Outcast9428 wrote: ↑April 21st, 2023, 9:35 pm
MrMan wrote: ↑April 21st, 2023, 3:05 pm
Outcast9428 wrote: ↑April 21st, 2023, 12:56 pm
@MrMan Not four times in one day. I mean four times per day, every day, for a year?
I'm pretty sure I could now, if I didn't have to work a job and she'd have to be on top.
I don't do periods though, so I'd get a week+ off for that. But it would lose some of its appeal, at least the second time in the day. I'm rather certain I could have done so at 35.
I’m gonna have to express strong skepticism of that claim. Not because I think you are lying I just don’t think you know what it’s like to push your body, sexually, to it’s limits.
Also a week off is a huge freebie. If you’re gonna take a week off every month then you need to have sex 5 times a day on those days you can have sex in order for it to count. In order for 3 times a day to count you’ll need to have sex 4 times every day on those days off.
You mentioned that after the second time you’d probably lose interest. That’s a major part of the issue. Lose enough interest and maintaining an erection becomes difficult. Once you get to a certain number of rounds it really becomes difficult to maintain an erection. It doesn’t matter if she’s on top if you can’t maintain your erection.
Having sex three times a day is a hypothetical. I think I could do that for a year, every day. Would I? No, my wife has per period. I only have sex with my wife. She's not down for three times a day every day. So it is not going to happen. I think I could physically.
If you say never lose an erection on try number three, then you are moving the goalpost.
Even adding ejaculation would be moving the goal post, though I think I could finish three times a day for a year in my early '50's. After 24 hours, it doesn't seem to matter all that much if I had sex more than once or just once the day before. If it has been a while and I'm really 'backed up' and have sex once, then the next day there might be some more 'umph' behind the desire on day two. But if I'd been having sex every day for a while, having sex twice doesn't seem to affect how hard it is to have sex on the next day. I'm guessing three times might be similar.
At 35, though, no I don't think I'd lose an erection having sex three times a day for a year. Maybe a one-off. But I don't ever remember losing an erection in my 30's or not being ever to get one after a refractory period of 10 or 15 minutes had passed. I might lose one if I kept having intercourse after ejaculation and tried to power through to keep the erection going. Sometimes that works and I could stay at 90%-- maybe 60 or 70% of times I've tried. I rarely do that at my age. It works better if she's on top or in a butterfly position since other muscle suddenly feel sore otherwise. At my age, it's possible there could be erection issues on try two or three. Second try is fairly rare. And I just don't have intercourse a third time. I'm thinking of intercourse as me to completion.
In my late 40's, once my vitamin D got low, and I had occasional issues with going a bit soft after changing positions or positions that didn't do it for me. I started taking vitamin D. Just in case, I occasionally take gingko biloba, l-arginine, garlic, and or ginger tablets if I know I'm going to engage in some amorous activities with my wife. It hasn't been much of an issues, but it doesn't hurt to be at maximum attention. I used to be ready for action at least a moment or two after the clothes came off if not before. Now she may have to kiss me first and help me out a bit, especially if it hasn't been that long since the last session. That's the big difference in that department.
I don't do intercourse during periods not just because I don't want the bed to look like a murder scene. (I don't think I've ever done that __on purpose__). I think 'fornication' in the New Testament has some Old Testament background, too. God drove the nations out of the land that would be given to Israel for adultery, men having sex with men, people having sex with animals, sex with close relatives, sex with a woman during her period, and child sacrifice rituals.
If you are single, you shouldn't know all this stuff yet. Wait until you get married. Maybe I should pray you not be able to arise to the occasion to do the deed unless you are married and it is with your wife, but after that happens, that she has your full attention whenever the need arises.