Winston wrote:It does not bring nothing but emptiness. That's a dismal way to look at it. If you monger right, it brings pleasure, satisfaction and variety, even if only temporarily. But alas, everything is temporary. That's life. Isn't it better to enjoy it than not to? Some of my mongering sexual experiences were better than my relationship ones. If you find the right one in SE Asia, she can put you on cloud 9 too, for an out of this world experience. These are experiences you would never trade for anything.
I've had some great sex with hookers. I even found a white chick who barebacked as long as you wanted for the price of a videogame. She was a "green and clean" escort!

Personally, I wish that I never had those experiences. But I'm glad that I did, they made me realize how deadly giving in to your primitive desires can be.
Winston wrote:On the other hand, if you get married, most likely you will stop having sex after a while when you get sick of banging the same person everyday. Then you will fall into a "sexless life" routine. What then? You can't have another woman without cheating on your wife. So what then? You're screwed aren't you?
It depends on who you marry and how quickly. If you just keep giving, people are gonna walk on you.
Winston wrote:If "variety is the spice of life" then doesn't that apply to sexual experiences too? Why is it that variety in travel, food, and culture is ok, but not in sex?
My opinion is based on how sex actually works, and my experiences having sex with people. I have no need to settle sexual urges. It's a luxury I can afford not to have now.
Winston wrote:Everything has its pluses and minuses, but you act as if all mongering only has minuses. That's definitely not true at all.
No, frequent sex has more minuses than pluses. Most of you think that sex has only a plus, pleasure and a pro, babies. But it carries way more cons than pros. And Winston, I can tell how sex has affected you, just by your posting here. Usually, people with low energy lost it from frequent sex.
The only thing I hate about mongers is their tendency to spoil the purer fruit. If they just messed with like people(whores for whores), then I wouldn't mind them personally. I also have a beef with this norwegian man-whore who messed with a good girl I liked a while back, before I met her. He was deceitful, ugly and stupid. Classic westerner.