Curing loneliness by "going out and being social"?! WTF is Leo Gura smoking?!

[Winston]

At the end of this 3 hour video on Solipsism, Leo Gura, a self improvement coach, says that if you are lonely, then all you have to do is to "take action and go out and be social and go to clubs and meet people". WTF is he smoking?! Why do many dumb people still say that?! Isn't that way outdated?! Also check out his dumb self improvement website: www.actualized.org. Doesn't it look full of useless cliches? What's the appeal of it? His forum guys sound kinda dumb too. See here: https://www.actualized.org/forum/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RD5NZuyAhR0

My reply to him in the comments section:

Regarding your video on Solipsism where you claim that one can cure loneliness by "going out and being social":

Leo, no offense but have you been living under a cave?! The "go out and make friends" cliche to cure loneliness is way outdated. It might have worked in the 70s or early 80s, but definitely not today. In the late 80s Americans became closed off and antisocial and cliquish and do not talk to strangers unless it's business related. That's obvious. Just go outside and see. Go to a club, as you suggested, and you will see that everyone will ignore you, because no one talks to single men who are alone, they are seen as creeps. They will only talk to you if you are a decent looking female.

People are NOT open today in the US. You would have to go to Europe or Mexico or Latin America to find people still open and social with strangers. Or you can go to small town America to find friendly strangers, but the cities and suburbs are totally cliquish and closed off and antisocial. Have you been living under a cave? It's been like this since the late 80s and early 90s. I am very outgoing but it does no good to "go out and be social" in America. Only a low IQ American would say that. I thought you're supposed to be intellectual?

Furthermore, if one is lonely it is not because there is no one around to talk to. It is because one cannot CONNECT or RESONATE with people around him. Haven't you seen those quotes and memes about loneliness from great men like Carl Jung which say that loneliness is not about being around other people, but about being unable to express oneself and be oneself? Go to Google Images and type in "loneliness quotes" or "loneliness memes" and you will see them. What are you smoking man? Seriously. You must live in some type of movie if you think one can cure loneliness by simply "going out and being social". If you think it's that easy, you go out and try it. lol. You're in for a rude awakening. You don't seem to be in reality at all. No offense. But a spade is a spade.

[Winston]

Here's what Leo Gura looks like. What do you think? Does he look like someone who can meet people just by "going out and being social"? lol. Does he look authentic or like a new age con man?

[kangarunner]

My reply to him in the comments section:

Regarding your video on Solipsism where you claim that one can cure loneliness by "going out and being social":

Leo, no offense but have you been living under a cave?! The "go out and make friends" cliche to cure loneliness is way outdated. It might have worked in the 70s or early 80s, but definitely not today. In the late 80s Americans became closed off and antisocial and cliquish and do not talk to strangers unless it's business related. That's obvious. Just go outside and see. Go to a club, as you suggested, and you will see that everyone will ignore you, because no one talks to single men who are alone, they are seen as creeps. They will only talk to you if you are a decent looking female.

People are NOT open today in the US. You would have to go to Europe or Mexico or Latin America to find people still open and social with strangers. Or you can go to small town America to find friendly strangers, but the cities and suburbs are totally cliquish and closed off and antisocial. Have you been living under a cave? It's been like this since the late 80s and early 90s. I am very outgoing but it does no good to "go out and be social" in America. Only a low IQ American would say that. I thought you're supposed to be intellectual?

Furthermore, if one is lonely it is not because there is no one around to talk to. It is because one cannot CONNECT or RESONATE with people around him. Haven't you seen those quotes and memes about loneliness from great men like Carl Jung which say that loneliness is not about being around other people, but about being unable to express oneself and be oneself? Go to Google Images and type in "loneliness quotes" or "loneliness memes" and you will see them. What are you smoking man? Seriously. You must live in some type of movie if you think one can cure loneliness by simply "going out and being social". If you think it's that easy, you go out and try it. lol. You're in for a rude awakening. You don't seem to be in reality at all. No offense. But a spade is a spade.

@Winston You have it wrong. You assume that people are social for the sake of being social. Incorrect. People are social for the sake of an association or collaboration with someone that will benefit them. Remember the US is a competition matrix. Unlike yourself, most people have to work for a living to make ends meet. Therefore, since time is limited, they can only associate with others who will benefit them in some way.

[kangarunner]

@Winston YOU DUMBASS. You just don't get it do you??? It's like you're living inside your own little, egocentric world where the only person who matters is Winston.

YOU HAVE SELECTIVE ATTENTION. You notice nothing outside of yourself.

Look at these videos. Can't you see that people are openly social with each other. He literally goes up to strangers and starts chatting...

[Winston]

Any video can be staged dummy. If you can approach girls like that how come I don't ever see anyone doing it? Even in Las Vegas no guys ever do cold approach. If it was doable then guys would be doing it. If they are not, then that speaks volumes. All you have to do is go out and see for yourself. Anyone can.

[kangarunner]

Any video can be staged dummy. If you can approach girls like that how come I don't ever see anyone doing it? Even in Las Vegas no guys ever do cold approach. If it was doable then guys would be doing it. If they are not, then that speaks volumes. All you have to do is go out and see for yourself. Anyone can.

Did you even watch the video??? You didn't! Did you! Exactly, because you only focus on your own problems from your own perspective and no one else's!!!

A worthless counter-argument. That channel has hundreds of videos of approaching strangers. Nothing is staged. As always it's all about your perspective.

Because if you actually faced the truth, then you would feel embarassed and that there's something wrong with YOU. And you don't want that. You don't want to put in the effort to be work and be useful. The truth is that people are not social for the sake of being social. They are social for the sake of some sort of collaboration or benefit from association.

[Winston]

Any video can be staged dummy. If you can approach girls like that how come I don't ever see anyone doing it? Even in Las Vegas no guys ever do cold approach. If it was doable then guys would be doing it. If they are not, then that speaks volumes. All you have to do is go out and see for yourself. Anyone can.

Did you even watch the video??? You didn't! Did you! Exactly, because you only focus on your own problems from your own perspective and no one else's!!!

A worthless counter-argument. That channel has hundreds of videos of approaching strangers. Nothing is staged. As always it's all about your perspective.

Because if you actually faced the truth, then you would feel embarassed and that there's something wrong with YOU. And you don't want that. You don't want to put in the effort to be work and be useful. The truth is that people are not social for the sake of being social. They are social for the sake of some sort of collaboration or benefit from association.

No because I don't waste my time on BS and you aren't making any valid points to consider. How do you know those videos aren't staged? Because he said so? Why are you so gullible? You have no critical thinking skills.

Of course people don't talk to you unless they need something. So you agree with me. So why then did Leo Gura say that the cure for loneliness was to go out and meet people?

How can the problem be me? I am very social and outgoing. You are just a victim blaming bullshitter.

Also, even if you go out and meet people or chat up girls, like in those videos, so what? It doesn't go anywhere. Anyone can make some small talk. But if there's NO RESONANCE OR CONNECTION then it goes nowhere and does NOT CURE LONELINESS as Leo Gura falsely claimed. Do you get the point???????

Why didn't YOU go out in Tennessee and "be social" since people in America are open and social right? lol

[69ixine]

Winston,I make friends wherever I go.I have people come talk to me on the street.

Everyone's experience is different.

What you should do is find a hobby to meet people.Or Volunteer work,where people are of a more energetically higher persona.

Avoid food banks,I worked at one for free for 6 months and people were nice first but became wierd and they had a superiority complex to those they were helping.

funny story,I had to dump some rotten food in the trash,and this old racist white lady said 'you moroccans are so ungrateful,throwing food away'lol

[69ixine]

@Winston get into shape and use pheromones.

You complain,complain,complain but don't do anything to change your situation.

[Lucas88]

Furthermore, if one is lonely it is not because there is no one around to talk to. It is because one cannot CONNECT or RESONATE with people around him.

I can relate to this. I could go out to a pub or a bar in my hometown and talk to the common mundies there about football, drinking beer and other mundane stuff but not feel any real connection to them due to a lack of resonance. In order to feel socially satisfied, I have to have interactions with people who are suitable for me – people who have greater depth of soul and have more transcendental interests such as philosophy and occultism. Otherwise I just get bored of people's mundane conversations and feel out of place among common boozed-up peasants anyway.

I could never meet many people with depth of soul and deep topics of conversation in my bumkin hometown except for Pixel--Dude. I made way more friends with whom I resonated in Valencia, Spain. I had to change my location to meet suitable people at any significant frequency.

[galii]

At the end of this 3 hour video on Solipsism, Leo Gura, a self improvement coach, says that if you are lonely, then all you have to do is to "take action and go out and be social and go to clubs and meet people". WTF is he smoking?! Why do many dumb people still say that?! Isn't that way outdated?! Also check out his dumb self improvement website: www.actualized.org. Doesn't it look full of useless cliches? What's the appeal of it? His forum guys sound kinda dumb too. See here: https://www.actualized.org/forum/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RD5NZuyAhR0

My reply to him in the comments section:

Regarding your video on Solipsism where you claim that one can cure loneliness by "going out and being social":

Leo, no offense but have you been living under a cave?! The "go out and make friends" cliche to cure loneliness is way outdated. It might have worked in the 70s or early 80s, but definitely not today. In the late 80s Americans became closed off and antisocial and cliquish and do not talk to strangers unless it's business related. That's obvious. Just go outside and see. Go to a club, as you suggested, and you will see that everyone will ignore you, because no one talks to single men who are alone, they are seen as creeps. They will only talk to you if you are a decent looking female.

People are NOT open today in the US. You would have to go to Europe or Mexico or Latin America to find people still open and social with strangers. Or you can go to small town America to find friendly strangers, but the cities and suburbs are totally cliquish and closed off and antisocial. Have you been living under a cave? It's been like this since the late 80s and early 90s. I am very outgoing but it does no good to "go out and be social" in America. Only a low IQ American would say that. I thought you're supposed to be intellectual?

Furthermore, if one is lonely it is not because there is no one around to talk to. It is because one cannot CONNECT or RESONATE with people around him. Haven't you seen those quotes and memes about loneliness from great men like Carl Jung which say that loneliness is not about being around other people, but about being unable to express oneself and be oneself? Go to Google Images and type in "loneliness quotes" or "loneliness memes" and you will see them. What are you smoking man? Seriously. You must live in some type of movie if you think one can cure loneliness by simply "going out and being social". If you think it's that easy, you go out and try it. lol. You're in for a rude awakening. You don't seem to be in reality at all. No offense. But a spade is a spade.

You have a point but on the other hand you did not even try it. I mean with trying to do self improvement and then be social. So you can't know if it works or how much it works. Though it might be to late anyway.

Btw why don't you take psychedelics? It is not much work like self improvement. Maybe you might become a happy person who makes people happy. I would like to take some when I have the chance.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxDiWKAe91E
Leo Gura admits he was delusional - The final chapter of Adeptus vs Actualized.org?

[Lucas88]

Btw why don't you take psychedelics? It is not much work like self improvement. Maybe you might become a happy person who makes people happy. I would like to take some when I have the chance.

You live in Germany, right? You could probably order psilocybin truffles from Holland without problems. Pixel--Dude and I used to order them from a company called Wholecelium. They deliver throughout the EU.

Some of the stronger truffles like Alien and Qubit are potent enough to send you into a deep trance and give you a deep psychedelic experience. In my opinion, it's best just to throw yourself in at the deep end with shrooms/truffles. That's what Pixel--Dude and I did.

I used to micro-dose on shrooms too for social encounters. They generally made me feel more open and sociable but one day I micro-dosed on them before a social event and they had a paradoxical effect and so I stopped taking them for that purpose.

Taking shrooms before social encounters can be beneficial in my experience. They help you relax and enter a flow state and you gain the ability to just go with the flow and connect with others. I guess that's why they're called "magic". Lol!

[galii]

Btw why don't you take psychedelics? It is not much work like self improvement. Maybe you might become a happy person who makes people happy. I would like to take some when I have the chance.

You live in Germany, right? You could probably order psilocybin truffles from Holland without problems. Pixel--Dude and I used to order them from a company called Wholecelium. They deliver throughout the EU.

Some of the stronger truffles like Alien and Qubit are potent enough to send you into a deep trance and give you a deep psychedelic experience. In my opinion, it's best just to throw yourself in at the deep end with shrooms/truffles. That's what Pixel--Dude and I did.

I used to micro-dose on shrooms too for social encounters. They generally made me feel more open and sociable but one day I micro-dosed on them before a social event and they had a paradoxical effect and so I stopped taking them for that purpose.

Taking shrooms before social encounters can be beneficial in my experience. They help you relax and enter a flow state and you gain the ability to just go with the flow and connect with others. I guess that's why they're called "magic". Lol!

Thanks Lucas. I live in Turkey I am not shure if and when I will go to Germany. I would also be interested in MDMA.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/CH0-7E-ePow
Mormons and MDMA

[kangarunner]

How can the problem be me? I am very social and outgoing. You are just a victim blaming bullshitter.

I agree. When I met you in Las Vegas in 2022 you were a real friendly and nice person to be around.

[Preacher]

At the end of this 3 hour video on Solipsism, Leo Gura, a self improvement coach, says that if you are lonely, then all you have to do is to "take action and go out and be social and go to clubs and meet people". WTF is he smoking?! Why do many dumb people still say that?! Isn't that way outdated?! Also check out his dumb self improvement website: www.actualized.org. Doesn't it look full of useless cliches? What's the appeal of it? His forum guys sound kinda dumb too. See here: https://www.actualized.org/forum/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RD5NZuyAhR0

My reply to him in the comments section:

Regarding your video on Solipsism where you claim that one can cure loneliness by "going out and being social":

Leo, no offense but have you been living under a cave?! The "go out and make friends" cliche to cure loneliness is way outdated. It might have worked in the 70s or early 80s, but definitely not today. In the late 80s Americans became closed off and antisocial and cliquish and do not talk to strangers unless it's business related. That's obvious. Just go outside and see. Go to a club, as you suggested, and you will see that everyone will ignore you, because no one talks to single men who are alone, they are seen as creeps. They will only talk to you if you are a decent looking female.

People are NOT open today in the US. You would have to go to Europe or Mexico or Latin America to find people still open and social with strangers. Or you can go to small town America to find friendly strangers, but the cities and suburbs are totally cliquish and closed off and antisocial. Have you been living under a cave? It's been like this since the late 80s and early 90s. I am very outgoing but it does no good to "go out and be social" in America. Only a low IQ American would say that. I thought you're supposed to be intellectual?

Furthermore, if one is lonely it is not because there is no one around to talk to. It is because one cannot CONNECT or RESONATE with people around him. Haven't you seen those quotes and memes about loneliness from great men like Carl Jung which say that loneliness is not about being around other people, but about being unable to express oneself and be oneself? Go to Google Images and type in "loneliness quotes" or "loneliness memes" and you will see them. What are you smoking man? Seriously. You must live in some type of movie if you think one can cure loneliness by simply "going out and being social". If you think it's that easy, you go out and try it. lol. You're in for a rude awakening. You don't seem to be in reality at all. No offense. But a spade is a spade.

It's happening like that worldwide! Even the Bible said that in the end days, people would become toxic, selfish, soulless, disconnected, proud, unforgiving, full of blasphemy, violence, and default hate, and caring about nobody but themselves. The Bible clearly said, it will be a repeat of the days of Noah before the Flood. The Great Tribulation is upon the world. And it will only get worse as time goes on.