Tell your dating/sex stories

[kangarunner]

I'm in Starbucks right now in an upscale area of Saigon. There's usually some hot, classy women who come in here. Right now at 37, there's no going back for me so I try to go up to every woman I can. I think single women in their 30s are more sexually frustrated than ever. They have jobs, they do yoga, they go home and masturbate. I remember in 2021 I met this really hot Vietnamese power woman who told me she was a TV and commercial producer. She had a nice big ass.

I can tell you that ones in their mid 30s and up on dating apps are very frustrated. There's only reason they get on dating apps. Because they're having trouble getting with a guy offline for whatever reason that is. If you do match with one and go on a date, you can be sure they want to f**k.

There's so many nasty things I wanna do with the women here in VN. My dick stays hard every day here.

If you're in your 20s/30s/40s you should f**k as many women as possible now....to get it out of your system. You think older men in their 60s don't think back to when they were young?

[WanderingProtagonist]

I'm in Starbucks right now in an upscale area of Saigon. There's usually some hot, classy women who come in here. Right now at 37, there's no going back for me so I try to go up to every woman I can. I think single women in their 30s are more sexually frustrated than ever. They have jobs, they do yoga, they go home and masturbate. I remember in 2021 I met this really hot Vietnamese power woman who told me she was a TV and commercial producer. She had a nice big ass.

I can tell you that ones in their mid 30s and up on dating apps are very frustrated. There's only reason they get on dating apps. Because they're having trouble getting with a guy offline for whatever reason that is. If you do match with one and go on a date, you can be sure they want to f**k.

There's so many nasty things I wanna do with the women here in VN. My dick stays hard every day here.

If you're in your 20s/30s/40s you should f**k as many women as possible now....to get it out of your system. You think older men in their 60s don't think back to when they were young?

I guess every country is different with these sort of things. I can never be bothered with dating apps ever again though. I think I'm just not even interested in any thing with women anymore. I put most of the blame on pornography and other factors.

[publicduende]

The Philippines are also full of women in their 30s who are either single, or tired of being cheated on by their lovely husbands, and would welcome a foreigner as an intriguing sexual diversion.

This is a lot less exciting that it seems: most these women will probably be financially independent but at the cost of working extra hard and stress/comfort eating. As a consequence, they don't look exactly great, Most of them will have their stress eating chubbiness compounded to their pregnancy body changes.

They might make for easy diversion from yummier targets (younger, prettier, unmarried girls), a fill-in for a boring weekday, but they're not someone you would be proud of even mentioning to your friends.

In my honeymoon period in Davao, I met a few of these women, mostly via Tinder. I used to enjoy their maturity and, i.e., their ability to converse better than the average uneducated young woman. Some of them were decent to good and sex. Some of them had a nice rack of breasts, or a nice ass to play with. All in all, whenever the lust with them was over, the "meh" feeling would set in and remain for weeks, only washed away by a new slender 20-yo coming in.

[galii]

The Philippines are also full of women in their 30s who are either single, or tired of being cheated on by their lovely husbands, and would welcome a foreigner as an intriguing sexual diversion.

This is a lot less exciting that it seems: most these women will probably be financially independent but at the cost of working extra hard and stress/comfort eating. As a consequence, they don't look exactly great, Most of them will have their stress eating chubbiness compounded to their pregnancy body changes.

They might make for easy diversion from yummier targets (younger, prettier, unmarried girls), a fill-in for a boring weekday, but they're not someone you would be proud of even mentioning to your friends.

In my honeymoon period in Davao, I met a few of these women, mostly via Tinder. I used to enjoy their maturity and, i.e., their ability to converse better than the average uneducated young woman. Some of them were decent to good and sex. Some of them had a nice rack of breasts, or a nice ass to play with. All in all, whenever the lust with them was over, the "meh" feeling would set in and remain for weeks, only washed away by a new slender 20-yo coming in.

That is why I like anticipation. There was one women in her 30s. She was doing her workouts where I was doing. We did quite a bit of flirting. She was married to a foreigner. She was ready for action. I think if we would have had the action I would have forgotton her. This way I have nice memories.

I had this one girl late at the nightclub. She was a 8 or so. It was then fast action but I can't remember any details. That is why anticipation is king.

[publicduende]

That is why I like anticipation. There was one women in her 30s. She was doing her workouts where I was doing. We did quite a bit of flirting. She was married to a foreigner. She was ready for action. I think if we would have had the action I would have forgotton her. This way I have nice memories.

I had this one girl late at the nightclub. She was a 8 or so. It was then fast action but I can't remember any details. That is why anticipation is king.

What role does anticipation play in the two stories above?

[galii]

That is why I like anticipation. There was one women in her 30s. She was doing her workouts where I was doing. We did quite a bit of flirting. She was married to a foreigner. She was ready for action. I think if we would have had the action I would have forgotton her. This way I have nice memories.

I had this one girl late at the nightclub. She was a 8 or so. It was then fast action but I can't remember any details. That is why anticipation is king.

What role does anticipation play in the two stories above?

In the first I had not sex and she was not so hot but it was bettter than having sex with hot girl because in the former was anticipation.

Maybe this explains it better:

The anticipation of getting laid is far better than actually getting laid.
The journey there is definitely better than the destination itself. The mental games, the physical queues, the tell-tale signs. I personally like it. I feel like I'm hunting, and my words and actions are my bow and arrow. Watching the shift in demeanor is almost as good as getting laid itself. Knowing that with words and actions alone I've managed to pique his/her interest. I like the feeling of anticipation, wondering if what I said / did shifts them more positively or negatively. The moments before getting physical are absolutely the best. Feeling the adrenaline rising, the heartrate increase, the rise of passion itself is better than the act of it, to me at least. The feeling of knowing you did good is just as good if not better than the actual act itself.

EDIT: DONT even pretend like you have never played "the game". Because thats exactly what it is. and you can not deny the feeling of elation when you've won it. So get off your moral high horses, because what the f**k do you think you're doing on tinder/grindr or when you're at the bars on a friday/saturday night. You're hunting. Plain and simple. You can try to pretend that you're above it, but courting/ approaching is a game. You either win, or you don't, either way, its a game/chase.


https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopini ... ar_better/

The anticipation and leading up to sex, is better than the actual sex.
This may come from my own personal attitude towards anything I find enjoyable. I’ve seen to always have this predisposition that anticipating things, and the mental build up that I go through prior to the event, is what I look forward to most. I have a bad habit of not fully enjoying “The Moment” whether it be sex or another enjoyable activity, simply because I know that the feeling/pleasure won’t last.

Transposing that directly to sex, it’s always the hours beforehand and the foreplay that are the most excitable times for me.

Sex is great, but not as great as in my head.

https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopini ... is_better/

[MarcosZeitola]

That is why I like anticipation. There was one women in her 30s. She was doing her workouts where I was doing. We did quite a bit of flirting. She was married to a foreigner. She was ready for action. I think if we would have had the action I would have forgotton her. This way I have nice memories.

I had this one girl late at the nightclub. She was a 8 or so. It was then fast action but I can't remember any details. That is why anticipation is king.

What role does anticipation play in the two stories above?

In the first I had not sex and she was not so hot but it was bettter than having sex with hot girl because in the former was anticipation.

Maybe this explains it better:

The anticipation of getting laid is far better than actually getting laid.
The journey there is definitely better than the destination itself. The mental games, the physical queues, the tell-tale signs. I personally like it. I feel like I'm hunting, and my words and actions are my bow and arrow. Watching the shift in demeanor is almost as good as getting laid itself. Knowing that with words and actions alone I've managed to pique his/her interest. I like the feeling of anticipation, wondering if what I said / did shifts them more positively or negatively. The moments before getting physical are absolutely the best. Feeling the adrenaline rising, the heartrate increase, the rise of passion itself is better than the act of it, to me at least. The feeling of knowing you did good is just as good if not better than the actual act itself.

EDIT: DONT even pretend like you have never played "the game". Because thats exactly what it is. and you can not deny the feeling of elation when you've won it. So get off your moral high horses, because what the f**k do you think you're doing on tinder/grindr or when you're at the bars on a friday/saturday night. You're hunting. Plain and simple. You can try to pretend that you're above it, but courting/ approaching is a game. You either win, or you don't, either way, its a game/chase.


https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopini ... ar_better/

The anticipation and leading up to sex, is better than the actual sex.
This may come from my own personal attitude towards anything I find enjoyable. I’ve seen to always have this predisposition that anticipating things, and the mental build up that I go through prior to the event, is what I look forward to most. I have a bad habit of not fully enjoying “The Moment” whether it be sex or another enjoyable activity, simply because I know that the feeling/pleasure won’t last.

Transposing that directly to sex, it’s always the hours beforehand and the foreplay that are the most excitable times for me.

Sex is great, but not as great as in my head.

https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopini ... is_better/

This is a strangely good point... two of the girls who haunt me most are two I haven't f***ed. Whereas much hotter girls I bedded were all too easily forgotten. There's this mystique, this air of mystery, when it comes to girls you haven't had yet. Like this enticing dish you see placed on a table before you, still steaming hot fresh from the pan... and right before you're about to take a bite and dig in, it's snatched away and all you have is a whiff of the scent and a faint memory of a bite you never took.

[galii]

That is why I like anticipation. There was one women in her 30s. She was doing her workouts where I was doing. We did quite a bit of flirting. She was married to a foreigner. She was ready for action. I think if we would have had the action I would have forgotton her. This way I have nice memories.

I had this one girl late at the nightclub. She was a 8 or so. It was then fast action but I can't remember any details. That is why anticipation is king.

What role does anticipation play in the two stories above?

In the first I had not sex and she was not so hot but it was bettter than having sex with hot girl because in the former was anticipation.

Maybe this explains it better:

The anticipation of getting laid is far better than actually getting laid.
The journey there is definitely better than the destination itself. The mental games, the physical queues, the tell-tale signs. I personally like it. I feel like I'm hunting, and my words and actions are my bow and arrow. Watching the shift in demeanor is almost as good as getting laid itself. Knowing that with words and actions alone I've managed to pique his/her interest. I like the feeling of anticipation, wondering if what I said / did shifts them more positively or negatively. The moments before getting physical are absolutely the best. Feeling the adrenaline rising, the heartrate increase, the rise of passion itself is better than the act of it, to me at least. The feeling of knowing you did good is just as good if not better than the actual act itself.

EDIT: DONT even pretend like you have never played "the game". Because thats exactly what it is. and you can not deny the feeling of elation when you've won it. So get off your moral high horses, because what the f**k do you think you're doing on tinder/grindr or when you're at the bars on a friday/saturday night. You're hunting. Plain and simple. You can try to pretend that you're above it, but courting/ approaching is a game. You either win, or you don't, either way, its a game/chase.


https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopini ... ar_better/

The anticipation and leading up to sex, is better than the actual sex.
This may come from my own personal attitude towards anything I find enjoyable. I’ve seen to always have this predisposition that anticipating things, and the mental build up that I go through prior to the event, is what I look forward to most. I have a bad habit of not fully enjoying “The Moment” whether it be sex or another enjoyable activity, simply because I know that the feeling/pleasure won’t last.

Transposing that directly to sex, it’s always the hours beforehand and the foreplay that are the most excitable times for me.

Sex is great, but not as great as in my head.

https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopini ... is_better/

This is a strangely good point... two of the girls who haunt me most are two I haven't f***ed. Whereas much hotter girls I bedded were all too easily forgotten. There's this mystique, this air of mystery, when it comes to girls you haven't had yet. Like this enticing dish you see placed on a table before you, still steaming hot fresh from the pan... and right before you're about to take a bite and dig in, it's snatched away and all you have is a whiff of the scent and a faint memory of a bite you never took.

Thank you. For whatever reason many don't get my point. Maybe it is too 'artsy' or whatever. Maybe also too 'cuckish and masochistic' to enjoy the sweet pain.

I think you did not get my deeper point. The thing is you meet this person but you don't push for sex. She already is ready but you hold back. You jerk off thinking of her and tell her that.

What happens is so much is happening in the mind. More than ever can happen in reality. The weird thing that can happen after sex is that most of the anticipaton could get lost because there is only one story that dominates all the other memories and fantasies. Reality is then that you had sex. That's it. That is the only story left.

On the other hand if you did not have sex your memories and fantasies will be still there. The story did not come to an end. It still lives and even changes. So it is a much stronger story because they are many stories without ending.

Reminds me of people who do fishing and throw the fish back in the sea.
Or I could imagine one watches a movie but does not watch the end or same with a book. In that case the story changes in your mind.

One guy wanted to play with me table tennis. He did not know that I am far better. I played with only 70 per cent. He always argued about points and stuff. Then I destroyed him. His story was then dead. If we would have been same level the story would go on.