newlifeinphilippines wrote:I want a relationship too. Then go to church in america. There is plenty of those girls. But your not probably christian hence wont find them. You are the WRONG demographic in philippines if your game is so good. If you can't court a good girl it means your not up to par , im not either LOL. Your not even there yet so I know who should be going or not. I dont have the confidence or skills to court a girl in church or elsewhere in america or elsewhere hence why i go even though im young. Philippines is a country for older guys or guys like me. Bottom line.
about the weight loss, well i guess that shows that is one more risk of bringing them to america. Im realy scared to bring a filipina to america for a host of reasons. but i wont tell a decent filipina that (educated hot) cause she might run off.
Have you ever been to church? I go to church regularly and most girls here have some kind of personality disorder. For example, in my current church group, there are 2 girls that are attractive. One is a white girl that seemed nice, but turned out to be bipolar and on tons of medication. The other is actually a really attractive Filipina, but she's too old for me (35), still lives at home with her parents, and just got her first adult job. I don't know exactly what's wrong with her, but there are just too many red flags for my taste.
As for work, I'm in the military and I'm an officer. I'm surrounded by attractive ENLISTED females that show me signs of interest, but I can't date them because I could get arrested for that. Other than that, the only other way to date is online dating (I'm short so I don't get replies there) and the party college that's about an hour away (good for hooking up, bad for anything more than that).
Also, in the US, it's slim pickens as far as quality girls (I think the vast majority of guys on this board will agree with me there) and once you get passed college age, 99% of the good ones are off the market. And you CANNOT court American women. If you are courting them, you can guarantee that there is a different guy behind the scenes f***ing them. I know for a fact that just about every woman I've ever been friends with/hooked up with did that. And these are normal women in the US with normal jobs. Total trash. Now, I'm not saying that Filipinas don't do this. I'm just saying that I believe (with my research) that you are far more likely to find a Filipina with good morals than an American woman.
Also, I find Filipinas (in general) to be EXTREMELY physically attractive, more than any other race. Also, they tend to be short (like me). So right now, I'm young, good-looking, and I like to travel. I'd also like to get married in somewhat near future. So the Philippines makes a lot of sense for me. I have absolutely no problem courting a girl for a very long time without sex. So she could be super religious and bring her chaperone everywhere for all I care.
Bottom line is that I'm looking for quality and there's not much of that back home. If I find the Philippines and all other countries to be the same as here, then I just won't get married. But if Pete, Outwest, and Dave could find awesome girls, then so can I!
