of birds and schools of fish move in unison. So the Borg analogy from Star Trek is LITERAL, not metaphorical.

It may be that if we have asperger's that being an aspie somehow rewires our brain so that we are disconnected from the collective soul that normies are connected to? So the aspie brain somehow severs our ties to the collective? How else can you explain why we are not normies and cannot choose to be even if we want to be?

[Gali]

This is all true, and have you noticed that people will decide whether they like you or not within seconds of meeting you? Before they even know your personality or anything about you I've noticed that people will either like me or not and how they treat me or interact with me from there on will be based on that.

Yes I have. That's because friendships aren't about common interests or personality or even looks. They are about RESONANCE. There is a feeling of whether people like you or not. Maybe it's about soul tribes too. We aren't of the same soul tribe as others, and we are misfits because our soul isn't in sync or rhythm with the normies, not by choice of course. Just like a lion and hyena do not choose to dislike each other, it's an instinct that they are of different tribes. Women especially are judgmental about this kind of thing and pick up on your vibes if you are different and are quicker than men to ostracize someone. Both American and Chinese are notorious for making snap judgments about people.

Everybody who is different from me is a normy. Because of frequence.

Not true. You are making lame jokes again. No one said that. A normie is not simply different than us. They have a group mind and will conform to anything that is the trend and follow the herd or majority. It's not a choice, just an automatic instinct because they are a group soul. The Borg analogy is LITERAL, not metaphorical. Yes it is literally like that. Plus they ostracize anyone who isn't a normie. We don't ostracize people, but they do.

For some reason though the normies in Russia or the Philippines do not ostracize us for being eccentric or aspies, but remain social and engaging. But the normies in America and Taiwan definitely do. Anyone have an explanation for that?

Who is 'us'? I am different than you. Does it make me a normy? Every little group calls everybody else normie. Blue pilled.

From an evolutionary view everything makes sense. If you try to find other explanations you will run in circles another 20 years.

[Winston]

Autistic people are more like dogs whereas normies are more like chimpanzees.

To autists, loyalty comes naturally, we form relationships based on common values and hobbies. We're completely honest with one another and never have to guess as to whether there's a problem or not because we will solve it immediately. We stay the same in our friendships and look at one another as members of the same tribe with common interests.

Normies on the other hand are constantly battling one another for a higher place in the power/popularity hierarchy. Their friendships and relationships are superficial, they only form them for the purpose of getting something out of it or improving their public image. If you don't care about power and popularity they think there's something wrong with you so they start bullying you because they want to force you to participate in their stupid little power games. They can't stand seeing people find happiness without playing the game because they fail to recognize that their obsession with playing the game is the exact reason why they can't find happiness.

This is a good point. We all assume others are like us, but they aren't. For example, we are concerned with truth, authencity, logic, honesty, directness, literalness. But normies don't care about those things. They just wanna get ahead and climb the social ladder. They measure their self-worth by their success, not in how honest and authentic they are. A quintessential example are Olympic athletes who strive for the gold medal. To them, getting that gold medal defines them as successful and their ego and identity are attached to it. We do not think like that at all.

We mistakenly assume that normies are like us and care about truth and honesty and authenticity and what makes sense. They are not. Likewise they assume that we are like them and only care about getting ahead and being successful. We do not care about those things of course. So we all assume mistakenly that the other is like us when they are not.

Speaking of Olympic gold medals, have any of you noticed that athletes who get the gold medal nowadays just smile politely? They aren't sobbing in emotions and tears like they were in the past. As if today's athletes are just NPCs with no emotions, far less human than before. Just goes to show that the movie "Invasion of the Body Snatchers" was a real literal story that happened in our reality, not a metaphorical one.

[Winston]

This is all true, and have you noticed that people will decide whether they like you or not within seconds of meeting you? Before they even know your personality or anything about you I've noticed that people will either like me or not and how they treat me or interact with me from there on will be based on that.

Yes I have. That's because friendships aren't about common interests or personality or even looks. They are about RESONANCE. There is a feeling of whether people like you or not. Maybe it's about soul tribes too. We aren't of the same soul tribe as others, and we are misfits because our soul isn't in sync or rhythm with the normies, not by choice of course. Just like a lion and hyena do not choose to dislike each other, it's an instinct that they are of different tribes. Women especially are judgmental about this kind of thing and pick up on your vibes if you are different and are quicker than men to ostracize someone. Both American and Chinese are notorious for making snap judgments about people.

Everybody who is different from me is a normy. Because of frequence.

Not true. You are making lame jokes again. No one said that. A normie is not simply different than us. They have a group mind and will conform to anything that is the trend and follow the herd or majority. It's not a choice, just an automatic instinct because they are a group soul. The Borg analogy is LITERAL, not metaphorical. Yes it is literally like that. Plus they ostracize anyone who isn't a normie. We don't ostracize people, but they do.

For some reason though the normies in Russia or the Philippines do not ostracize us for being eccentric or aspies, but remain social and engaging. But the normies in America and Taiwan definitely do. Anyone have an explanation for that?

Who is 'us'? I am different than you. Does it make me a normy? Every little group calls everybody else normie. Blue pilled.

From an evolutionary view everything makes sense. If you try to find other explanations you will run in circles another 20 years.

Us are the misfits and aspies on this forum. It's not true that everyone thinks other people are normies. None of my cousins use that word "normie". Mainstream people don't use that word, especially in Asia. They all just care about getting ahead. They don't define themselves as normies or whatever. They never think about it even. They cannot even have a conversation about this. They just ignore us. Try having a conversation with your neighbor in America about normies. It will feel very awkward and they will have little or nothing to say. They will dismiss it and avoid the topic and maybe avoid you too. So no, it's not true that mainstream people define others as normies. Only misfits and freethinkers do. None of my relatives use that word, ever.

[Winston]

Have any of you ever been described by normies this way:

"There is something different about you. I can't describe it or explain in words. There is just something different."

I've been described that way by many. Have any of you? Does it mean that I must be an aspie or disconnected from the wavelength/frequency that normies are?