Above: Photos of Mary Jane Ballon, a dishonest Filipina scammer who tries to hustle foreigners out of free money and free allowances, offering nothing in return. She pressures and badgers men for money and is very argumentative with an annoying personality. She has a daughter named Erica. She lives in Manila but shuttles around and sometimes visits Angeles City in Pampanga.
The purpose of this page is to warn anyone who meets her not to get involved with her, lest the same happen to them. I swear that the following is true to the best of my knowledge:
I met this light-skinned attractive Filipina girl named Mary Jane Ballon (she goes by "MJ Salvador" on Facebook) through my neighbor in Angeles City, Philippines, in 2006. She seemed nice and pretty at first, but then tons of red flags began to emerge.
- She was not tender, sweet or affectionate at all. Instead, she was impatient, argumentative, and hyper.
- She always hustles for money. She always has some expenses she needs you to cover, that are non-date related. Then she pushes you to shell out cash, shamelessly. If she sees something you are carrying, she will ask you shamelessly if she can have it too, often taking it without permission, not even considering that you might need it or it might have been a gift from someone special or have special meaning to you. It's almost sociopathic of her to do that.
- She always asks to borrow cash and never repays it. She doesn't take no for an answer, but makes demands as if she is ordering you around. It's very unfeminine. She borrowed 1000p from me to send to her father once, and never repaid it. And she borrowed 900p from me to pay for medicine, and demanded it as though I had no choice.
- She is also a hypochondriac who always needs to see a doctor about something, which is why she dreams of dating a doctor or marrying one, so she does not have to pay for clinic visits all the time.
- Going out with her is not a pleasant or relaxing experience at all. She always brings her daughter Eric, who yells and screams every minute about something and demands all the attention. So instead of getting to know her on a date, you spend the whole time watching her yell at her daughter while her tantrums erupt. It's very unpleasant, not romantic at all, and also very emotionally draining. When I complain about it, she does nothing and refuses to arrange a private with you without her daughter.
- She withholds physical affection and lies about it. When I tried to hold her hand in public, she would refuse and get cold, saying, "It is against Filipino custom to hold hands in public. Even married couples do not do it." which is a total 100 percent stupid lie. Even in the privacy of a bedroom, she does not want to hold hands or kiss, cause she always has a "headache" she claims, or she asks you to brush your teeth first before kissing her. And when I do brush my teeth, she just gives me a quick peck and then goes to sleep.
- She lies incessantly all the time. It soon becomes obvious when she contradicts herself and acts slippery when you confront her about it. When you catch her lying, she will not only deny it, but try to put the blame on you and spinning your accusations back at you. In short, whatever you accuse her of, even if it's true, will be spun back at you. It's a stupid denial game, yet her lying is obvious.
- Most ridiculous of all, was that she was clearly delusional. You see, her plan was to argue and annoy me, not give me any sex, love or romance, and then have me return to the states and send her a regular allowance (money) to help support her, all in exchange for NOTHING! LOL. If that isn't delusional, then I don't know what is. Yet if she had gotten her way, that's what she would have wanted. Only a delusional person would expect such a thing. Not only that, but it's an insult to my intelligence too.
Conclusion:
So basically, you don't get anything from being with her. No love. No physical affection. No fun. No peace. Etc. All you get is a pretty face who constantly hustles you for cash, lies all the time, is pushy and demanding, and argues with you if you complain about it. She is also emotionally draining to be around.
In short, she is a horrible deal. Lots of negatives and no positives. She lies and hustles for money all the time, offering nothing in return except broken promises. She is also very annoying and emotionally draining to be around. A terrible deal.
I hope this page will serve as a warning to anyone that meets her about what will happen if they get involved with her.
Addendum:
Here is something shocking and funny about Mary Jane Ballon.
She actually told me that she thinks she is "above" being a bar girl or prostitute, because she does not sell her body for money. However, when you think about it, she is actually LOWER and WORSE than a bar girl or prostitute, because:
1) At least bar girls and prostitutes EXCHANGE something of value for the money they get. But Mary Jane Ballon does NOT. Instead, she aggressively attempts to extract money from men by hustling them without offering anything in return. This means she is a pure TAKER without shame, honor, or conscience. So what she does is far more unethical than what prostitutes do.
2) She uses LIES and DECEPTION to try to get cash from men, and aims for a regular allowance as well. This makes her a SCAMMER, which is downright criminal and makes her a scumbag. At least with prostitution, there is an honest mutual understanding and agreement between two consenting adults (ideally). But with scammers like Mary Jane Ballon, there is only scamming, hustling, lying and taking, without offering anything of comparable value in return.
Therefore, she is definitely much LOWER than a bar girl or prostitute, not higher as she insanely claimed.
Furthermore, she was also totally delusional in suggesting that I go back to America and send her a regular allowance so she wouldn't have to deal with me in person while receiving free undeserved money. lol. And this after giving me nothing I wanted, except stress, arguments, lies, bullshit and manipulation. Yeah right. That was the dumbest tactic I've ever seen. lol
If Mary Jane Ballon had any real brains or sense, she would know that she would have far better luck at getting a regular allowance out of a guy, if she had given him all the passion, love and sex he wanted, and make his time with her an "unforgettable experience", so that he will be madly in love with her and serious about her afterward. That strategy would be much more effective at getting an allowance.
But I guess she's a very picky girl, and I wasn't attractive enough for her. So she decided to try to hustle and scam me, like she did with others (according to our landlady). Her big mistake was that she was offering NOTHING in return for hustling me for cash, and annoying me with arguments and stress. So her strategy was doomed to fail from the start. But she was too stupid and ignorant to realize that, or just didn't care.
I guess she isn't the type of woman who can "pretend" to like a man or force herself to have sex with a man she doesn't desire. Nor does she enjoy pleasing a man, it's not in her nature since she's too self-absorbed. Hence, she was a very ineffective scammer and hustler, and should have chosen another occupation.
Also, she had the most annoying and toxic personality I've ever seen in the Philippines. It can't get any worse. She was as emotionally draining to be around as it would to be around a psychotic American bitch. And it left a very bad taste in you afterward.
She could argue with you to death, and not be emotionally drained from it as you would be. As she argued with you, you grew weaker and more tired from it, while she remained the same. A total energy vampire for sure. I've seen such personalities in street hustlers before.
I can't believe that during the week we were together, I kept hoping that things would get better and that she would put out eventually. I guess I was thinking with the wrong "head". lol
..She is in Phase 1 of creating a fake image in office to get ahead in her life 
