Jeremy wrote:I used to feel the same way. But I can assure you if you were pulling Asian girls who look and f**k like this, you'd be perfectly content:
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Jeremy, I stand by my convictions. Besides, it's her OUTSIDE the bedroom attitude you're gonna have to deal with. You have no idea what that girl in the video is REALLY like outside the bedroom.
I've found Asian women while IN THEIR NATIVE COUNTRY, have to behave a certain way, i.e., properly respectful and compliant to the man. They also have to show they know how to take care of the man, otherwise they lose face....in their country. You take them to the USA where women don't have to respect men and they'll quickly adopt that attitude.
For example. Filipinas, while they're in the Philippines, don't believe in divorce. But take them to the USA where divorce is perfectly acceptable and they won't hesitate to divorce you once they get their green cards and drain your assets.
Bringing your wife back to the US is a complete myth because all you hear about is the other people that have failed. You suppose to learn from failure not take it as gospel or as proof that your opinion is made by somebody else's misfortune.
As the saying goes, get excellent customer service or any other positive experience, you hear crickets.
Get shafted, terrible service, taken to the cleaners, its the worst thing ever and you can't wait to tell others.
I don't think it's human nature, I think its a reaction to adversity in life, people seldom want to experience disappointment alone = Misery Loves Company.
Say your life is great and your wife is perfect and people will dismiss that like its a fantasy. How can you even know what a functional, loving relationship looks like, if all you're surrounded by is dysfunction and a child of divorce?
Sort of like asking a divorced guy for marriage advice, nobody in their right mind would actually do that, but a idiot is born every minute.
A while back a poster told the story of his marriage to a Russian woman who was from the war-torn Caucasus region. Everything seemed okay, he was a Navy vet. About a decade into the marriage, she had educated herself and went to work for one of the major bio-tech companies. Too him at least, she asked him for a divorce out of the clear blue sky.
Now what I have learned over the year is that men don't pay attention to hardly anything in a relationship. That is, until the sex stops... As far as I understood about this guy's story is that the sex didn't stop, so there was no cause for concern from his POV. They had a good life, both worked, had children, two cars and house.
Who knows what really caused her to ask for a divorce, but a doubting Thomas would say "Oh she got her education, thought she didn't need him anymore and wanted an upgrade".
That could be true, in fact I will go as far as saying that might be the case. Where did he make his error? Getting a woman with a traumatic past and from object poverty = White Knight Syndrome
He even said that possibly could have been his mistake. I say it was, as I keep saying; Lots of guys get C grade women and live happily ever after, but like that bargain Chinese knock off product you bought, sometimes that works out and it's a pleasant surprise, but when it doesn't work out well, you curse it until the cows come home and will tell anybody that will listen.
You date/marry a poverty stricken, poorly educated woman at your own peril.
But the most common mistake I see from men that end up failing is that he was never sure how the woman felt about him.
Sure our society can have a negative influence on people, but just like a good chunk of America doesn't buy into it, the same goes for most women that have agreed to be your wife and live with you in your home country.