Spencer wrote: ↑August 30th, 2020, 6:38 am
Again you say dumwit public duende for poverty place you stay have exacmente problem hi shine lite
and what he say 100% truth which point he say wrong for he advocator have child when income net worth at level and he advocate limitates excepting those very wealthiest so did you even open video
public duende by own standarding weakman because not have kid only trol poverty dumwit girls for funys and even you 45
why problem there we see peoples have 3 4 5 childrens and so lo money for resulting poverty left right center kid lifing street all where everywhere so maybe you like for your explotion agendas but there is so so big bad miserys because so many dumwit there doing what you saying shifting kid after kid after kid
how you look selfmiror all you says is perversions of truth or beter now and liarman sayings with worsting intention
Stop trolling around PAG, I am not Publicduende but last time I checked he was engaged with a girl who is all but poor and he has a successul business. So maybe you should get the story straight, instead of gaslighting people who aren't even here to defend themselves.
If I understand well and you're referring to the problem of Filipinos having too many children, it's a mix or lazyness (no contraception!) and the faulty idea that children will take care of the family, so the more children, the more opportunity that at least one or two of these kids will be able to support the parents and their younger siblings.
The problem with this belief is that a poor family won't be able to give one, let alone five kids, the opportunity to study and place themselves high enough on the professional ladder to be able to support a huge extended family. The few times it happens, say one the girls grows up to become a nurse and works in the Emirates, the pressure on them is immense and many times they end up working extra hard, sacrificing themselves and still hearing their family disappointed because they "don't make enough money to buy their second cousin the PS4 they wanted for Christmas".
The situation in the West is very different. There are good or better public schools, Europe has public healthcare and colleges, and having a kid, for a responsibility it is, is a viable choice for most families.
What you (and
@Contrarian Expatriate) will never get is that having a kid is the ultimate "manly" choice: it doesn't take any discipline or courage to keep all the income for oneself and indulge in international travel and paid companionship in lieu of a real relationship. It takes serious guts for a man to decide to sacrifice his earnings to start a family. I am not stigmatizing either choice, but I feel like laughing when people say the modern "alpha male" is the one who idolised his masculinity and basically lives for himself.