Let my story be a lesson

[SadinAmerica33]

Currently 33 years old, black male. I grew up raised by a single mother and was an only child, she was extremely religious and was always very hostile towards men, I think that’s why I always wanted to be a “good” guy. Growing up I had one dream and that was to have a big family. I was bullied a lot and called ugly as a child. I think I was targeted because I was so small and nice. I was confused as to why kids were being so mean to me. I’ve always liked girls a lot but during high school I just couldn’t get a girlfriend. I switched to a new school in junior year, where the students were mostly white, and it was a huge culture shock. Teens were cussing out their parents, they had cars, they went to parties. I wasn’t allowed to go out to parties, and it seemed like a bit of a social barrier. That’s when I found pick up online which was one of the worst things I could find at 16. I started trying out some of their methods, but nothing was working. It got to the point where I hated school so much, some days I would skip and just walk home, or I would hide in the bathroom so security wouldn’t catch me. Not to mention my relationship with my mother was changing. We get along fine today now that I’m older, but my mom was a very difficult woman to live with and it was just us. She had bad temper tantrums and would often call the cops on me for little things. I used to want to be a cop but changed my mind because of this.

College wasn’t much better, got rejected left and right, even got threatened once by one a girl’s guy friend. I think I 1st found this site when I was 19, but back then I just believed everyone on here was hateful. Since I was raised in such a strict household, I didn’t start drinking until the day I turned 21. Drinking made me more confident around women, so I started doing it all the time. I would go out to nightclubs every Thursday, Friday and Saturday and get completely drunk. Environments like the nightclub left no room for feelings and being drunk would numb me to getting rejected. While I got a lot of numbers it never led to anything, most of the mornings after I couldn’t even remember the night before. I pretty much drank my 20s away in search of a girlfriend.

Last year I graduated from college, finally after 10 years of going on and off but I can’t find a job where I live so I was saving up to move to a bigger city. I got a job at a restaurant and befriended a girl that worked there. I worked with mostly younger girls and there was a lot of drama looking back now. A lot of the people working there were related so if you had a problem with one person you had a problem with all of them. One day me and this girl got into a huge argument over texting. Next thing I know the cops are knocking at my door and they arrest me. To my surprise the girl told the cops I was harassing her, I was quite shocked because I only saw this girl as a friend although there were rumors going around that I liked her. Spent 4 months in jail and had to use the dumbest public defender to ever exist. The district attorney was this fat woman who tried to make it seem like it was 10 times worst. Ended up making a deal to get out because I was about to lose my apartment and now I’m on probation. I have to pay fees and visit a probation officer every month. I graduated top of my class with a bachelors doing all that hard work, and now I have this stain on my record.

Looking back now I feel like my life was a waste. I spent much of my life defending women no matter what they did. I wish I focused more on my studies and took this site a little more seriously. I hope my story can be a lesson for anyone reading. Things I’ve learned about American women from spending a lifetime chasing them.

American women will always find something to complain about, they complain about getting hit on in clubs even though the main reason they get in for free is so that the club can attract and overcharge men to get in. They complain about being hit on but have no problem flirting and using their looks to get big tips from men when working in a restaurant. A lot of American women will openly talk about having multiple mental issues and not do anything to work on them, yet they shame men for having those same issues. When an American woman isn’t glued to their phone watching Tik tok videos they are complaining about something. They also seem to love drama, which is why they love bad boys, they love having something to complain about and having someone to complain to. If an American woman doesn’t like you, she will not tell you, she will pretend like she’s your friend and talk badly about you to everyone else. American women are very entitled and expect to be treated like princesses, daughters are considered to be more important than sons. This is why I think a lot of fathers let their daughters get away with anything and give them whatever they want.

I think America breeds women like this because America is obsessed with happiness. Anyone who is not happy all the time is considered to be mentally ill which I think is kind of silly. This is why if you work in customer service you have to be fake friendly and smile all the time. In America you’re expected to love your job, love people, always be positive, and any social issue is just swept under the rug. And anyone that threatens the collective happiness is seen as some deviant. There’s a big connection to American business and women. Take a restaurant like hooters for example, and even bars and the nightclub scene wouldn’t make as much money if it wasn’t for women. Women are seen as products in America which they both seem to hate and love to take advantage of. So, it makes sense that most men won’t speak up about their behavior. Especially in this woke age, you’ll just get cancelled and labeled a misogynist. It’s kind of like alcohol, it causes a lot of deaths and issues, but it’s become such a huge part of our culture in America that drinking is glamorized. It’s completely normal to get wasted to the point of blacking out at bars and clubs, which when you think about it, is quite dangerous and unhealthy.

[rehman]

Brother, this is ALL women.

[SadinAmerica33]

Brother, this is ALL women.

I certainly hope not, I can't imagine that every single culture has such toxic woman. Many years when I lived in a less shitty town than the one I live In. Now, a lot of girls from Russia and Ukraine would come to work for the summer. I didn't get that cold materialistic vibe that I got from American women. I was around 20 then and and working at a grocery store and I became such good friends with this Russian girl, she taught me a little bit of russian and I would use it on the Russian girls that would come in. She was completely different from the rude American girls that worked there, I just noticed they seem a lot easier to talk to. I also recently worked at a job and had a Vietnamese manager. I must say she is probably the only mentor I've ever had in my life. This woman was beyond nice, she gave me 2nd chances, saw the best in me, just a to joy to be around. Infact the last date I went on which was years ago was with a ukranian girl, again very down to earth. It could just be that these women were more authentic in the way they communicated. I've had American female friends as well, but it was just different. American women are all about the drama, all of them are openly negative towards men, it's almost laughable some of the things they say. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells because they get freaked out if you say one little thing they think is politically incorrect. Again, I could be wrong, but I just can't afford to believe all women are like this.

[88jose88]

The only way you can get out of this mess is by joining angry guy's crypto academy and learning how to Day trade crypto.You can make 100s of dollars an hour day trading crypto and you can go overseas and just use hookers if you're a male virgin(nothing wrong with this,it is out of your control and it is because of your environment).

don't focus too much on getting laid nor getting dates,focus now on your finances which can bring you financial freedom and get skills that can make you free with the record you have.that my friend is crypto.

I recommend you look at angry guy's channel here

https://www.youtube.com/@angryguymwa

[88jose88]

Oh,and even if you are ugly,most people are ugly but you can always go to a place where they like your 'type'and since you are a brotha you can dfo that easily in eastern europe in countries like poland.

I have talked about poland as a great place for black dudes for a while now and I think you would have a great time there once you get crypto going and can expunge the stain on your record and leave the country.

[SadinAmerica33]

lol, no i'm not a virgin, although I had more luck in my 20s and mostly met people off craigslist back when they still had the meet up section, couples, a few single girls as well. I've used a lot of hookers in my 20s and it's just not for me, maybe it's America, and I think it also has to do with the town. But a lot of the girls were on drugs and it's just not my thing, it doesn't turn me on anymore as it's mostly just fantasy, thought I've had some good experiences. honestly anymore since I'm in my 30s I'm looking more for connection then just sex. But yes I wished like hell I focused on money when I graduated high school, I spent most of m 20s looking for a girlfriend not realizing I would be so much happier building wealth. I have a degree but stuck in a small town that doesn't pay well so it's an endless cycle of trying to save up and move to a city where I can use my degree.

[my life is trash]

Oh,and even if you are ugly,most people are ugly

most people aren't ugly you shitskin retard. most people are average.

[rehman]

Oh,and even if you are ugly,most people are ugly

most people aren't ugly you shitskin retard. most people are average.

most men are ugly to women.

[Rygar1]

The prevelance of ugly men with average to above average girls is quite high in some specific locales.