Mercer wrote: ↑November 3rd, 2022, 2:59 pm
Outcast9428 wrote: ↑October 29th, 2022, 9:44 am
Mercer wrote: ↑October 29th, 2022, 7:26 am
It's really because of your privilege and luck, @Outcast9428. There are thousands of other men who will never get a woman simply due to being born with the wrong genetics while degenerate, gangbanging Chad and Tyrones will have harems of women. There are good men who end up as mentally ill, homeless incels on the streets of San Francisco every year due to a lifetime of horrible treatment and they come from all over the country so it's not just a San Francisco problem.
I’m starting to believe there is no real luck and that what we are calling luck is truly just God’s blessings. I know if I had been a degenerate, gangbanging Chad or Tyrone that my girlfriend would not have liked me at all. Your situation is probably a temporary one to much more of an extent then you believe it to be. Have you thought about finding a Mexican wife? It wouldn’t be very far and a lot of guys who are fed up with American or British/European women seem to like them.
Everything is luck. There is no fairness in this world. Some people get horrible diseases, mental illnesses, discrimination, etc. while privileged people are handed everything just for being born with the right genetics. You believe in the just world fallacy. It's really sad when privileged people rub their privilege in everyone else's face by saying how "blessed" they are when there are people who have had completely horrible lives due to circumstances out of their control and will never have a good life no matter how hard they try.
Mercer... I am not trying to rub anything in your face or gloat. You misunderstand why I am telling you about these things. I am telling you this, because I want you to know that you have a chance.
I completely understand depression, feeling anxiety, I understand being resentful towards the culture. Growing up, I never had more then one friend. For most years of my life up until I was 15 years old, I had zero friends. I did okay in my high school years, I did date one girl for about a month but it ended so quickly. Once I got to college, things went back to the way they were before. Back in college, I was so lonely that I felt this weird sense of pain manifest itself on my skin, I would hug my pillow and pretend it was a girl. Just to feel like I had something. In college, I was surrounded by skank/frat culture. Everything everywhere was just about hooking up and being as degenerate as possible. It was like a 1980s teen comedy in real life. But I was the character that people made fun of, because I was awkward, I was weird, I didn't understand social nuance, I was autistic, and nerdy. I just "didn't get it" I suppose. Trust me, I understand exactly where you are coming from. I know why you're so angry, why you're always so negative. You have a right to be, anybody who goes too long without the loving touch of a girl will feel that way. It is biology, it is nature's way of motivating us to find what makes us happy. To put us in so much suffering that we'll do anything to end it. Men have literally gone to war, blown themselves up, and risked their lives to make that pain go away.
But you don't have to do that. It takes time, but you absolutely can find a woman who is just perfect for you. I'm showing you that I made it, not to gloat, but to give you hope. I really really doubt that its your looks that are holding you back. I don't actually think my looks are what attracted my girlfriend to me. We were friends for two months and for 1.5 months, she said she didn't really feel anything sexual/romantic for me back then. Nowadays... My God. I don't feel like that should be possible if you interpret the world through the blackpill. I feel like the blackpill only explains how life works in leftist shitholes.
This girl has proven to me, without a shadow of a doubt, there are absolutely girls out there who will become extremely, and I do mean extremely attracted to you, mostly based on personality. A girl can love who you are so much, that your looks become insanely attractive to her. And it can be a good personality too. I'm not acting like an asshole chad at all. I'm being extremely chivalrous, gentlemanly, nice, traditional, and romantic towards her. And she is absolutely in love with it. She never shit-tests me, she doesn't have a single hint of masochism or the "its not sexy when a man is nice" type mentality in her.
Girls from the truly conservative world are not like that. Traditionally, conservatism has always been associated with strong moral principles. It tooks decades upon decades of left-wing brainwashing to convince a population that has, for centuries, believed that traditional values were the only morally correct way to live, that traditional values were actually something that made you immoral. And they had to do it with stupid propaganda too, basically saying "well the conservatives are racist, sexist, homophobic incels who hate freedom and on top of that have the audacity to be sanctimonious about it so they're actually more immoral then criminals and degenerates are."
They say this to hide from the fact that leftists and liberals are, practically by definition, people who are in love with themselves and therefore can never love another person. They are incapable of true love, and therefore, all of their relationships fail because they expect and demand independence from their partner while claiming to be in love. They won't commit to being exclusive with their partner, they always want the freedom to leave, to try another person... Because they don't fall in love with the person they are with, they are using them.
Leave San Francisco... Every land out there which is ruled by the left is bankrupt of love. Go anywhere. Go the Southern US, go to Mexico, go to Peru, go to the Philippines. Whatever floats your boat. But wherever you decide to go, don't give up and be either blackpilled or a degenerate. Don't give into the people telling you that a woman will never respect you if you give her your love. There are definitely girls out there who are like that, but figure out what the signs are of a girl like that, figure out what the signs are of a girl who really does crave love. And you will find your perfect girl. Just make sure you treat her well and let her how much her accepting you and loving you, means to you. People often come up with a laundry list of what "a traditional girl" means. But I think it really just boils down to one thing. A traditional girl wants to love and be loved more then anything. Its where her happiness comes from. A traditional girl finds her fulfillment and happiness in life from falling in love, and finding a man who genuinely loves her. And loving her means cherishing her and being a gentleman.