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Trend of Black Women and White Men Pairing Up.

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Have you noticed this? It seems like more and more of milder guys have been pairing up with African American women. I have been noticing this on my feed as well as IRL (I live in a smaller town, but I am starting to see more). Any one else realize this trend?
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I dunno, black women, at least ones not raised in the ghetto/hood, etc, who aren't 300lbs, actually tend to be pretty nice and easy to talk to. At least for me I've gotten some interest from black women here, maybe more interest than white women. Black women, and black people in general are more open, generally more sociable, and for flirting, tend to flirt more openly/in an easier to read manner. As a generality, try this. Go walk around in a store or whatever and go talk to someone, say hi or whatever, and see what response you get back. Generally black people are more interested in actually talking at least a little in detail beyond "hi", whereas whites aren't and whites tend to have a everyone in their own little bubble mentality.

I'm not saying every black person in USA is great, and black culture for the most part tends to be fairly bad, but just saying do not write them off entirely as friends or lovers. Also, of note, it's quite possible many of the blacks you see are not fully black either, and may have a white parent, but are just relatively dark. Mixed race people especially have a hard time and don't feel they belong with either race, or may even say "man I hate black people, f**k them!" (while looking 100% black) and tend to try to gravitate towards whites and other races more and entirely ignore black people and have no involvement with black people at all beyond their own family.

I dunno, I'm not one to bash interracial or cultural relationships, as this board is basically about them. If they're happy they're happy.
http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/open-fo ... y-divorce/
Check that out. White husband and black wife is actually statistically 44% less likely to divorce than white wife/white husband.
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There are more and more black women dating and marrying white men.

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I been seeing more of this lately in NYC...more Asian guys with non-Asian girls...and yes more black women with non-black men.

Why? For black women my theory is that they got sick of waiting for decent black men so decided to date out side the race. I hear that too many black men don't take responsibility.
FOr Asian men I think it's mostly the young generation that are dating more inter-racial. I think it's combination of k pop influence and Asian drama influence. Plus the next generation of Asian American guys look taller and better than the previous generation. I also notice Asian American girls competing for Asian men attention but this only applies for the younger guys under 25 for example.

People in my generation is different matter (close to 40 years).
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onethousandknives wrote:I dunno, black women, at least ones not raised in the ghetto/hood, etc, who aren't 300lbs, actually tend to be pretty nice and easy to talk to. At least for me I've gotten some interest from black women here, maybe more interest than white women. Black women, and black people in general are more open, generally more sociable, and for flirting, tend to flirt more openly/in an easier to read manner. As a generality, try this. Go walk around in a store or whatever and go talk to someone, say hi or whatever, and see what response you get back. Generally black people are more interested in actually talking at least a little in detail beyond "hi", whereas whites aren't and whites tend to have a everyone in their own little bubble mentality.

I'm not saying every black person in USA is great, and black culture for the most part tends to be fairly bad, but just saying do not write them off entirely as friends or lovers. Also, of note, it's quite possible many of the blacks you see are not fully black either, and may have a white parent, but are just relatively dark. Mixed race people especially have a hard time and don't feel they belong with either race, or may even say "man I hate black people, f**k them!" (while looking 100% black) and tend to try to gravitate towards whites and other races more and entirely ignore black people and have no involvement with black people at all beyond their own family.

I dunno, I'm not one to bash interracial or cultural relationships, as this board is basically about them. If they're happy they're happy.
http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/open-fo ... y-divorce/
Check that out. White husband and black wife is actually statistically 44% less likely to divorce than white wife/white husband.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Please let me correct your myopic-minded ignorance here. What constitutes looking a 100 percent Black and he/she is Mixed? You don't make sense, for one. Secondly, you have to be an American because your ignorance shows that you aren't ascertaining the difference between a Mixed race person with Sub-Saharan/West African heritage to "looking 100 percent Black". The two aren't the same; you have to be a North American. Please stay in the tourist districts, the PHilippines, or just stay in the Anglosphere. Your gene pool needs to nefariously-suffer so upstanding, virtuous people can come abound.
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chanta76 wrote:I been seeing more of this lately in NYC...more Asian guys with non-Asian girls...and yes more black women with non-black men.

Why? For black women my theory is that they got sick of waiting for decent black men so decided to date out side the race. I hear that too many black men don't take responsibility.
FOr Asian men I think it's mostly the young generation that are dating more inter-racial. I think it's combination of k pop influence and Asian drama influence. Plus the next generation of Asian American guys look taller and better than the previous generation. I also notice Asian American girls competing for Asian men attention but this only applies for the younger guys under 25 for example.

People in my generation is different matter (close to 40 years).
You really don't understand how feminism had reared its ugly head in what used to be the Black American community.
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E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
onethousandknives wrote:I dunno, black women, at least ones not raised in the ghetto/hood, etc, who aren't 300lbs, actually tend to be pretty nice and easy to talk to. At least for me I've gotten some interest from black women here, maybe more interest than white women. Black women, and black people in general are more open, generally more sociable, and for flirting, tend to flirt more openly/in an easier to read manner. As a generality, try this. Go walk around in a store or whatever and go talk to someone, say hi or whatever, and see what response you get back. Generally black people are more interested in actually talking at least a little in detail beyond "hi", whereas whites aren't and whites tend to have a everyone in their own little bubble mentality.

I'm not saying every black person in USA is great, and black culture for the most part tends to be fairly bad, but just saying do not write them off entirely as friends or lovers. Also, of note, it's quite possible many of the blacks you see are not fully black either, and may have a white parent, but are just relatively dark. Mixed race people especially have a hard time and don't feel they belong with either race, or may even say "man I hate black people, f**k them!" (while looking 100% black) and tend to try to gravitate towards whites and other races more and entirely ignore black people and have no involvement with black people at all beyond their own family.

I dunno, I'm not one to bash interracial or cultural relationships, as this board is basically about them. If they're happy they're happy.
http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/open-fo ... y-divorce/
Check that out. White husband and black wife is actually statistically 44% less likely to divorce than white wife/white husband.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Please let me correct your myopic-minded ignorance here. What constitutes looking a 100 percent Black and he/she is Mixed? You don't make sense, for one. Secondly, you have to be an American because your ignorance shows that you aren't ascertaining the difference between a Mixed race person with Sub-Saharan/West African heritage to "looking 100 percent Black". The two aren't the same; you have to be a North American. Please stay in the tourist districts, the PHilippines, or just stay in the Anglosphere. Your gene pool needs to nefariously-suffer so upstanding, virtuous people can come abound.
No need to be so harsh. He's ignorant, not stupid. Don't forget that most -- yes, most people think that blacks only come in dark and "extra-crispy". You know the whole colourism thing going on. Not a lot of people know that blacks have the greatest skin diversity out of all the human races. I've seen racists (Stormfront, Vanguard) talk about how Ehtiopians are "dark-skinned Caucasians" just because they aren't super dark or have coarse hair. I understand where you're coming from, but like I said, he's ignorant. I don't think he's being malicious with what he said. Just educate him.
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Eightfold Path wrote:
E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
onethousandknives wrote:I dunno, black women, at least ones not raised in the ghetto/hood, etc, who aren't 300lbs, actually tend to be pretty nice and easy to talk to. At least for me I've gotten some interest from black women here, maybe more interest than white women. Black women, and black people in general are more open, generally more sociable, and for flirting, tend to flirt more openly/in an easier to read manner. As a generality, try this. Go walk around in a store or whatever and go talk to someone, say hi or whatever, and see what response you get back. Generally black people are more interested in actually talking at least a little in detail beyond "hi", whereas whites aren't and whites tend to have a everyone in their own little bubble mentality.

I'm not saying every black person in USA is great, and black culture for the most part tends to be fairly bad, but just saying do not write them off entirely as friends or lovers. Also, of note, it's quite possible many of the blacks you see are not fully black either, and may have a white parent, but are just relatively dark. Mixed race people especially have a hard time and don't feel they belong with either race, or may even say "man I hate black people, f**k them!" (while looking 100% black) and tend to try to gravitate towards whites and other races more and entirely ignore black people and have no involvement with black people at all beyond their own family.

I dunno, I'm not one to bash interracial or cultural relationships, as this board is basically about them. If they're happy they're happy.
http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/open-fo ... y-divorce/
Check that out. White husband and black wife is actually statistically 44% less likely to divorce than white wife/white husband.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Please let me correct your myopic-minded ignorance here. What constitutes looking a 100 percent Black and he/she is Mixed? You don't make sense, for one. Secondly, you have to be an American because your ignorance shows that you aren't ascertaining the difference between a Mixed race person with Sub-Saharan/West African heritage to "looking 100 percent Black". The two aren't the same; you have to be a North American. Please stay in the tourist districts, the PHilippines, or just stay in the Anglosphere. Your gene pool needs to nefariously-suffer so upstanding, virtuous people can come abound.
No need to be so harsh. He's ignorant, not stupid. Don't forget that most -- yes, most people think that blacks only come in dark and "extra-crispy". You know the whole colourism thing going on. Not a lot of people know that blacks have the greatest skin diversity out of all the human races. I've seen racists (Stormfront, Vanguard) talk about how Ehtiopians are "dark-skinned Caucasians" just because they aren't super dark or have coarse hair. I understand where you're coming from, but like I said, he's ignorant. I don't think he's being malicious with what he said. Just educate him.
I understand. Thanks. However, I'd like to say that the only Blacks that come in different skin colors are the regular ones, the ones with vilitigo, and the albino Blacks. Other than that, those are the only Blacks that exist. If he's "light skinned", he's Mixed. End of story. That's why there are labels called quadroon, octoroon, and bi-racial Mixed people.
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jamesbond wrote:There are more and more black women dating and marrying white men.

A lot of Black men are criticizing Black women who inter-racially date in the comments section. Same with another video I saw of a White women encouraging other White women to date Black and Asian men. Lot's of angry White men commenting on those videos, too. And some Asian men are the same way.

I guess it's a natural feeling for any race of man to feel 'threatened' by 'others' taking 'their' women. You'll see David Duke and Louis Farrakhan talking about this,too. Seems like both of them see interraical dating as a threat to their race.
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E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
Eightfold Path wrote:
E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
onethousandknives wrote:I dunno, black women, at least ones not raised in the ghetto/hood, etc, who aren't 300lbs, actually tend to be pretty nice and easy to talk to. At least for me I've gotten some interest from black women here, maybe more interest than white women. Black women, and black people in general are more open, generally more sociable, and for flirting, tend to flirt more openly/in an easier to read manner. As a generality, try this. Go walk around in a store or whatever and go talk to someone, say hi or whatever, and see what response you get back. Generally black people are more interested in actually talking at least a little in detail beyond "hi", whereas whites aren't and whites tend to have a everyone in their own little bubble mentality.

I'm not saying every black person in USA is great, and black culture for the most part tends to be fairly bad, but just saying do not write them off entirely as friends or lovers. Also, of note, it's quite possible many of the blacks you see are not fully black either, and may have a white parent, but are just relatively dark. Mixed race people especially have a hard time and don't feel they belong with either race, or may even say "man I hate black people, f**k them!" (while looking 100% black) and tend to try to gravitate towards whites and other races more and entirely ignore black people and have no involvement with black people at all beyond their own family.

I dunno, I'm not one to bash interracial or cultural relationships, as this board is basically about them. If they're happy they're happy.
http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/open-fo ... y-divorce/
Check that out. White husband and black wife is actually statistically 44% less likely to divorce than white wife/white husband.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Please let me correct your myopic-minded ignorance here. What constitutes looking a 100 percent Black and he/she is Mixed? You don't make sense, for one. Secondly, you have to be an American because your ignorance shows that you aren't ascertaining the difference between a Mixed race person with Sub-Saharan/West African heritage to "looking 100 percent Black". The two aren't the same; you have to be a North American. Please stay in the tourist districts, the PHilippines, or just stay in the Anglosphere. Your gene pool needs to nefariously-suffer so upstanding, virtuous people can come abound.
No need to be so harsh. He's ignorant, not stupid. Don't forget that most -- yes, most people think that blacks only come in dark and "extra-crispy". You know the whole colourism thing going on. Not a lot of people know that blacks have the greatest skin diversity out of all the human races. I've seen racists (Stormfront, Vanguard) talk about how Ehtiopians are "dark-skinned Caucasians" just because they aren't super dark or have coarse hair. I understand where you're coming from, but like I said, he's ignorant. I don't think he's being malicious with what he said. Just educate him.
I understand. Thanks. However, I'd like to say that the only Blacks that come in different skin colors are the regular ones, the ones with vilitigo, and the albino Blacks. Other than that, those are the only Blacks that exist. If he's "light skinned", he's Mixed. End of story. That's why there are labels called quadroon, octoroon, and bi-racial Mixed people.
Okay. That's your opinion. Either way, if that's how you feel, don't blow your top at others for their views. It's odd.
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onethousandknives wrote: http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/open-fo ... y-divorce/

Check that out. White husband and black wife is actually statistically 44% less likely to divorce than white wife/white husband.
That's interesting that couples where the woman is black and the man is white is 44% less likely to divorce than couples where the man is white and the woman is white.
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This has been a "Trend" in america since the 1600s. Any blacklash in this country against a WM/BW couple is a spit in the harbor compared to the backlash against a BM/WW pairing. This matter is hardly a two way street by any stretch of the imagination. Secondly the interest in BW is miniscule compared to the overwelhming interest in asian women. Anyone who denies this is gaming.
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Eightfold Path wrote:
E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
Eightfold Path wrote:
E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
onethousandknives wrote:I dunno, black women, at least ones not raised in the ghetto/hood, etc, who aren't 300lbs, actually tend to be pretty nice and easy to talk to. At least for me I've gotten some interest from black women here, maybe more interest than white women. Black women, and black people in general are more open, generally more sociable, and for flirting, tend to flirt more openly/in an easier to read manner. As a generality, try this. Go walk around in a store or whatever and go talk to someone, say hi or whatever, and see what response you get back. Generally black people are more interested in actually talking at least a little in detail beyond "hi", whereas whites aren't and whites tend to have a everyone in their own little bubble mentality.

I'm not saying every black person in USA is great, and black culture for the most part tends to be fairly bad, but just saying do not write them off entirely as friends or lovers. Also, of note, it's quite possible many of the blacks you see are not fully black either, and may have a white parent, but are just relatively dark. Mixed race people especially have a hard time and don't feel they belong with either race, or may even say "man I hate black people, f**k them!" (while looking 100% black) and tend to try to gravitate towards whites and other races more and entirely ignore black people and have no involvement with black people at all beyond their own family.

I dunno, I'm not one to bash interracial or cultural relationships, as this board is basically about them. If they're happy they're happy.
http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/open-fo ... y-divorce/
Check that out. White husband and black wife is actually statistically 44% less likely to divorce than white wife/white husband.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Please let me correct your myopic-minded ignorance here. What constitutes looking a 100 percent Black and he/she is Mixed? You don't make sense, for one. Secondly, you have to be an American because your ignorance shows that you aren't ascertaining the difference between a Mixed race person with Sub-Saharan/West African heritage to "looking 100 percent Black". The two aren't the same; you have to be a North American. Please stay in the tourist districts, the PHilippines, or just stay in the Anglosphere. Your gene pool needs to nefariously-suffer so upstanding, virtuous people can come abound.
No need to be so harsh. He's ignorant, not stupid. Don't forget that most -- yes, most people think that blacks only come in dark and "extra-crispy". You know the whole colourism thing going on. Not a lot of people know that blacks have the greatest skin diversity out of all the human races. I've seen racists (Stormfront, Vanguard) talk about how Ehtiopians are "dark-skinned Caucasians" just because they aren't super dark or have coarse hair. I understand where you're coming from, but like I said, he's ignorant. I don't think he's being malicious with what he said. Just educate him.
I understand. Thanks. However, I'd like to say that the only Blacks that come in different skin colors are the regular ones, the ones with vilitigo, and the albino Blacks. Other than that, those are the only Blacks that exist. If he's "light skinned", he's Mixed. End of story. That's why there are labels called quadroon, octoroon, and bi-racial Mixed people.
Okay. That's your opinion. Either way, if that's how you feel, don't blow your top at others for their views. It's odd.
How long have you been living in the USA?
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Izzary, I'm aware that black people look different, especially in Africa. For example, Somalis and Ethiopians look entirely different from someone Cameroon. I said it that way because that was the way the average American perceives it, where the average American perceives it as anyone past Drake's shade of skin is full black.

Yes, I am American, but I believe it is you who is more American than me, if we're using it as an insult, as you're doing the very American thing of blowing the hell up at any amount of "cultural insensitivity" by me saying someone looks more black (notice I did not say African, so my statement is still technically correct.)

But whatever.
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zacb wrote:Have you noticed this? It seems like more and more of milder guys have been pairing up with African American women. I have been noticing this on my feed as well as IRL (I live in a smaller town, but I am starting to see more). Any one else realize this trend?
The real question is where are all the white women? They are hanging out with their girlfriends. I see white men with Asian, Hispanic, and Black women all the time. Soon white women will be totally out of the picture in the West. White women are basically asexual and married to their jobs :twisted:
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