Mother just tried to hook me up with her daughter

[willymonfrete]

I was at the arab cornerstore getting some donuts and a iced tea,and This lightskinned black lady tried to set me up with her daughter,she was asking me to go on a dinner date and she was trying to make her daughter look good in her eyes.

She asked me if I ws looking to get married,and I said no.She said'do you just not like black girls'?I said I love black women and had two black girlfriends,it's just I am not interested in dating right now.

She started to feel my body and touch me caressingly.

I Feel sad for the girl and the desperation involved,but I am looking for that upright christian protestant wife that I can get when I have my money in order,not fornication and 'dating'.

One thing I do notice,however is that Black girls really like me and that's where it's at for me.

[willymonfrete]

I noticed I get the most sexual attention with a goatee.lol

my avi,my caribbean friend showed it to her two friends,and one of them said 'Wow,wat is hij knap zeg!'which translates to wow,what is he handsome say!and she said they were really impressed.

I also met my ethiopian gfs with my goatee pics.

I am gonna keep it as my main style.lol

[MrMan]

I was at the arab cornerstore getting some donuts and a iced tea,and This lightskinned black lady tried to set me up with her daughter,she was asking me to go on a dinner date and she was trying to make her daughter look good in her eyes.

She asked me if I ws looking to get married,and I said no.She said'do you just not like black girls'?I said I love black women and had two black girlfriends,it's just I am not interested in dating right now.

She started to feel my body and touch me caressingly.

I Feel sad for the girl and the desperation involved,but I am looking for that upright christian protestant wife that I can get when I have my money in order,not fornication and 'dating'.

One thing I do notice,however is that Black girls really like me and that's where it's at for me.

In the US, that seems kind of odd. Was she from some Arabic-speaking ethnic group or other ethnic minority? I get a woman from another culture trying to direct young men to a daughter they want to get married off. If it is their responsibility to marry off their children, Arab parents do that. I have a friend whose mom is Arabic-speaking who tries to get him set up with a potential wife.

It's an American black woman trying to set you up with her daughter, then touching you, she may think you are a desirable man, but feels self-conscious about wanting you for herself or she's not available. Or she thinks you are attractive, and thinks her daughter would enjoy that.

You might have a look that appeals especially to African American women. I had a friend who was short, thin, and pale and he said when he went to Greek women, the Greek women were beautiful but did not seem interested in him. They wanted big Greek men. But Polish girls made eyes at him.

I think I was especially attractive to older women. There were a bunch of older women in a community where I lived, sisters who had been given similar names. One, two, or maybe all of them were widows. When I wasn't around, one of them said if she were however many decades younger, she'd be interested in me. The other one said.... if you were younger.... I'll go for him now... or something like that. Someone heard it and told it to me. I guess it's flattering, and it probably didn't bother me because I didn't interact with them that much, but I am glad the was joking because I wasn't interested in an old woman. If I were single now, I wouldn't want some old woman whose as old, wrinkling, fat and saggy as I am. That's gross.

That's a weird vibe when there is geriatric attention toward a young man not interested in older women. When I was younger I worked with a construction worker telling me that he was chatting up this woman, telling her she was fine,
and she said she should set him up with her daughter. He said he told her no I want you, and he said they were performing a sex act a little while later, which at that time, was illegal in the state we were in. Some women might use that approach if they are trolling for younger men to feel out their interest. Stay away from those kinds, though. You might sin and catch something.

There was this woman in maybe her 40's or close to 50 back when I was in my 20's when I worked overseas. To me, she probably would have been plain when she was young. On a car ride to a restaurant with her and a bunch of ladies and me during lunch hour, she starts crying about her husband cheating on her. I had this feeling she said it so I'd know she had issues. Another co-worker said she and this Chinese lady in the office who sent dirty jokes through email were always talking about their affairs. The lady who'd cried used to come into our office in the morning if hers had no food. We'd bring food for each other. There were bananas to buy right where I got off of one bus to cross a bridge to find another ride on the way there, so I'd buy those just about every day as a contribution since the ladies in the office were bringing snacks and feeding everyone all the time.

Anyway, the woman came into the office and said, "Saya mau makan pisangnya MrMan" (except she called me by my name.) I was thinking that meant, "I will eat MrMan's bananas", but it could also mean, "I will eat MrMan's banana." It clicked for me when I heard a double-entendre about bananas that it was often used as a code word for the male you-know-what.

When I told the women in the office that I was engaged, this woman said she was upset. She said they were our mothers and we should have asked them first. She had wanted to set me up with her niece. She was a Muslim, and I wasn't marrying a Muslim. I just interpreted her slightly emotional response as her having a thing for me.

She'd also said some joke about this other white guy the ladies said used to be better looking than me when he had worked there before. The women cackled. I wanted to know what was so funny, and a coworker finally told me that she'd said to the other ladies that the guy was so good-looing that if you saw him, your panties instantly dropped to the floor.

Anyway, I avoided doing anything with that lady, but it wasn't a big temptation because she looked kind of old and plain and there were plenty of pretty young things making eyes, giving off vibes of attraction, etc. at the time, and I had to avoid some of that to stay out of fornication.

[willymonfrete]

I was at the arab cornerstore getting some donuts and a iced tea,and This lightskinned black lady tried to set me up with her daughter,she was asking me to go on a dinner date and she was trying to make her daughter look good in her eyes.

She asked me if I ws looking to get married,and I said no.She said'do you just not like black girls'?I said I love black women and had two black girlfriends,it's just I am not interested in dating right now.

She started to feel my body and touch me caressingly.

I Feel sad for the girl and the desperation involved,but I am looking for that upright christian protestant wife that I can get when I have my money in order,not fornication and 'dating'.

One thing I do notice,however is that Black girls really like me and that's where it's at for me.

In the US, that seems kind of odd. Was she from some Arabic-speaking ethnic group or other ethnic minority? I get a woman from another culture trying to direct young men to a daughter they want to get married off. If it is their responsibility to marry off their children, Arab parents do that. I have a friend whose mom is Arabic-speaking who tries to get him set up with a potential wife.

It's an American black woman trying to set you up with her daughter, then touching you, she may think you are a desirable man, but feels self-conscious about wanting you for herself or she's not available. Or she thinks you are attractive, and thinks her daughter would enjoy that.

You might have a look that appeals especially to African American women. I had a friend who was short, thin, and pale and he said when he went to Greek women, the Greek women were beautiful but did not seem interested in him. They wanted big Greek men. But Polish girls made eyes at him.

I think I was especially attractive to older women. There were a bunch of older women in a community where I lived, sisters who had been given similar names. One, two, or maybe all of them were widows. When I wasn't around, one of them said if she were however many decades younger, she'd be interested in me. The other one said.... if you were younger.... I'll go for him now... or something like that. Someone heard it and told it to me. I guess it's flattering, and it probably didn't bother me because I didn't interact with them that much, but I am glad the was joking because I wasn't interested in an old woman. If I were single now, I wouldn't want some old woman whose as old, wrinkling, fat and saggy as I am. That's gross.

That's a weird vibe when there is geriatric attention toward a young man not interested in older women. When I was younger I worked with a construction worker telling me that he was chatting up this woman, telling her she was fine,
and she said she should set him up with her daughter. He said he told her no I want you, and he said they were performing a sex act a little while later, which at that time, was illegal in the state we were in. Some women might use that approach if they are trolling for younger men to feel out their interest. Stay away from those kinds, though. You might sin and catch something.

There was this woman in maybe her 40's or close to 50 back when I was in my 20's when I worked overseas. To me, she probably would have been plain when she was young. On a car ride to a restaurant with her and a bunch of ladies and me during lunch hour, she starts crying about her husband cheating on her. I had this feeling she said it so I'd know she had issues. Another co-worker said she and this Chinese lady in the office who sent dirty jokes through email were always talking about their affairs. The lady who'd cried used to come into our office in the morning if hers had no food. We'd bring food for each other. There were bananas to buy right where I got off of one bus to cross a bridge to find another ride on the way there, so I'd buy those just about every day as a contribution since the ladies in the office were bringing snacks and feeding everyone all the time.

Anyway, the woman came into the office and said, "Saya mau makan pisangnya MrMan" (except she called me by my name.) I was thinking that meant, "I will eat MrMan's bananas", but it could also mean, "I will eat MrMan's banana." It clicked for me when I heard a double-entendre about bananas that it was often used as a code word for the male you-know-what.

When I told the women in the office that I was engaged, this woman said she was upset. She said they were our mothers and we should have asked them first. She had wanted to set me up with her niece. She was a Muslim, and I wasn't marrying a Muslim. I just interpreted her slightly emotional response as her having a thing for me.

She'd also said some joke about this other white guy the ladies said used to be better looking than me when he had worked there before. The women cackled. I wanted to know what was so funny, and a coworker finally told me that she'd said to the other ladies that the guy was so good-looing that if you saw him, your panties instantly dropped to the floor.

Anyway, I avoided doing anything with that lady, but it wasn't a big temptation because she looked kind of old and plain and there were plenty of pretty young things making eyes, giving off vibes of attraction, etc. at the time, and I had to avoid some of that to stay out of fornication.

Hey MrMan,How have you been?

I definately have a look that appeals to black women,when I have facial hair.

I shaved a few hours ago and look like this



When I do that,I don't get attention much anymore,and it could be because by the women's standards in my city,I'm too intimidating,as I think I look better shaven.It's how I prefer myself.

Interesting stories,btw.I like the idea of getting overt attention from women like I did in miami,but I would personally prefer if a woman is not so overt like this lady that started to feel on me,and just wait for a warm social situation to approach me at Church or a Bible study group.

It's always nice to know from the get go,that a woman is interested,however,I think this is all inappropiate and can lead to Sin.

In a way Christ has blessed me with my dsiability and subsequent poverty,because I can't get married until I'm ready to fully control my lusts,so I will be a loyal husband to my wife,and also So I know more and more what I want in a woman.

My ideal Scenario would be to live in miami,join a latino pentecostal Church and find a wife in that church or through groups etc

However,Seeing homeownership is my goal,and I can buy an adobe house,I would personally think El-paso would be best for me.I don't want to move to Amsterdam,due to the homeownership thing,the fact bringing a potential wife overseas has much higher requirments/costs,and also the fact prostitution is so easily available there,and I don't want to fall into Sin.