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In my mid 20s my boners started to become less reliable during encounters with ladies of the night.
I suspect that at the root of this problem lie my social anxiety and excessive porn consumption.
Last night, during a night out, @Pixel--Dude and my brother both told me that Cialis allowed them to perform much better with their girlfriends and improved erectile function to the point where they were getting random boners even while walking down the street.
Sometimes I hire a big booty Latina escort but my dick lets me down. Do you think that half a pill of Cialis might solve my problem?
Dunno. Never tried it, or any drugs. I'm very wary of any pharma products, especially when the side effects aren't clear. Basically, I've limited my interactions with women only to those I'm extremely attracted to physically. Don't think I could get it up at all now without significant visual stimulation.
I never tried any Cialis or Viagra, either, so I couldn't say. From what I read, unless there are functional reasons like organ damage due to cancer or surgery, erectile dysfunction is mostly in the brain. It comes from stress, anxiety, a state of mind.
I have been stressed, overwhelmed by work for quite a long time now and that definitely hasn't played in favour of my libido or ability to have an erection. I surely don't have the massive erections of a few years ago, when I was living in Davao and almost every morning I would wake up with a girl in my bed. Yes, I was fitter then than I am now. And also yes, my levels of work-related stress were tempered by the stream of oxytocin flowing in my body.
One thing I noticed is when she's on the bed and the juice is coming out, I taste it with my tongue. I always feel more energized and refreshed when I drink some of the juice. One time she was gushing and flowing out the juice. I went down there to get as much in my mouth as possible. Mentally, I was slightly europhic. I think someone posted on here a study that the properties of the p***y juice can cause an increase in testosterone.
Just seeing these gentle, feminine women here with long, silky, black hair and their asian eyes makes my dick hard every day. I have to control myself.
Favorite Cornfed quote: "Here's another one to reassure you lemmings that the ongoing humiliation ritual that is your ratshit life will soon be coming to an end."
Tsar: "Roastie foids"...."Instead of Happier Abroad more like Escortmaxxing Roasties Abroad"
I remember in my 30's a motorcycle taxi (ojek) in Indonesia started telling me he Ktook some kind of supplement, Kuku Bima, I think. It's a local brand of jamu-- herbal supplement. I think it had sea horses and animal semen in it, but that might be another one I looked at the label for. I asked him what it was for. He said it let him go 'dua kali'-- twice. I was thinking, you mean do your wife twice in one night, or go twice on one erection and finish twice. I mean, I could do the first in my 30's, and I could usually do the latter on the occasions I tried to if I just pushed through the sensations. I think he just meant have sex twice in one night. In my 20's and 30's, that wasn't a concern.
I never did Cialis. I did Viagra maybe two or three times, part of a pill. A couple of times late at night in my late 40s, I wasn't as solid as I usually am, which concerned me, and I was also concerned because I wasn't 'ready for action' from just seeing wifey get out of the shower or at the mention of sex. She had to kiss me first and it can take a minute or so. That's alarming. I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I'm kissing her and she feels me and I'm not ready to go. So I asked the doc for a Viagra prescription, just in case. I tried it a few times. I can't say it made that much of a difference in performance, though. I didn't do a full dose. My primary care provider said it can give you a headache, so I tried a quarter.
One difference I did notice was that one of the times I used it my wife offered a second round of fun in the shower after we'd done the deed. I can usually keep going after I'm through if she changes her mind and wants me to continue, but I'd already gone limp. Maybe the Viagra helped me spring to action again so soon. Maybe I was poking into her or something when she offered. Anyway, in the shower, I could feel basically nothing during the second round. That can be issue for a second round if it's, right after round one, but this time the feelings were really, really dead, and I had to struggle to finish up. I was tempted to call it off so as not to wear my wife out, but decided against it, and strained and tightened muscles to get to a state where I could finish. I haven't used it enough to see if Viagra makes sensitivity an issue for round 1, though I have read that it can. That's something I have issues with normally, in my 50's, and lasting too long. I don't need that problem.
The half hour wait really impractical. I'm not going to just walk around with meds in my system just in case in my current health condition. Maybe if I needed it to function, I'd consider it. You have to take stuff half an hour before. Hitting your wife up for sex.... but in 30 minutes.... "Hey baby, let's do something.... but in 30 minutes." What would that be like?
I had first bought some L Arginine for something else a while back. I read it releases nitrous oxide, which is also good for erections. There are natural things you could take, a combination of gingko, ginseng, garlic, ginger, L Arginine, that are all supposed to constrict blood vessels that are available as capsules. (Not sure about the ginseng. That may just be for energy.) If I do suspect I'll be doing something later with my wife, sometimes I'll dig out some of the supplements and take them, just in case. I don't necessarily notice a difference. I haven't noticed decrease sensitivity with these supplements, though.
