She sounds serious yeah. She's been talking about her "offer" for over a year now. She is 26 and by Chinese standards is considered leftover, so she doesn't seem to have a lot of choices. Otherwise, why would she hold out for me like this? She could have found another guy. I showed her texts to Rock, Ethan_sg and Bao3niang, and they were all disgusted by her attitude. However, I wonder if she's just playing with me though. She seems reluctant to meet me in Manila. Maybe her life is monitored there and she has little freedom from her employer. I don't know. She's kind of secretive and evasive and dodgy.chanta76 wrote:Winston,
You serious? The one in white will marry you in exchange for green card and house?
You can go either way with this. Either lead her on and get sex out of it and ditch which i some guys will do but if this girl has experience she might burn you.
Just wow...i never met anyone that upfront . At least she is honest.
Rock said that a lot of mainland Chinese live in his building in Makati and they are evasive and dodgy if you ask them about their work there. It's like they are there illegally or in a gray area so they can't talk about it. That girl I know works in some online casino company, so she claims. Maybe online casino companies use light skinned Chinese girls to strip for online gamblers or deal black jack cards via webcam? lol.
Not only does she want a house and green card, but she wants 1000 dollars as a monthly allowance too. lol. She is weird. I keep asking her why she needs a thousand dollars a month in allowance and she won't say. Finally she said, "To save for our future". lol. Yeah right. Before she said she needed it for clothes and cosmetics each month. But I don't see why clothes and cosmetics cost that much, or why you had to buy new clothes every month.
It's all very vague. Not logical either. She's not good at giving logical explanations for any of my questions.
She also is under the false impression that America is a paradise and that everyone is rich there. She thinks even low income people in America make at least $5000 dollars a month! lol. So she thinks my income is puny. I tried to explain to her the facts about America, and how low income people can't even afford to go overseas. But she is stubborn and can't let go of her illusions about America.
Why doesn't the Chinese media dispel all these Chinese illusions about America? You have to wonder if the same elites that run America also run China, otherwise they should have long ago. Unless they're all in on it.
I also explained to this girl that if she doesn't love me then money and assets are not going to create love or chemistry or attraction. But she doesn't seem to get that. She keeps saying that since I'm not handsome, thin, young or attractive, that she will gain nothing from marrying me unless I give her assets, green card, and monthly allowance. lol. Man. Rock said that her values are obviously different from mine. She also wants to live in the US too. She doesn't seem to listen to me even though I'm older and wiser than her. lol. Stubbornness sucks.