going to a swingers club is legit

[69ixine]

I've looked into this,and it seems the only way to consistently get laid in the usa,if you're decent looking beside using pheromones.

but you must wait to be approached by the woman.

they don't allow you approach women.

but for a decent to handsome guy this could be a fine way to get laid consistently,just buy a membership.

[MrMan]

Swingers means married couples who go out to look for partners for adultery.

Why would you want to commit adultery with another man's wife? That's evil and contributes to the further sluttification of women.

[Cornfed]

Realistically this option is only open to men who already have plenty of options, unless you want sex with old, ugly women.

[69ixine]

Swingers means married couples who go out to look for partners for adultery.

Why would you want to commit adultery with another man's wife? That's evil and contributes to the further sluttification of women.

why wouldn't I?Give me a good reason not to commit adultery with another man's wife ,since it's free sex without going on dates?

and white christians have let the 'sluttiness'of women go haywire since the start of 'dating'their cucked little social set up.it's either virgins or sluts.since all women are sluts,sleep with married women for free.it's easy.

I wouldn't reject a married woman for sex,it makes no sense,when sex is so scarce here in the west.

the practical ideal is to impregnate a married woman,and make the husband unwittingly raise your child.that's evolutionary success to be fully honest.

[69ixine]

Realistically this option is only open to men who already have plenty of options, unless you want sex with old, ugly women.

some of them are white MILFS.and your money,status doesn't matter in such a situation.

do you think handsome broke men have 'options'lol?

[Cornfed]

Realistically this option is only open to men who already have plenty of options, unless you want sex with old, ugly women.

some of them are white MILFS.and your money,status doesn't matter in such a situation.

do you think handsome broke men have 'options'lol?

Generally you have to come with a female or be invited, so that excludes incels. Yes, some handsome broke men have options.

[69ixine]

Realistically this option is only open to men who already have plenty of options, unless you want sex with old, ugly women.

some of them are white MILFS.and your money,status doesn't matter in such a situation.

do you think handsome broke men have 'options'lol?

Generally you have to come with a female or be invited, so that excludes incels. Yes, some handsome broke men have options.

maybe for pure swingers clubs,but not in 'lifestyle'clubs.or whatever they're called.

getting laid is hopeless in usa lol

[MrMan]

Swingers means married couples who go out to look for partners for adultery.

Why would you want to commit adultery with another man's wife? That's evil and contributes to the further sluttification of women.

why wouldn't I?Give me a good reason not to commit adultery with another man's wife ,since it's free sex without going on dates?

and white christians have let the 'sluttiness'of women go haywire since the start of 'dating'their cucked little social set up.it's either virgins or sluts.since all women are sluts,sleep with married women for free.it's easy.

I wouldn't reject a married woman for sex,it makes no sense,when sex is so scarce here in the west.

the practical ideal is to impregnate a married woman,and make the husband unwittingly raise your child.that's evolutionary success to be fully honest.

You treat having sex as if it is the highest moral good.

You also swing back and forth. You talk about being a pagan, then Muslim, then Christian. You want to marry an Ethiopian virgin, then an Indian indigenous virgin, then open a Christian orphanage. Now you write about having sex with married women.

What if you got yourself a sweet little virgin Ethiopian or Indian indigenous wife or a pretty little blind or orphan Indian girl, then posters from HA paid for her ticket to fly her off to a hotel somewhere and took turns performing all kinds of sex acts on her and one of them got her pregnant with a little bastard you thought was yours for you to raise? How would you like that?

Have you ever had a friend, relative, coworker, or acquaintance whose wife committed adultery? It is a really painful thing, and it is also a defiling thing for a wife to do.

[MrMan]

A much better alternative if you want to have more of a choice is simply to make a Fetlife profile and scout for swingers there and kinky girls. That way you can be more selective. Bonus points if you have a big dong and post pics of it or a particularly fit gym-honed body. Chances are you'll get some freaky sex in your area... you'll have to sift through some bad apples and uggos but you'll find plenty of good ones if you have certain characteristics they find appealing.

Are you speaking from experience? Do even freaky chicks respond to dong pics? I've never sent a picture of mine to anybody. I wonder if even the tattoo-covered fat sadomasochistic chicks go for it.

[69ixine]

Swingers means married couples who go out to look for partners for adultery.

Why would you want to commit adultery with another man's wife? That's evil and contributes to the further sluttification of women.

why wouldn't I?Give me a good reason not to commit adultery with another man's wife ,since it's free sex without going on dates?

and white christians have let the 'sluttiness'of women go haywire since the start of 'dating'their cucked little social set up.it's either virgins or sluts.since all women are sluts,sleep with married women for free.it's easy.

I wouldn't reject a married woman for sex,it makes no sense,when sex is so scarce here in the west.

the practical ideal is to impregnate a married woman,and make the husband unwittingly raise your child.that's evolutionary success to be fully honest.

You treat having sex as if it is the highest moral good.

You also swing back and forth. You talk about being a pagan, then Muslim, then Christian. You want to marry an Ethiopian virgin, then an Indian indigenous virgin, then open a Christian orphanage. Now you write about having sex with married women.

What if you got yourself a sweet little virgin Ethiopian or Indian indigenous wife or a pretty little blind or orphan Indian girl, then posters from HA paid for her ticket to fly her off to a hotel somewhere and took turns performing all kinds of sex acts on her and one of them got her pregnant with a little bastard you thought was yours for you to raise? How would you like that?

Have you ever had a friend, relative, coworker, or acquaintance whose wife committed adultery? It is a really painful thing, and it is also a defiling thing for a wife to do.

the difference with swingers,is the husband wants his wife to commit adultery with you,and yes adultery is painful,but this is a dog eat dog world if you haven't noticed.the same guy who's wife I'm banging wouldn't help me out financially if I needed it,so why care?

I don't care about highest moral goods,I care about my pleasure.it's easy to say you wouldn't commit adultery when you have a luxury of having a wife,try being in my shoes,no free sex,and you would consider it.

most women that like me,are married.do I reject them?

getting a ethiopian virgin or indigenous indian virgin is possible if you have money to move there,or take them here,which is impossible unless youre rich.

swingers clubs is a sure way to get laid for someone like me.disabled.not rich.my parents didnt leave me a single cent.

I am a christian,just that I don't care about following morals because I'm saved by grace thru faith not works.

[kangarunner]

When I lived in Las Vegas in 2014 some guy told me about that site. One thing I noticed is that if you check different cities on FetLife, you will notice a disproportionate amount of users from the United States. I think it's due to the sexual desert and fact that men and women in America are not open about sex with each other. I still literally have no idea why women in America are so guarded and closed off about sex. They want houses. They want money. They want resources. And the man is the mule to get them those things.

If you look at cities in the US on FetLife, you'll find 10x-50x more users than a similar size (population) city in another country.

For any person wanting to make money on sex related stuff, the US is probably the best market.

While we're talking swingers, I heard there's a place here in Medellin that has multiple floors where everyone f***s each other orgy style. But you have to bring a girl with you.

[MrMan]

Swingers means married couples who go out to look for partners for adultery.

Why would you want to commit adultery with another man's wife? That's evil and contributes to the further sluttification of women.

why wouldn't I?Give me a good reason not to commit adultery with another man's wife ,since it's free sex without going on dates?

and white christians have let the 'sluttiness'of women go haywire since the start of 'dating'their cucked little social set up.it's either virgins or sluts.since all women are sluts,sleep with married women for free.it's easy.

I wouldn't reject a married woman for sex,it makes no sense,when sex is so scarce here in the west.

the practical ideal is to impregnate a married woman,and make the husband unwittingly raise your child.that's evolutionary success to be fully honest.

You treat having sex as if it is the highest moral good.

You also swing back and forth. You talk about being a pagan, then Muslim, then Christian. You want to marry an Ethiopian virgin, then an Indian indigenous virgin, then open a Christian orphanage. Now you write about having sex with married women.

What if you got yourself a sweet little virgin Ethiopian or Indian indigenous wife or a pretty little blind or orphan Indian girl, then posters from HA paid for her ticket to fly her off to a hotel somewhere and took turns performing all kinds of sex acts on her and one of them got her pregnant with a little bastard you thought was yours for you to raise? How would you like that?

Have you ever had a friend, relative, coworker, or acquaintance whose wife committed adultery? It is a really painful thing, and it is also a defiling thing for a wife to do.

the difference with swingers,is the husband wants his wife to commit adultery with you,and yes adultery is painful,but this is a dog eat dog world if you haven't noticed.the same guy who's wife I'm banging wouldn't help me out financially if I needed it,so why care?

If someone doesn't give you money, why should you commit adultery with his wife? If he doesn't give or lend you money, will you steal his money also? It's worse to have someone commit adultery with your wife than it is to have money stolen from you.

I don't care about highest moral goods,I care about my pleasure.it's easy to say you wouldn't commit adultery when you have a luxury of having a wife,try being in my shoes,no free sex,and you would consider it.

I went without sleeping with a woman for over 27 years (intentionally) until I got married. To be fair, the first decade of that probably wasn't too hard.

Do you apply the same reasoning to wealth. If you don't have a job or a lot of money to buy a car does that make it okay to carjack someone?

most women that like me,are married.do I reject them?

getting a ethiopian virgin or indigenous indian virgin is possible if you have money to move there,or take them here,which is impossible unless youre rich.

swingers clubs is a sure way to get laid for someone like me.disabled.not rich.my parents didnt leave me a single cent.

I am a christian,just that I don't care about following morals because I'm saved by grace thru faith not works.
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[MrMan]

Swingers means married couples who go out to look for partners for adultery.

Why would you want to commit adultery with another man's wife? That's evil and contributes to the further sluttification of women.

why wouldn't I?Give me a good reason not to commit adultery with another man's wife ,since it's free sex without going on dates?

and white christians have let the 'sluttiness'of women go haywire since the start of 'dating'their cucked little social set up.it's either virgins or sluts.since all women are sluts,sleep with married women for free.it's easy.

I wouldn't reject a married woman for sex,it makes no sense,when sex is so scarce here in the west.

the practical ideal is to impregnate a married woman,and make the husband unwittingly raise your child.that's evolutionary success to be fully honest.

You treat having sex as if it is the highest moral good.

You also swing back and forth. You talk about being a pagan, then Muslim, then Christian. You want to marry an Ethiopian virgin, then an Indian indigenous virgin, then open a Christian orphanage. Now you write about having sex with married women.

What if you got yourself a sweet little virgin Ethiopian or Indian indigenous wife or a pretty little blind or orphan Indian girl, then posters from HA paid for her ticket to fly her off to a hotel somewhere and took turns performing all kinds of sex acts on her and one of them got her pregnant with a little bastard you thought was yours for you to raise? How would you like that?

Have you ever had a friend, relative, coworker, or acquaintance whose wife committed adultery? It is a really painful thing, and it is also a defiling thing for a wife to do.

the difference with swingers,is the husband wants his wife to commit adultery with you,and yes adultery is painful,but this is a dog eat dog world if you haven't noticed.the same guy who's wife I'm banging wouldn't help me out financially if I needed it,so why care?

If he won't give you money, is that a reason to commit adultery with his wife? If he won't give you money, is that justification to steal his money, too? It's worse to have someone defile your wife than it is to have some money stolen.

If a man told you he had a fetish that involved you stabbing him in the stomach, would you do that? I would hope not. Even if he really wants that, it's bad for him. These swingers who want someone to have sex with their wives, or don't like it but allow it so they can sleep around but their wives supposedly won't get angry about it.. they want something harmful for themselves and their wives. I hear their marriages don't tend to last, either. If you joined in, you would be defiling the woman and yourself, doing something you should not.

I don't care about highest moral goods,I care about my pleasure.it's easy to say you wouldn't commit adultery when you have a luxury of having a wife,try being in my shoes,no free sex,and you would consider it.

I was a virgin when I got married at 27. Fornication is a sin. You should run away from it. I managed to make it 27 years. To be fair, the first ten years or so of that wasn't that tough. I had to avoid certain situations where I faced some temptation during that time.

most women that like me,are married.do I reject them?

Definitely.

getting a ethiopian virgin or indigenous indian virgin is possible if you have money to move there,or take them here,which is impossible unless youre rich.

So, do you think $8K or $10K or whatever the number is makes someone 'rich.'

swingers clubs is a sure way to get laid for someone like me.disabled.not rich.my parents didnt leave me a single cent.

Treatment for STDs could end up costing you money if you go that route.

I am a christian,just that I don't care about following morals because I'm saved by grace thru faith not works.

What did Jesus say?

Matthew 7
21 “Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. 22 Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’ 23 And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!’
(NKJV)

And Paul is the one who emphasized salvation by grace. Look at what he wrote about the righteous judgment of God in Romans 2.

6 who “will render to each one according to his deeds”: 7 eternal life to those who by patient continuance in doing good seek for glory, honor, and immortality; 8 but to those who are self-seeking and do not obey the truth, but obey unrighteousness—indignation and wrath,
(NKJV)

Galatians 6
7 Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. 8 For he who sows to his flesh will of the flesh reap corruption, but he who sows to the Spirit will of the Spirit reap everlasting life.
(NKJV)

Paul speaking in Acts 26:20
20 but declared first to those in Damascus and in Jerusalem, and throughout all the region of Judea, and then to the Gentiles, that they should repent, turn to God, and do works befitting repentance.
(NKJV)

If you want a wife to have regular sex with, then you should try to figure out how to get God to be your ally in this situation. Men on this forum write about how tough it is to get a kind, non-slutty, friendly woman who isn't 300 lbs. and covered with tattoos. If you want a decent wife, then Who better to have on your side for this than the Almighty? You have to get on the Lord's side, though, not expect Him to get on yours. You need to submit to Him. How can you pray in faith if you are committing adultery, or even planning to? Consider Psalm 66:18 18 If I had cherished iniquity in my heart, the Lord would not have listened. (ESV)

When I was single, I prayed about my wife. One time I prayed and saw a vision of her. Later, I prayed more intensely about it and soon after, I met her. I prayed and asked God if this was my wife, and it seemed like He was speaking to my spirit that she ways, and later 'Yes, why don't you believe Me." Ouch. She got upset during a phone call. I wondered why, prayed about it, and received knowledge of the backstory as to why what I said upset her. She told me the story when we spoke on the phone next. We spent time together for several months. I was 90 something percent sure I wanted to marry her. My concern was I wanted to marry a good match, and that we never get divorce, and after I knew her, that I'd be a good enough husband for her and not lead her life off in the wrong direction. I was able to pray through on it until I was 100% sure of it, and proposed and got married without any cold feet.

There was a lot more to it than sex. I probably got some extra grace not to obsess so much about wanting a sex partner during the dating. that desire was still there, but seemed more tamable. I was more concerned with the whole person I was married to. We waited until we married to have sex. But after we got married, there was a lot of sex. It's good in the right context.

Your first objective should be to please God. You should put Him first. He can give you good things, including a wife, as you serve Him. If your attitude toward God is to oppose Him, maybe even temporarily, to get what you desire, that isn't a good thing.

[69ixine]

@MrMan I wrote that and this post during one of my most low and depressed points in the last 5 years,I have rejected married women and never fornicated with one when the oppurtunity presented itself.I intend to not fornicate.I am not an adulterer.but I am somewhat fed up with my life situation to where I wanted and have thought of commiting suicide.



and I agree on justification,faith is better translated as faithfulness and Grace as favor.those Once saved always saved types are misleading people to hell,whenever I get into such demonic influence,spiritreports.blogspot.com is always there to lift me back to the right path.

I am studying mathematics everyday now,and by the end of the year should score with the GED equivelant test so I can make good money as a pta or HVAC installer,my place is latin america and I've prayed about it and God seemed to answer in the affirmiative that that is the place for me to find my wife and find my happiness.

I have to develop a stoic mindset and perservere,I'm glad christ gives me that standard and that lack of nihilism,it seemed also as a OSAS I developed into nihilism and depression because anything goes in their system.secular life is depressing.it's ruled by satan,he entices you with glitter but few get it and they become corrupted souls.look at americans.

my OCD also really bothers me and brought me to my low point.

after prayer I am better now.

[publicduende]

I have always been curious about the idea of swinging, as a way to enjoy sex beyond the boundaries of the relationship without damaging the relationship with the spectre of cheating. I had my ex-wife, the hot Colombian, almost convinced to give it a go before something major happened in my life...and ended up divorced before we knew it!

I caught up with it here in the Philippines, although I never obsessively looked for it. I met 3 or 4 couples who had the kink of a white man ravaging their young and pretty wives. In one case the wife was not that pretty and had a bit of trouble LOL. In the others, they were much better than most of the girls I could have met through one of the dating sites. In one case the hubby would "lend" me his wife, who was a Manager at a BPO and, on one occasion, she brought one of her co-workers...which made it even more interesting!

I found out that what both men and women hate about cheating is mostly the secrecy/"behind your back aspect", rather than the idea of the sex act with another partner. Once that breach of loyalty element is out of the way, because swinging is always consensual among all parties involved (even if they are not physically involved, they are supposed to know!), many women and men confess that they are curious with experimenting. Most of those actually love the experiment and get pleasure from it, so they make it a more or less habitual item of their sex lives.

Then once the trigger is off, there's the entire plethora of kinks and experiences out there, from cucking to same room sex, to full swap, to dogging, orgies and sex with different kinds of random people.

From what I understand, there is only one thing the "lifestyle " does not go well with: desperation. It's much harder, to be part of the scene as a single man, unless you have something to offer, e.g. you are physically in shape and you have a much larger than average tool. In that case you would be a "bull", able to have a lot of fun, yet cut out from those experiences where a "real couple" is expressly requested.

I have also seen the swingers' scene naturally enforcing competition and segregation, more or less like the dating game. If I am a 50-yo out of shape man and my wife is a chubby with all the body bits going south, swinging is not a shortcut for sex with a hot 20-yo. I am much more likely to attract couples in the same brackets in terms of age and looks. Of course there might be exceptions if the mature couple looks amazing (diet, gym, relaxed lifestyle) or...you can guess...money is involved.