During my first encounters with women in Mexico, Mexican women would wonder what makes me "tÃmido" (shy) and have a lot of "verguenza" (be really embarrassed) around them. They could tell something was holding me back, and that I was being exceptionally careful and reserved in showing interest. During my first conversations with my first Mexican gf, she wondered why I was so reluctant to compliment her and tell her my feelings towards her.
Reason?
What OTB had said all along.
OTB wrote:To get right to it, this so called culture we live in has taught us to suppress our instinctual desires when it comes to meeting women. It has taught us to act emotionless and rigid when we see a woman that we would like to approach or get to know.
We've learned to be emotionless, rigid, and cold when it comes to showing attraction for a woman which should be the complete opposite.
So how you fix this when you're abroad? Watch how men and women in foreign countries interact with and court each other. Then do it yourself. Monkey see, monkey do.