Happier Abroad is DEAD. My horrible Kyiv dating experience and how I was almost killed.

[eurobrat]

I understand you being freaked out but why post two threads about the subject?

Is it something you said that set her off? - or maybe it was something you didn't say?

I’m redirecting forum traffic

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[Cornfed]

Is it possible to assess how prevalent psycho behavior is among EE females? It was always clear that they were sluts, but I had thought they were a generally better class of slut than their horrible Western counterparts.

[eurobrat]

How old was the Ukrainian girl you were talking to? I'm curious if age has a role in how she was acting.

A few more questions to help understand more about the girl
Does she work?
Does she want children someday?
What family background did she have? Was she raised by both parents? Was she raised only by a mother? Did she have any brothers and sisters?
Did she smoke at all or frequently?
Did she have any tattoos or piercings (excluding earrings, belly ring, and a single nose stud)?
What were her drinking habits?

You say she lives in Kiev so already she will be Americanized because Kiev is the main go-to location in Ukraine for American and British expats, and sex tourists from anywhere in the world.

It's sort of like America. You won't find a good girl in New York City but if you lived in a Mormon area in Utah it might be possible.

The world is extremely interconnected now that girls everywhere are generally going to be less receptive towards guys. America culture is everywhere.

Even in smaller cities and towns in every other country they love American music and American movies more than the ones produced in their own countries. The only exception might be girls who are into K-Pop or J-Pop, and maybe anime. But then American music and movies is second.

Another problem is using online dating websites. If a girl is on a dating website then she almost always has some sort of issue. A girl will always have a large selection of men available to her and maybe she doesn't want them but if she doesn't, she'll keep looking in person for more guys, not the internet.

Another problem is you say she hit you and you was screaming at you? If she hits you then it is a girl testing you and if you don't strike her back and tell her to respect you, she will walk all over you. You failed the test so she interpreted that as could walk all over you. There will always be a dominant partner and a submissive partner, even if the partners agree on relative equality. You failed because you wouldn't strike her. Yes, it is bad to strike a girl but sometimes girls test a guy. You need to break all your Western social conditioning which includes never strike a girl. Sometimes a girl needs a loving strike to help her understand she isn't behaving properly or ladylike or to help her learn she shouldn't strike you and not expect to be struck right back. Domestic violence was legalized against Women in Russia. Men can strike their girlfriends and wives, as long as they don't seriously injure them or leave long-lasting bruises or marks. Sometimes you will need to interpret whether a girl is testing you or not if she isn't doing anything physical, but if she is verbally insulting you or threatening you like with death then strike her is necessary and if she is physically harming you then it is a test and you need to strike her right back.

More girls in lower income countries will have a princess attitude compared to places like America. American girls don't want to be princess, American girls have a feminist amazon warrior princesses that hate men attitude.

You actually believe hitting a woman will command automatic respect?

You sir are a newbie to dealing with women.

[Cornfed]

You actually believe hitting a woman will command automatic respect?

You sir are a newbie to dealing with women.

It will command more respect than not hitting them under any circumstances. This is one of the reasons the criminal underclass have an advantage in feminist dystopias.

[eurobrat]

You actually believe hitting a woman will command automatic respect?

You sir are a newbie to dealing with women.

It will command more respect than not hitting them under any circumstances. This is one of the reasons the criminal underclass have an advantage in feminist dystopias.

Typical cornfed response, I love it! Have you ever dated in Ukraine?

Please remember to vote.

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You actually believe hitting a woman will command automatic respect?

You sir are a newbie to dealing with women.

I didn't say hitting a woman would automatically command respect but it will teach her do not hit a man without good cause. In some cases it will command respect because girls want an alpha not a beta. If a girl knows she can talk down, insult, and hit a man and the man just takes it, she won't have any respect for that man. She will view him as weak and easy to exploit because if he doesn't strike her back and he stays then she knows she can get away with almost anything.

Some girls wouldn't ever need to be hit by a guy but some women do it to test a guy. I also didn't say beat a woman, I said a loving strike to teach a woman not to do something like she shouldn't hit a man for no reason. There's a big difference between beating a woman for the hell of it and a loving strike to discipline her.

[eurobrat]

You actually believe hitting a woman will command automatic respect?

You sir are a newbie to dealing with women.

I didn't say hitting a woman would automatically command respect but it will teach her do not hit a man without good cause. In some cases it will command respect because girls want an alpha not a beta. If a girl knows she can talk down, insult, and hit a man and the man just takes it, she won't have any respect for that man. She will view him as weak and easy to exploit because if he doesn't strike her back and he stays then she knows she can get away with almost anything.

Some girls wouldn't ever need to be hit by a guy but some women do it to test a guy. I also didn't say beat a woman, I said a loving strike to teach a woman not to do something like she shouldn't hit a man for no reason. There's a big difference between beating a woman for the hell of it and a loving strike to discipline her.

How old are you buddy you sound about 25.

[Cornfed]

How old are you buddy you sound about 25.

I'm unfortunately older than that and I agree with his post. Maybe this is part of your problem.

[Zambales]

Another problem is you say she hit you and you was screaming at you? If she hits you then it is a girl testing you and if you don't strike her back and tell her to respect you, she will walk all over you. You failed the test so she interpreted that as could walk all over you. There will always be a dominant partner and a submissive partner, even if the partners agree on relative equality. You failed because you wouldn't strike her. Yes, it is bad to strike a girl but sometimes girls test a guy. You need to break all your Western social conditioning which includes never strike a girl. Sometimes a girl needs a loving strike to help her understand she isn't behaving properly or ladylike or to help her learn she shouldn't strike you and not expect to be struck right back.

I don't know where you're from dude but any self-respecting western guy would run from this wacko ASAP. It's violent and disrespectful behaviour and any guy prepared to accept it needs their head examined.

[eurobrat]

How old are you buddy you sound about 25.

I'm unfortunately older than that and I agree with his post. Maybe this is part of your problem.

Ahhh Cornfed my buddy, I’ve traveled and lived in far more countries than you ever will.

You just don’t know when to back off do you.

[Cornfed]

I don't know where you're from dude but any self-respecting western guy would run from this wacko ASAP. It's violent and disrespectful behaviour and any guy prepared to accept it needs their head examined.

So you're running from lots of the chicks. Another reason why the bad guys always win.

[eurobrat]

I don't know where you're from dude but any self-respecting western guy would run from this wacko ASAP. It's violent and disrespectful behaviour and any guy prepared to accept it needs their head examined.

So you're running from lots of the chicks. Another reason why the bad guys always win.

Get out of your moms basement much?

[Zambales]

I don't know where you're from dude but any self-respecting western guy would run from this wacko ASAP. It's violent and disrespectful behaviour and any guy prepared to accept it needs their head examined.

So you're running from lots of the chicks. Another reason why the bad guys always win.

Lots? The vast majority of women I've been with weren't violent.

[Cornfed]

I don't know where you're from dude but any self-respecting western guy would run from this wacko ASAP. It's violent and disrespectful behaviour and any guy prepared to accept it needs their head examined.

So you're running from lots of the chicks. Another reason why the bad guys always win.

Lots? The vast majority of women I've been with weren't violent.

But maybe they want at least the potential for you to be violent.