@willymonfrete
Is that a medical job? If you have a choice between going to Holland or getting a 45K job in the US, the medical job sounds better. As a single man with $45K a year, you could probably save up enough money to take a vacation overseas. It's still enough to live off of as a single man and save some money if you are frugal with it if you do not live in a very expensive area. If you want to get into something else, you can use your income to fund that. Having a job and having your life together makes you a more attractive catch in the eyes of a lot of women.
If you are in a medical role, you may meet a lot of women and you may be able to overhear and make sure they are __not__ at the doctor because of VD.