green1976 wrote:You brought me more confidence as you're an Indian going to the Philippines.
If you manage to find your way easily,even if they where not all stunners,i consider this as a victory.
You surely have heard in Thailand many Thai women are reluctant to dates Indian type guys.
Even blacks maybe get their way better.
Pattaya have some establishments who almost forbides Indian guys to go there.
Bargirls for some of them will go but they are not as willing compared to a white guy.
On my conversations to massage girls,they acknowledge a fair numbers of Indian men are totally sexually starved when they come to Thailand.
They f**k up because they can't control themselves gropping girls,proposing cheap prices,coming there seeing all Thai women are hookers.
For sure India looks at one of the worst place to have fun,to date,to have sex without string,without drama.
Sometimes i got on a conversation along random Indians and for them Thailand and Pattaya where like some kind of paradise haha.
What is possible there..is impossible at home.
India shoud be worst to date compared to the US maybe having to share the spot with Saudi Arabia and Pakistan
As you find your road in the Philippines,i'm quite confident that the p***y availabity should be better than Thailand.
The only things who makes me more cautious is the crime factor,the security.
Almost everytime i went to Thailand,i felt in security.
Problems happen but if you keep cool yourself,avoiding drunk Thai men,you should not have trouble in general.
Did you felt to have to keep always your guards on?
I think that we can't go wrong mixing Thailand,the Phillippines,maybe Cambodia and hopefully Indonesia.
Very true...As I wrote in my above posts. India is 1.2 Billion, there are many types and kinds...Indians have got bad image in Thailand for all right reasons...Many of our kinds are cheap charlies, They don't pay the girls after the deed, try to screw the girls on deals, smell bad, don't respect the girls, treat them like animals, don't behave properly etc....You do business with Indians and they will screw you over, credit grabbers that is what one Filipina told me

....Don't respect the boundaries of individuals etc
If you visit my state, its totally completely different than rest of India....with GMO free, Flouride free, CFL free state....Even coco cola was thrown out of Kerala state for draining the ground water ...People here are aware..dare I say more aware intellectually than even avg. Thai's, avg. Filipinos, and other Asians...sorry I know I sound cocky...but it needs to be said to put things in perspective

....Even most Americans are not aware of IMF loan Debt slavery...In Kerala, it was a debate in the 90s itself
How IMF took away gold from India, how they deliberately weakened the Indian currency, How American government established puppet regimes all over the world, cold war etc was talk of even small villages where I was born
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WU8bUccTojs
The above movie portrays the vibe of Kerala ..How aware people are...Its in local language, but you can make out certain English words on what they are meaning....
My point is India is a huge country and we have many kinds but unfortunately, we all get clubbed as Indians, it natural that we cannot expect Thai bar girls to make a understanding of this
Thailand is not conducive for me at all..It has gone beyond repair even with all the improvement I make...Its Impossible.
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In Philippines with my above points...It still depends on Individuals...Filipinas will give you benefit of the doubt, they are willing to meet you before passing the judgement...They are more evolved...They don't generalize it like all Indians are this and that to an extreme extent that its impossible to even meet them.
If you improve on yourself...You will score guaranteed....As you can see from my background...I was not the typical Indian guy who would just show up...I researched, worked on myself, synced, observed their behavior, respected them...
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Regarding Security
Most Americans seems to have difficulty sync'ing in with Guards, condo management etc...I was able to make instant contact with them...They make sure no one could get out or get into my Condo without my permission...X'mas is very big in The Philippines, any small present is taken to the heart...
I did not had any issue security wise, My condo was guarded, while waiting for taxis, I used to indulge in small talk with guards on how things are going etc, offer them cigarettes which of course they can't take it on duty but they remember you, any small offer is appreciated, once I came dead drunk to my condo and taxi driver tried to over charge me....The guards put him in line and sent him away...I know my image as Indian is quite bad everywhere..So I try to make that extra effort for everyone to like me...I begin the conversation first
Now that my Condo area is secured....we read maids, girls stealing stuff from condos, it never happened to me as they know when they go out, I will get a call from guards...
I did not go outside of main areas...even if I went, it was with someone....more than guys, its the girls that hold power over bad guys in Philippines

The small small taxi issues, no change get sorted out when I was with a Filipina...
Be friendly....Due to my personal issues living in India and the freedom I get in Philippines...I get drunk a lot...I often got dead drunk in The Philippines..Not recommended at all BUT I made sure I visit the place for one week and get to know everyone before I do my ultimate act of being a low life

I noticed that, when ever bad guys tried to come near you, They watch you for a long time before making the move...The moment they see you trying to engage with local filipinos...They stay away..In clubs also, I do friendly chit chat with bouncers, management etc....offer them drinks as a formality when we know they can't accept it..Its the intention that counts...
BE FRIENDLY...99% of crime issues would never come to you...talk with everyone including Filipinos....They appreciate it but not try to invade their privacy just small hi, hello, smile goes a long way...As India is already a very safe place to live....I did not had issues...I did not consider security an Issue for me in The Philippines or may be they think being Indians are not worth the hassle as they consider American to be rich by default
So I would suggest...don't venture out too deep into Manila..stay put in main metro areas and you will be fine..