My sisters versus my Filipina

[raindreamer333]

There are a lot of things that can be said about Westernized women. Not all of them are bad, but my sisters certainly fit into a spoiled brat category.

Growing up, I was never happy at home. In my heart I knew there was nothing significantly wrong with me, but I just didn't fit into my family. My two sisters, and especially the older one, were spoiled Westernized brats. They were grumpy all the time and never feminine. They didn't dress well, and worse of all they were nasty and mean and were always in a bad attitude. Some people said - "Oh its just that time of the month." That "time of the month" lasted all day every day year after year.

My older sister has especially been a problem. She is completely narcissistic and appears to show no ability to care for other people. My younger sister has matured some what, but still have a long way to go.

I hate seeing the way my self entitled spoiled brat sisters would treat my parents, and especially my mother. They would whine and yell if they didn't get things their way. They treated my mom more like a maid. At the table they would tell her to go fetch her ketchup or water or milk instead of getting of their bums and walking 10 feet to the fridge themselves to get those things. My mom was miserable.

I couldn't stand it. Day after day was a living hell.

I have commited that my future life will be very different than the hell I grew up in. When I was around 18 or so I committed myself to finding a Filipina to date and marry. I refused to data western ladies (if you can call them that). I didn't care if my Filipina girlfriend wasn't pretty, or even if she was quite a bit older than me. All that mattered is that she loved me.

It has been a couple of years dating my Filipina and we are getting married soon. Life with her is a complete heaven. She is nothing like my sisters. She is sweet and caring, God fearing, loving, cheerful, romantic, responsible, and have a realistic view of herself, not too high and not too love either.

My mom absolutely adores her. After years of being treated like crap from my sisters, she just can't believe I have a fiance who is so sweet and caring towards her. She brings my mom flowers and is so sweet to her - Not like my sisters. OK, on very rare occasions my sisters do something sweet for my mom, like once a year at Christmas or on mothers day, but its the exception, not the norm. My Filipina fiance is sweet to her all the time.

My younger sister is growing to love my Fiance too. She is young but maturing, and I do love my younger sister and hope and pray she becomes more like my fiance.

As for my other sister, my older one, I don't think there is much hope for at all. She isn't happy at all we are getting married (it steals attention away her - the sickness of a narcissist !!!! ). She continues in her miserable, self entitled, mean, nasty ways and is nothing like my Filipina sweet heart.

You only live once on this earth, and if you had an unhappy family upbringing, make sure you find a sweet Filipina, and love her to death. Take good care of her and don't cheat on her, and she will make the rest of your life heaven.

To everyone still searching for their Filipina sweetheart, good luck !!!

[Think Different]

" I refused to data western ladies (if you can call them that)"

You touched on a pet peeve of mine: the fact that we in the West (esp. the Anglo countries) have this VERY bad habit of calling every woman a lady and every man a gentleman.

In my opinion very few western women act like or deserve the title "lady". That is a title reserved for distinguished, kind, generous, selfless, caring, gentle women, and those are very hard to find. The typical bitchy Angloskank can't come close to that. For me, a lady (at least by character) is someone like Grace Kelly, Jackie Kennedy, or Audrey Hepburn (notice they're all dead).

Same story for men: VERY few true gentlemen. Call me old fashioned, but gentlemen hold the door for a woman (hopefully a lady), say please, thank you, and, like ladies are kind, generous, helpful, and selfless, but still demonstrate the inner strength under the surface that they can knock your ass flat, if you disrespect a lady or child.

It sickens me to see the stupid talking heads on TV calling every man a "gentleman", even those that are serial killers, rapists, and general malcontents.

OK, I'll get off my soapbox now...

[globetrotter]

There are a lot of things that can be said about Westernized women. Not all of them are bad, but my sisters certainly fit into a spoiled brat category.

Growing up, I was never happy at home. In my heart I knew there was nothing significantly wrong with me, but I just didn't fit into my family. My two sisters, and especially the older one, were spoiled Westernized brats. They were grumpy all the time and never feminine. They didn't dress well, and worse of all they were nasty and mean and were always in a bad attitude. Some people said - "Oh its just that time of the month." That "time of the month" lasted all day every day year after year.

My older sister has especially been a problem. She is completely narcissistic and appears to show no ability to care for other people. My younger sister has matured some what, but still have a long way to go.

I hate seeing the way my self entitled spoiled brat sisters would treat my parents, and especially my mother. They would whine and yell if they didn't get things their way. They treated my mom more like a maid. At the table they would tell her to go fetch her ketchup or water or milk instead of getting of their bums and walking 10 feet to the fridge themselves to get those things. My mom was miserable.

I couldn't stand it. Day after day was a living hell.

I have commited that my future life will be very different than the hell I grew up in. When I was around 18 or so I committed myself to finding a Filipina to date and marry. I refused to data western ladies (if you can call them that). I didn't care if my Filipina girlfriend wasn't pretty, or even if she was quite a bit older than me. All that mattered is that she loved me.

It has been a couple of years dating my Filipina and we are getting married soon. Life with her is a complete heaven. She is nothing like my sisters. She is sweet and caring, God fearing, loving, cheerful, romantic, responsible, and have a realistic view of herself, not too high and not too love either.

My mom absolutely adores her. After years of being treated like crap from my sisters, she just can't believe I have a fiance who is so sweet and caring towards her. She brings my mom flowers and is so sweet to her - Not like my sisters. OK, on very rare occasions my sisters do something sweet for my mom, like once a year at Christmas or on mothers day, but its the exception, not the norm. My Filipina fiance is sweet to her all the time.

My younger sister is growing to love my Fiance too. She is young but maturing, and I do love my younger sister and hope and pray she becomes more like my fiance.

As for my other sister, my older one, I don't think there is much hope for at all. She isn't happy at all we are getting married (it steals attention away her - the sickness of a narcissist !!!! ). She continues in her miserable, self entitled, mean, nasty ways and is nothing like my Filipina sweet heart.

You only live once on this earth, and if you had an unhappy family upbringing, make sure you find a sweet Filipina, and love her to death. Take good care of her and don't cheat on her, and she will make the rest of your life heaven.

To everyone still searching for their Filipina sweetheart, good luck !!!

"My Filipina My Filipina". What a racist post. Does the moderator know you post such racist drivel?! Can't you just say your "girlfriend"? Damn. Such racist posters on this site.

I assume this is sarcasm, otherwise you probably don't belong here.

[globetrotter]

There are a lot of things that can be said about Westernized women. Not all of them are bad, but my sisters certainly fit into a spoiled brat category.

Growing up, I was never happy at home. In my heart I knew there was nothing significantly wrong with me, but I just didn't fit into my family. My two sisters, and especially the older one, were spoiled Westernized brats. They were grumpy all the time and never feminine. They didn't dress well, and worse of all they were nasty and mean and were always in a bad attitude. Some people said - "Oh its just that time of the month." That "time of the month" lasted all day every day year after year.

My older sister has especially been a problem. She is completely narcissistic and appears to show no ability to care for other people. My younger sister has matured some what, but still have a long way to go.

I hate seeing the way my self entitled spoiled brat sisters would treat my parents, and especially my mother. They would whine and yell if they didn't get things their way. They treated my mom more like a maid. At the table they would tell her to go fetch her ketchup or water or milk instead of getting of their bums and walking 10 feet to the fridge themselves to get those things. My mom was miserable.

I couldn't stand it. Day after day was a living hell.

I have commited that my future life will be very different than the hell I grew up in. When I was around 18 or so I committed myself to finding a Filipina to date and marry. I refused to data western ladies (if you can call them that). I didn't care if my Filipina girlfriend wasn't pretty, or even if she was quite a bit older than me. All that mattered is that she loved me.

It has been a couple of years dating my Filipina and we are getting married soon. Life with her is a complete heaven. She is nothing like my sisters. She is sweet and caring, God fearing, loving, cheerful, romantic, responsible, and have a realistic view of herself, not too high and not too love either.

My mom absolutely adores her. After years of being treated like crap from my sisters, she just can't believe I have a fiance who is so sweet and caring towards her. She brings my mom flowers and is so sweet to her - Not like my sisters. OK, on very rare occasions my sisters do something sweet for my mom, like once a year at Christmas or on mothers day, but its the exception, not the norm. My Filipina fiance is sweet to her all the time.

My younger sister is growing to love my Fiance too. She is young but maturing, and I do love my younger sister and hope and pray she becomes more like my fiance.

As for my other sister, my older one, I don't think there is much hope for at all. She isn't happy at all we are getting married (it steals attention away her - the sickness of a narcissist !!!! ). She continues in her miserable, self entitled, mean, nasty ways and is nothing like my Filipina sweet heart.

You only live once on this earth, and if you had an unhappy family upbringing, make sure you find a sweet Filipina, and love her to death. Take good care of her and don't cheat on her, and she will make the rest of your life heaven.

To everyone still searching for their Filipina sweetheart, good luck !!!

"My Filipina My Filipina". What a racist post. Does the moderator know you post such racist drivel?! Can't you just say your "girlfriend"? Damn. Such racist posters on this site.

I assume this is sarcasm, otherwise you probably don't belong here.

Sarcasm? Are you serious? Why can people say racist stuff like that and I get accused of racism? "my Filipina"? Are you kidding? Don't you guys realize what you're saying?

It isn't racism and you are too stupid or too indoctrinated to see why it is not.

Winston,

Get rid of this poster. A troll, possibly a chyck. No input just PC bullshit, manipulation and incitement.

[Montanaland]

Oh my god!! Racism has absolutley nothing to do with using labels for people from regions in the world. Your little sheltered life and the personal rights that you have in the USA were given to you through the countless deaths and sacrifices of our soldiers from WW1 and WW2 etc. A colombiana gf or filipina or slav gf label just points out that where their from. They are not from the land of the free...and that does need to be pointed my little sheltered friend. Do you need to be told what to do or physically pushed/slapped around at any whim..in order to understand the US and western europe only represent 1/3 of the world where their are human rights? This in my mind (different governments) is a partial reason why abbreviations are used.

[dano]

There are a lot of things that can be said about Westernized women. Not all of them are bad, but my sisters certainly fit into a spoiled brat category.

Growing up, I was never happy at home. In my heart I knew there was nothing significantly wrong with me, but I just didn't fit into my family. My two sisters, and especially the older one, were spoiled Westernized brats. They were grumpy all the time and never feminine. They didn't dress well, and worse of all they were nasty and mean and were always in a bad attitude. Some people said - "Oh its just that time of the month." That "time of the month" lasted all day every day year after year.

My older sister has especially been a problem. She is completely narcissistic and appears to show no ability to care for other people. My younger sister has matured some what, but still have a long way to go.

I hate seeing the way my self entitled spoiled brat sisters would treat my parents, and especially my mother. They would whine and yell if they didn't get things their way. They treated my mom more like a maid. At the table they would tell her to go fetch her ketchup or water or milk instead of getting of their bums and walking 10 feet to the fridge themselves to get those things. My mom was miserable.

I couldn't stand it. Day after day was a living hell.

I have commited that my future life will be very different than the hell I grew up in. When I was around 18 or so I committed myself to finding a Filipina to date and marry. I refused to data western ladies (if you can call them that). I didn't care if my Filipina girlfriend wasn't pretty, or even if she was quite a bit older than me. All that mattered is that she loved me.

It has been a couple of years dating my Filipina and we are getting married soon. Life with her is a complete heaven. She is nothing like my sisters. She is sweet and caring, God fearing, loving, cheerful, romantic, responsible, and have a realistic view of herself, not too high and not too love either.

My mom absolutely adores her. After years of being treated like crap from my sisters, she just can't believe I have a fiance who is so sweet and caring towards her. She brings my mom flowers and is so sweet to her - Not like my sisters. OK, on very rare occasions my sisters do something sweet for my mom, like once a year at Christmas or on mothers day, but its the exception, not the norm. My Filipina fiance is sweet to her all the time.

My younger sister is growing to love my Fiance too. She is young but maturing, and I do love my younger sister and hope and pray she becomes more like my fiance.

As for my other sister, my older one, I don't think there is much hope for at all. She isn't happy at all we are getting married (it steals attention away her - the sickness of a narcissist !!!! ). She continues in her miserable, self entitled, mean, nasty ways and is nothing like my Filipina sweet heart.

You only live once on this earth, and if you had an unhappy family upbringing, make sure you find a sweet Filipina, and love her to death. Take good care of her and don't cheat on her, and she will make the rest of your life heaven.

To everyone still searching for their Filipina sweetheart, good luck !!!

"My Filipina My Filipina". What a racist post. Does the moderator know you post such racist drivel?! Can't you just say your "girlfriend"? Damn. Such racist posters on this site.

I assume this is sarcasm, otherwise you probably don't belong here.

Sarcasm? Are you serious? Why can people say racist stuff like that and I get accused of racism? "my Filipina"? Are you kidding? Don't you guys realize what you're saying?

It isn't racism and you are too stupid or too indoctrinated to see why it is not.

Winston,

Get rid of this poster. A troll, possibly a chyck. No input just PC bullshit, manipulation and incitement.

Heterosexual men are possessive by nature so I think its ok to address your girlfriend as, "my filipina". Filipinos call western guys "Joe" all the time and no one complains about that.