Lucas88 wrote: ↑July 15th, 2023, 1:36 pm
Jsport wrote: ↑July 15th, 2023, 11:55 am
Thank you for your response. I just wanted to add also that the comparison you did between US culture and British culture that you responded to me a while ago was phenomenal, and the indepth knowledge of martial arts you also responded to me was brilliant. I also wish you well in Latin America. Peace.
Thank you likewise, Jsport!
If I'm not mistaken, you said that you have a Mediterranean phenotype, right? If that's the case, I think that you'd do quite well with the ladies in Northern Europe. Tanned/olive-skinned guys are seen as exotic there, at least for a subset of the female population. You might be able to capitalize on that advantage.
One such somebody here seems to think that I'm acting "racist" because I mentioned that White guys have a certain exotic appeal in some Latin American countries and can use it to their advantage, but the exotic appeal indeed works both ways. Latino guys can absolutely slay too in places where they are considered exotic. Some of them are total studs. I remember reading about how in California in the 80s there were White women who only dated Latino guys. Is that still a thing in the US? Latino guys also do well in Spain too if they look more European and I've heard that there's a demand for the Mediterranean/Latino phenotype in Poland.
Anyway, thank you for your positive review of my cultural comparison and my post on martial arts. I appreciate that.
Best of luck in your pursuit of the right woman and your HA dreams should you decide to pursue that avenue!
White guys do have a certain advantage in Latin America with the ladies, but at the sametime being white can also be a disadvantage. Many women may look at you with admiration, but at the same time can see you as too different from them and would prefer to date their own. As a white westerner you will be seen as novelty, but as a white foreigner, you may not get the best looking women that a country has to offer since most of the 8,9 and 10s typically date local guys and not white westerners. This is why i haven't been too fond of dating Latin American women, because I know that the women who are 8, 9 and 10s will be just as difficult as it is in the US. Dating 5, 6 and 7s is much easier amongst Latin american women . I have dated these Latin American women in the past, its the 8, 9 and 10s that are just as difficult as western women of that caliber. Another key point is that in pretty much every Latin American country they already have their own population of white people in their country who were born and raised there, some countries have more white people than others. When you see the local guys who are white, they typically date women who are 7 and 6s or below, and are generally not dating the fine latinas, its the brown guys who are typically dating the 8, 9 and 10s. That observation already tells you that being white in Latin America is not everything and that being brown is actually more advantageous with the fine women than being white.
Latino guys are not really popular with ladies in the US. It's in the Latino communities is where they are popular with the Latina ladies, but not with fine American women, generally speaking. Its the white American guys who are the most popular, then black American guys are second, and Latino brown American guys are third and all the others are practically invisible to American women including white American Latinos like myself.
lol yeah, I'm aware that blonde Germanic women have a thing for Mediterranean guys, and that may very well be an advantage for myself with Northern European women or even with blonde women of Anglo countries including the US depending on where I go. I have noticed that blonde women tend to be more expressive with me here in the US than other women.
No, you are not acting racist by pointed that out. Its good to to be honest about certain advantages that certain people have with the ladies in certain countries or cultures. Its like what I said before, being white does have a certain advantage with the ladies, and white guys can certaintly date the 8, 9 and 10 fine latin american women, but at the sametime if a white guy wants a fine latina woman, he also has to get in line and prove himself just like anybody else in that country, really no different from what you see in other western countries. But if a white guy is content with women who are 6 and below than I can say that Latin America is easy to date women.
Overall, you may not agree with everything I say about the social dynamics of dating in Latin America, as you may have seen something different since you have been in Latin America for a long time, but what I say is based on my own observation.
