I also think "cold approaching" is a big waste of time and only hurts your self confidence (because of all the rejections you will get). I only approach women at bars and clubs and have forgotten "day game" as it yields poor results.Sexter wrote:think about this. As an ex-PUA myself, the reason why PUA has such as negative stigma is because of feminism. Feminism shows that if a guy appraoches a woman, he is a "PIG" who just "wants to get laid". When in reality, we just want companions. Feminism is a major reason why cold approach doesn't work in america. It has a negative stigma to it because feminists view us as "pigs" who just want to get laid or "creeps" because social conditioning in the mass media portray us men as "creeps" if you approach.
you can find many of winston's articles supporting this. It's actually true. As a guy who approached 5,000 women and have "nothing to show for" Cold approaching in america is A big waste of time. If you don't mind getting rejected or getting flaky numbers, then GO AHEAD.
Funny thing is, in eastern Europe and Russia "day game" would work a lot better than bars and nightclubs would. Here in America it's just the opposite, day game = waste of time, bars and clubs are the only places in the US were women are open to meeting men.